How would you chat with strangers?

Keep up with the times and keep up with current events. Pay attention to the news, entertainment gossip, etc., as happening at the moment, but avoid those that are controversial.

When I was a child, I never thought about what kind of person I would become, knowing that when I grew up and entered society, I realized how complex this society was, and how insignificant I was. I remember that I used to be just a person who could play until I flew in front of familiar people, but I was silent in front of strangers. Of course, that was before, and in order for a person to adapt to this society, he had to integrate into this society.

In addition to the people you interact with on a daily basis, you also have to meet more strangers so that you can increase your knowledge and knowledge. I am grateful, grateful to the people and things that have given me support and help.

Avoid asking questions that are too personal. Remember, you are just a new stranger to the other person, and the other person is still wary of you.

Look at the people first. It's important to look at people. Because the other party's state at the time directly determines whether you should come forward and talk to you.

Or you're going to say something to the other person. For example, if a girl is depressed or even shows sadness, you shouldn't choose this time to talk to her, because she is not in the mood to talk to someone she doesn't know before. Smiling and looking at each other is not only a kind of respect and politeness for the other party, but more importantly, it can be used to relax the other party's vigilance against us, so that you can suddenly rush up to the conversation less nervous, which is more conducive to chatting.

Good listener. When chatting, always show interest and interest in the other person's topic. Talking is based on listening carefully to what the other person is saying.

During the chat, date and listen, looking for a point where the interests of both parties meet. If you are talking all the time during the chat, it will not only make the other party think that you are a person who is too annoying to talk too much, but also lose the opportunity to learn more about the other party because the other party can't open your mouth.

Ask the other person about their interests and hobbies at the right time, starting with the topics that interest you. Since you're chatting, be sure to talk about something that everyone can have fun about. Otherwise, chatting will soon be no fun.

Take the initiative to introduce yourself. Since it's you who want to get to know people. Be polite. Take the initiative to introduce yourself and make your intentions clear to the other person. Of course, it often works better if you can add a little humor and praise to your opening statement.