Looking at the women around my boyfriend with so many people around him, I was afraid of losing my b

Updated on psychology 2024-05-21
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It seems that he not only has good external conditions, but also good internal qualities, and you also say that he is a man with good qualities, so what you have to do is trust him but not indulge him.

    Since you say that you are a little beauty, you usually pay more attention to dressing up, and you can't become a yellow-faced woman as soon as you get married; There is also a need to learn to make vegetable dumplings or something, his fried first-hand good dishes are not as good as your fried first-hand dishes, right; In addition, you can go to the unit from time to time to pick him up from work or something, and use your behavior to tell his colleagues and friends that he is a person who has a girlfriend, and his girlfriend is still a beauty, so that those who are not self-sufficient will retreat.

    Actually, I think your boyfriend is good, and you should trust him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    This is a sign of extreme lack of self-confidence, and some of you are overwhelmed by happiness.

    Help you analyze it:

    1. You say that he is good and that is good, how much can you count how bad he is? There is no perfect person in the world, and the contradictions or differences of opinion between two people who are married and live together are often caused by shortcomings, can you tolerate his shortcomings? Can he tolerate your shortcomings?

    Second, a woman should be clear about what her strengths are and what her weaknesses are (what does he dislike about herself)? He can change the reasonable demands he doesn't like, but there is no need to change those imposed on his will. Amplify your own advantages infinitely, and he will always love you if you exist to attract him.

    3. Women should have their own independent economy, no matter how rich they are, it is best for women to work by themselves, even if they don't earn much, but at least they are not out of touch with society, and they can feel the pulse of social changes. In case of a change of heart one day, you can still support yourself.

    Fourth, women should maintain their youthful vitality, since you are a beauty, you really can't let yourself become a yellow-faced woman, beauty can't determine your success, but it can affect your success, if you have other suitors around you, that's better, so that your boyfriend also has a sense of crisis, but you have to show that you only care about him.

    Fifth, although you can't keep all women away from him, you have to let him know that you are sometimes jealous, men are also hypocritical, and he will be proud when he knows that you are jealous, but don't be unreasonable because of this, nothing happened to you but was caused by you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    In fact, I don't think a lover who can snatch it away is not a lover.

    Actually, you don't have to think too much, just be yourself, and since you're together, you have to believe in your boyfriend, and you have to believe in yourself and your love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Create your own unique charm You can't completely ** yourself in front of your boyfriend, how much you need to give him a sense of mystery, provided that the two of you love each other in many ways, I feel that you are too obedient to him? Maybe you can talk to your boyfriend about your current concerns.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can only think about it, if he changes his mind, it's something that no one can stop, instead of spending it in tension and anxiety, it's better to want to open it, it's yours after all, give him and yourself a little free space, so maybe it will keep his heart.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Marry him first, and then have a child, and when he has a child, he doesn't dare to look for a mistress, he has to find a mistress.

    You post his photo on Weibo

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Confident, generous, trusting.

    Enhance your charm and cultivation.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think you can tell him about your worries, and if he really loves you, then he will find a way not to make you so scared!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    He dares to abandon you and I beat him ......

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think first of all, we should trust each other, and then we should be calm in our mentality, the people who love you will love you after all, and the people who don't love you can't keep them.

    But again, trust is important. If you are always suspicious, he will perceive that you are suspicious of him, that you don't trust him, and then the relationship may become distant. But if you trust him enough, he will also perceive it.

    He might wonder how a woman who trusts me so much and loves me can fail her.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Instill a correct view of love when you are together. It is loyalty. Get into the steps of getting married as early as possible. For bad signs, extinguish them as soon as possible.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Do more with him. Love, let him grass your black b

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you have time, just spend more time with them, talk to them more, don't make them feel lonely, feel lonely, in fact, they don't need much now, I wish your grandparents happiness and health.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The tree wants to be quiet and the wind does not stop, the child wants to raise but does not wait, while the grandparents are still alive, care more about them.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You love them, so take them to loss! Just do your own thing.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's better to take good care of them with the time they are bothered.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Too young, not broad-minded, and deep down quite inferior, maybe it doesn't sound good, think carefully about yourself if you are like this, maybe you are quite confident on the surface, in fact, there is a very fragile place in your heart.

    Take your time, as you get older and more experienced, many things, your perception of people will change, and you are only in the initial stage of getting along with people.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If I don't say oh to my boyfriend, I'll solve it myself, warn them, or solve it privately, it's obvious that they'll kick their noses in the face, you have a good temper = = that group of women are really shameless, I'm sorry, although it's not the answer you want, but I hope it helps you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Just say you don't like those women to get entangled with him, look at what he says.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    What you can't see, it's hard to find.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Just set up a new vest to log in and ask questions.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I feel the same way. Because now the network is developed. Everyone can go online and communicate with like-minded people, and you don't have to pay attention to things you don't care about because of what people around you like.

    That's why you use the Internet a lot. Then there is the development of society. Life becomes abundant.

    There are more and more interesting things around us. So everyone's interests will be more or less different.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Make yourself stronger, and you'll have more friends.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Either it's your personality hobby"Withdrawn"(no pejorative).

    Either that, or you're not born at the right time.

    After all, if you can ask such a question, it means that you are already very dissatisfied with the situation you are in) It is enough for a person to have a few close friends in his life.

    Why do you want to surround yourself with people who are interested in the same interests?

    Everyone has to learn to adapt.

    Because circumstances don't change in the direction you alone want.

    Or change shoes to a new environment.

    Either adapt to the current environment.

    Remember: confidants are hard to find.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Long live understanding, and see yourself from someone else's point of view.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    。。。It's self-inflicted. Those who should leave can't stay, and those who shouldn't go can't be driven away. Go with the flow

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    When you're afraid of the people around you, they're afraid of losing you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Who will live with you for the rest of your life, cherish the present, only care about what you once had, and don't care about eternity.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Life is like this, some people have left and some people have come again, and the heart is roaring is the best choice.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Of course, I am afraid of the feeling of losing my loved ones, but people are inherently dead, so why think so long, grasp the happiness in front of you The most important thing is to go with the flow.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    There will be fear, that's understandable. So I have to live every day to the fullest, face my heart, I am more afraid of my parents leaving me, I am very afraid.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    The fact that he loves you is enough to defeat any girl you think is in good condition.

    Love is not a business, not to choose the best conditions, but to use your heart to find the person you want.

    The landlord should be strong and confident, his love is already your best barrier. If you're not good enough, how can he give up so many excellent girls to choose you?

    However, I still want to say.

    You also have to give your love something to rely on, and since you don't seem to be good enough, then try to be better. Are hard-working girls the most beautiful, you have to come on, I wish you a happy love.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Haven't you heard a sentence, love is like a handful of sand, the tighter you grasp it, the faster it will drain. Take it easy. Find your own sparkle.

    Let the girl next to you know that he has a good girlfriend like you and be discouraged. It's not that you're here to worry about everything. The more this is the case, the easier it is for you to lose him.

    Remember, self-confidence is your eternal sunshine.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Since you love each other, you should be confident that you have different strengths than the girls around him.

    If he still splits his legs, it just means that he is not good enough, then it means that he is not worthy of your love, in short, believe in yourself and believe in your feelings.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Love him with all your heart, and the heart of man is flesh and blood. He will feel that you are so attentive to him, but don't look too humble and let him understand your importance and uniqueness! See what unique sparkle you have and captivate him with this!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Be more loving to those women.

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