When we meet once a week, my girlfriend says there is no common language! What to do!

Updated on psychology 2024-05-21
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Then you can find your own common language, and ask her what she likes, for example, she likes clothes, and then you pick out the clothes and say, "Oh, the clothes you are wearing today are so beautiful, and you can buy them there, so that she will be happy, and she will have a constant conversation with you, and you have to always talk about what she likes, and then you will have a common language again."

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Spend more time meeting up and talk to her about topics that interest her. In fact, what your girlfriend said is the subtext of the breakup, instead of struggling to maintain it, you might as well start over.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You can call, chat online, **, text, these can promote the relationship between the two, even if you don't see each other much. In addition, you can also talk about each other's recent life situations when you meet, such as interesting stories with colleagues or classmates, etc., which can alleviate the embarrassing situation of two people not talking when they meet. And to have a common language, you can consider cultivating common hobbies, which is also a great way for you to strengthen your relationship.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Well, long-distance places are indeed the natural enemies of love, and they meet once a week, but they will also be contacted through the Internet at ordinary times, but they don't live together, and there are few topics.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    What your girlfriend said is an excuse, as a woman knows that she wants to break up, the reason for the breakup of every boyfriend and girlfriend may not be the truth, and she will find an excuse to say that we are not suitable, and if it is not suitable, find a new one.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think it's because she doesn't love you enough, even if she doesn't know much about your life and work, but because she loves someone, she will still have the patience to listen, so you should pay a little more attention to her life and work.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Then find a way to be together with 2 people or pay more attention to communication, if you are relatively young, it is easy to be affected by the outside world, and it is not possible to empathize with each other.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Then the two parties will find a way to change jobs to another place and be together, if the relationship is long, and they are not often together, it will really change.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If the interval between meetings is too long, this kind of relationship will not last, if you like your girlfriend, use more snacks, if you don't like it, break up.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Get along less and are very restrained with each other, and of course there are fewer topics. As a man, you can take the initiative to call your girlfriend more.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Then you go to talk to your girlfriend more, seeing each other once a week is a bit long, and it seems that your girlfriend is planning to break up.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Maybe there are too few meetings, and there is a lack of some common topics, so meet your girlfriend more, and naturally you will have something to say.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Then try to find a common language, combined with the actual search, usually you should call more ** text message contact.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Then you can meet and talk about more topics, and think about meeting to play and say something interesting within a week.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Everyone spends more time together and gets to know each other bit by bit, and slowly the relationship will get better and better.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Then you have to meet and chat with your girlfriend more often to understand her life.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    A common language is not proportional to the chance of meeting.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you don't think it's suitable, break up, your partner is a lifelong thing.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    That is, he politely refused, the twisted melon is not sweet, and he changed his girlfriend.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Then this woman is not worthy of your love, and if she is worthy, she will not say that.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    That's not interesting to you, forget it, find another one.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It means that she is not interested in you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Or don't know enough about your girlfriend, do you like him? Have you ever been in a serious relationship with each other?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Let's see what hobbies your girlfriend has, find common ground, and seek common ground while reserving differences.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Does your girlfriend have other ideas?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In that case, why not let it go.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    This is the premonition before the breakup.,I usually say that.,Except for the family.,It's generally really broken up.,Of course, women are creatures who want to kill your whole family when they quarrel.,After the quarrel, you take the initiative to show weakness.。

    At this time, you can pretend to be pitiful and show weakness, of course, if you quarrel because she scolds [you are a wreck] and quarrel, don't show weakness, it will make him even more angry.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's already obvious to break up without a common language.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Don't force yourself before trying really no common language.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    What is the common language, money, power, and handsomeness?

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Let's see if the rest of the places have anything in common.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Sneak a look, be found out as a surprise to her, on the way to pray that you won't see some sad things.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Your girlfriend may be rejecting you, thinking about her emotionally or trying to give up on your relationship, and then you pay attention to see if she has anyone else, I'm just guessing, don't mind.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Create romance for her and surprise her more.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If you know where she works and where she lives, it's best to check it out.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    How do you feel? The deepest feeling in my heart.

    How do you feel about it? Do you want to be wronged all the time, or can you bear what she says?

    You don't like to talk, no one can force you, right? It is very important in society to properly cultivate your communication skills!

    If she really is with you, she won't dislike you or anything! Think it out for yourself!

    I think that in this case, if you want to change, she should also pay attention, and she should encourage you more instead of constantly picking on you.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    You told her that I don't have a common language with you.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    In the implication to you, there is no common language to talk about a yarn.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    For example, she likes to watch Japanese and Korean dramas, but you like sports, for example, she likes to go shopping, but you like to stay home, whether there is any need to change yourself for her (change is difficult), decide for yourself.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Try to start with her interests!

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Try to pay more attention to her and talk to her more.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Just speak up and face reality.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    That's an excuse that she doesn't love you, you know.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Maybe you really don't know her well, or you wouldn't have a common language. If you still like her, discover her. If you know her interests, eating habits, etc., I am sure that there will be no common language.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Break up, seriously, if you get the broken kite back, it won't be the same as it was, and I've experienced this feeling myself.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Friend, emotional matters are more complicated, and your question is a bit general, so I can only help you analyze it roughly.

    My girlfriend says she doesn't have a common language with you, how long have you been together? Is it true that the two have been together for a long time, and there is a bit of a so-called "seven-year itch"? Or is it an excuse your girlfriend is looking for to break up with you?

    The two are not comprehensible. Tell me more about it. Maybe I can help you.

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