Divorce means unhappiness, do you agree?

Nowadays, the divorce rate is getting higher and higher, and I often hear colleagues around me complain that their lives are not happy, but there are very few people who choose to divorce, most of them are afraid of not being happy after divorce, but I think that this is not the case, they just worry too much.

The first thing to consider must be their own children, afraid that the children will not grow up in a complete family; I am afraid that the child will not be able to enjoy the complete love of his parents, and I am afraid that the child's personality and future view of love will be affected. But growing up in an environment where parents don't love each other won't be happy. If you really love your child, you should respect his choice, and if your child loves you, he will want you to have a happy life.

The second is that I am afraid that I will not be able to support a family, and I will not feel lonely if I have someone to accompany me, even if it is just a simple partner. Although I also think that two people will be better, the premise is that there is love between two people, if it is just a good look, is it different from sharing a house with a stranger? Sharing a house allows you to have new friends, but an unhappy marriage doesn't give you anything.

In the end, I feel that it is not easy for two people to come together, and it is not easy to live for so many years. Even if there is no emotion between two people, it is rare to really let go. And after the divorce, the future is unknown, and I don't know if I have the ability to go on.

But even if the road ahead is bumpy, it is also an opportunity to grow.

After the divorce, you will re-understand the world, you will grow up alone, and you will try to give your children the most complete love. So divorce is not necessarily unhappy. But it is not easy to accumulate feelings over the years, if two people can be together well, no one wants to fight alone.

Happiness or unhappiness, I think it depends on what you think! I don't agree with the saying that divorce is unhappy, if a marriage that is unbearable and loses feelings, you can't help but say that you are unhappy after divorce, sometimes it is a kind of happiness!

Akane got married under the condition of her parents' orders, but she and her husband are completely the kind of people who don't agree with each other, and they all want to settle with each other at the beginning of their married life, maybe just like their parents for a lifetime. In modern society, how can there be so many generals, the outside world is originally all kinds of disturbances, and finally they divorced peacefully. Although Akane's parents were strongly opposed at the time, she did not regret it, and she felt that it was good for her to live on her own now.

She said that she was forced by her parents at that time, and started this marriage in a daze, and after experiencing married life, she really understood how sad an emotionless marriage is, no expectations, no romance, no sweetness, and when watching others are all kinds of joys and sorrows for life, their marriage is as lifeless as a pool of stagnant water.

In this way, she and her husband calmly talked about this feeling, and finally negotiated a peaceful divorce. Now she is not anxious about the arrival of love, she said that one day she will wait for her love. She just needs to live the life she wants to live at the moment, just be happy, don't have to wronged herself in order to please her in-laws, don't have to force herself to deal with her husband, she is chic and happy, I think this is very happy!

If it is an unsuitable marriage, a bad marriage, or a broken marriage, divorce should be regarded as a relief, not an unhappiness, and it should be considered a blessing!

I don't think so, there are no such things as complete absolutes in the world.

Is it true that divorce will not be happy? Of course not. Some people divorce nothing more than to end a very unhappy lifestyle, to end an unhappy marriage.

Not everyone can meet someone who can grow old with you, and when you fall in love, you don't find anything inappropriate between you. But once you get married, many of the other party's shortcomings are exposed. There are even some men who beat their wives in frenzy and lose their temper after drinking, and you say that if you meet such a person, will you be better off in divorce than you are now.

Divorce is also about finding the next happiness. Especially in today's society, flash marriages and naked marriages are nothing new, but what are the consequences of these, they must be bad. Therefore, divorce has become an inevitable choice for these people.

When I was young, I was carried away by love, thinking that a marriage without material things would be more noble. After getting married, I regretted my choice.

A study shows that couples are now getting divorced at a younger age, that is, at a younger age. It is said that the seven-year itch is unbearable, and some people can't survive it for seven years. People like this, they still have a long way to go, and instead of living in an unhappy marriage, it is better to end it early and find true happiness.

It's been a few years since my aunt and my husband divorced, and there were many people chasing my aunt at the beginning, and I don't know why she chose my uncle. No looks, no money. Later, after having my little cousin, my brother-in-law became more and more lazy.

I had no culture, so I gambled every day, and when I ran out of money, I asked my aunt for money. Later, it was for this reason that they divorced, and every time I went home, I saw that my aunt had a much easier life than before. Her face is also getting brighter, and she looks many years younger than her peers in her thirties.

Therefore, the measure of happiness is not divorce.

That's not necessarily, sometimes divorce also means relief. People are like this, they always feel like this, they always think about what happened to divorced women and divorced men. In fact, with a divorced person, he should know how to love you better, when my sister was going to marry my brother-in-law, the family was blocking my sister, because I was afraid that my sister would find a man who married for the second time.

In fact, I just don't understand why so many people don't like second marriage, and divorced people don't carry this black pot. <>

People naturally have a discriminatory psychology against divorced people, and if you are unhappy and divorced, it is really good for you. If your husband is a man who often abuses you, are you still willing to be with him all the time? Do you still think that such marriages should not be divorced?

For people in today's society, divorce has become commonplace, and it is not unusual. And now the divorce rate is so high, so there is no shame in divorce. Many people feel that divorce will feel very shameless, although people are terrible, but you think about yourself from the other side is actually happy, because you are liberated.

If you love, you will be together, and if you don't love, let go as soon as possible, and don't hurt each other together. Although you will definitely feel very unhappy after a divorce, there is always a process for the opposite. As long as you grit your teeth and persist in getting through this tragic process, you will definitely see the results you want to see and the beautiful rainbow when the time comes.

So, there's nothing terrible about divorce, at most it's the inexplicable pressure you put on yourself. Divorce does not mean that you are unhappy, as long as you work hard to be happy, it will be waiting for you.

I don't agree with this point of view, just as I don't agree with the idea that "people must get married", why should we build the foundation of our lifelong happiness on another person, is it possible to be happy when two people are together?

It is undeniable that if a person can find the true love of his life, and two people live together in harmony and affection, this is a kind of happiness, and it is also a kind of happiness of secular concepts, but those who have been single after divorce, or those who are still single before they are married, are their lives unhappy? Is happiness only the kind of expression between married couples?

When I saw this point of view, the first thing that came to my mind was He Jie, the cute supergirl player of the past. The unhappiness of her marriage must be known to everyone, when she was working hard to earn money to support her family, her husband played games at home and complained that she didn't take care of the children. This man has already become a scumbag in everyone's hearts, but I want to focus on He Jie himself.

From her experience, it can be seen that the shackles of marriage are a major cause of her unhappiness, and divorce is the first step for her to get rid of the shackles.

When I watched an interview a few days ago, I paid attention to He Jie's recent situation, after the divorce, she raised her children by herself, took care of her own body and life, and slowly got rid of the identity of the yellow-faced woman in the marriage, and regained her girlishness. I think if it weren't for that unhappy marriage, maybe she'd be better off now. <>

A person's happiness or unhappiness should be decided by himself, rather than pinning his hopes on another partner who is not necessarily unreliable. Marriage is not the only means to ensure happiness, after all, there are those who can't live after marriage.

Marriage is a lifelong event, and when you feel unhappy in your marriage, you should consider it carefully, and as long as it does not involve your own principles and bottom line, you should continue. But if this unhappy state cannot be changed, it is better to divorce so as not to let the marriage over-drain your zest for life.

Marriage is a lifelong event

Marriage is not the same as love, if you are unhappy in love, you can break up with each other, and there will be no loss for both parties. But marriage is a matter of two families, and it is a lifelong commitment, once you enter marriage, you must carefully consider the relationship between each other. First of all, we must find a way to change the state of the two people in the marriage, to see if the contradictions between each other can be reconciled, generally speaking, as long as both parties are willing to make efforts to repair the relationship, there is no contradiction that cannot be resolved.

Work to change the status of your marriage

When you feel unhappy in your marriage, it is likely that there is a problem with the way the two get along, and no matter what conflicts you encounter between the husband and wife, they can solve them through communication. In marriage, it is common to encounter difficulties or problems in each other's feelings. If you want to divorce as soon as there is a problem, it is just a practice of escaping, and the next marriage is also likely to encounter problems, and you will choose to escape every time and cannot have a high-quality marriage.

When there are problems in the marriage, we must find ways to change the state of the marriage, strengthen communication with each other, learn to respect and understand each other, adjust the way we get along, and find a way of life that makes each other comfortable.

Divorce if you can't change it

If all the efforts you have made in your marriage and you can't change this unhappy state, then be brave enough to let go of the past. Whether it's love or marriage, it's all about making both parties happier, and always struggling in a hopeless relationship will only consume your enthusiasm for life. If because of a marriage, you become sad and dull and lose confidence in life, it is worth the loss, it is better to separate as soon as possible.

Sometimes you have the courage to leave in order to give yourself a new start and meet someone who is more suitable for you again.

should be divorced directly, and if there is no happiness in this relationship, it proves that the other party lacks freshness in himself, and there is no need to insist.

It is time to continue, because marriage needs to be managed, and if you feel unhappy, you need two people to sit together and communicate well, understand each other's thoughts, and be humble to each other.

You can talk to the other person first, communicate with the other party sincerely, and let him listen to your real thoughts. If the relationship between two people is really in a state that cannot be repaired, it is recommended to stop the loss in time for divorce.

Trust in married life is also the basis for whether the marriage can continue, if two people do not trust each other and are suspicious of each other at this time, then the marriage will definitely go wrong. If the husband and wife can have a certain foundation of trust, because they do not trust, they are willing to sit down and communicate, think about the advantages of the other party when they lived together before, and no longer suspect each other, the contradiction will be reduced, and the possibility of continuing to live will be great. Therefore, trust is also an important factor in measuring the success or failure of a couple's marriage.

The friction in the life of husband and wife, generally speaking, is that the head of the bed quarrels and the end of the bed, and the husband and wife do not have an overnight feud. After the quarrel, after the two sides calm down, if they can still sit down seriously to communicate and solve the problem calmly together, it shows that there are still channels and foundations for coordination and communication between each other. If both parties only talk about each other's mistakes and can't see their own shortcomings, there is a barrier to communication.

That means that fate has come to an end, and everything should come to an end.

If an unhappy marriage is emotional, then it is necessary to fulfill the responsibility, and parents should think about their children, so many people insist on not divorcing because of this reason; If you don't have children, you need to give due consideration to your parents' feelings, because you can't live selfishly.

The beauty of each other, why did you choose him in the first place, after the baptism of the years, you feel that he has changed, but you have thought that you are changing without yourself, looking back, can this be done without changing the age? Isn't that the firewood, rice, oil, and salt of life like this. People often feel the good of others, and it is also a way to treat themselves well, because it is too tiring to hate someone.

Life is short, don't ask one person to change anything for you, ask others to reflect on yourself at the same time, you will be relieved of many things.

Happiness is a psychological feeling, marriage happiness depends on the husband and wife, if the marriage feels unhappy, divorce is a relief for the two people, let go and let each other find happiness, as for whether to forbear in marriage for the sake of children, in fact, it has nothing to do with children, unhappy families are not good for children, and children will not be happy if they do not feel the warmth of home.