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Anonymous users2024-02-08<>I don't know if I should hand it over to my wife, in our family's money is not under my control, our money is in a fixed place, if anyone needs to use the money, they will take it themselves, there is no one in charge!" I think that money should be managed by someone who has self-control, or someone who can run the house, so that the money will not be spent indiscriminately, and it can also prevent the other party from spending money indiscriminately. I don't have to give the money to my wife.
I am, I never care about money, but I never can't get money, and my husband is the same. For example, if we need about 1,000 yuan for living expenses this month, then we will take out more than 1,000 yuan, and the rest of the money will be kept in the card and will not be moved. We need to save money for our children.
So we will have a plan to spend money, about how much money we need each day, we will have a good idea of how much money we need each day, of course, this is a normal expense, not including special circumstances! Special treatment for special circumstances. I'm very relieved of my husband, he won't be like others, he doesn't have a sense of money, he is a person who is very good at living, I don't have him to save money, although he smokes, but very little, and they are all very cheap kinds, he doesn't drink, except for gathering with friends.
In some people's minds, bargaining should be something that only women do, but for my husband, I am 100% comfortable letting him do his own shopping. I sometimes spend money indiscriminately, and I see people who are willing to buy what they like, but he never cares about me, because I don't spend much, I don't buy it today and buy it tomorrow. So in our family, we don't talk about managing money, I think as long as the money is not messy, whoever cares is the same!
It doesn't have to be for my wife. Of course, if self-control is poor, the money must go to the wife!
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Anonymous users2024-02-07There are several reasons why a man who gives money to his wife:
1.Pay more attention to feelings: This kind of man often does not want to have conflicts over who is in charge of money, and is even more reluctant to affect the relationship between husband and wife.
2.Wives are good at managing money: Some women are not only good at saving money, but also very good at managing money, and the expenses of the family are also very reasonable, in this case, the man will naturally give the money to his wife for safekeeping, so that he can have money when he needs it in the future.
3.Worry-free: Give the money to your wife for safekeeping, so that you can concentrate on your career, don't worry about financial management, and prevent your wife from spending money indiscriminately.
In short, the man who gives the money to his wife is not necessarily because he is afraid of his wife or has no ability, but may just because he values the relationship of friends more, or thinks that his wife is better at managing money.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06In fact, this is very cautious and normal, a man who hands over the money to his wife, in this real life, there are still a lot of praises, and then this kind of person is a person who is not too mature to say that he is prepared, and then he is generally a person whose wife is a little stronger.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05The fact that the husband can give all the money to his wife at least means that he trusts his wife very much. A man who trusts his wife very much will give the money to his wife. In another sense, he also loves his wife.
Someone said a man whose money is in**? His heart is in **? In fact, this sentence is not unreasonable.
If a man does not give the money he earns to his wife, and he keeps it himself, then it means that the person he trusts the most is himself, generally this kind of man is more selfish, and it can also be said that the person he loves the most is also himself.
And the man who can give all the money he earns to his wife, in his mind, he regards his wife as the most important. You can imagine a man who left the money and he was very insecure.
If he gives the money he earns to his wife, it is equivalent to giving his sense of security to his wife. It shows that this man trusts his wife very much and loves his wife.
Should men give most of their wages to their wives, on this issue, men and women must have different views, most men must think that they should not be handed over to their wives, even if they pay it, few people are willing, in their consciousness, who is in charge of the family's money, women generally want to buy more when they have money, can't save money, put it in the hands of men, they know it in their hearts, so it will be more reassuring, men are worried about women spending money indiscriminately, this is a point, There is also a man who manages money and relatives, friends and colleagues will feel very face-saving, and feel that whoever manages the money will have the final say, and there may be other points of view, but this is from the position of a man, but from a woman's point of view, a woman will think that most of the salary should be given to his wife, or even all, and a man wants to spend money with his wife, because as the saying goes, a man will become bad if he is rich, and a woman will be rich if he is rich. I'm afraid that some people are uneasy and want to spend men's money, and feel that men are used to spending money, can't keep money, afraid of going out to spend indiscriminately, eating and drinking, eating and drinking, gambling, etc., if there is no money, it will be relatively restrained, maybe there are many women's views, men have men's ideas, women have women's considerations, in short, if the starting point is good, they are all saving money for the family, then it is the same for whoever puts it in their hands, but I feel that it is more appropriate to put it in the hands of women, then again, Such a point of view is that we are the working class, with a fixed salary every month, and the income is not much, but if the family economic conditions are very good, maybe men and women will not pay so much attention to who to put in the end, however, in whose hands, do not use it indiscriminately, how much savings in the family should also know and understand each other, there can be no concealment, and there can be no concealment when spending money, so that everything is public, and it is the same in anyone's hands, as long as both of them want to run their own families well, they can put **, If the hearts of the two people are not together, it will not be good to live a ** life, as long as the hearts are together, it is enough for the two people to discuss it themselves. <>
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It means not trusting you, not having you in mind at all. I don't love you either.
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