Why are more and more parents spending money on naming their babies?

It seems that many families will have disagreements over the name of their child.

In fact, everyone thinks the same, to be auspicious, so that children can have a good name and a better life.

I used to read an article about the strange names of China, and after reading it, I really couldn't cry or laugh, it was really weird.

History. Three. 8. Alipay, Liu Chan, Qi Bao, etc., how do you feel after reading these names? At that time, I thought, which mother started this? Is it a professional pit baby?

Who would want to give their child such a name? It is possible that children will be ridiculed at school, ridiculed by colleagues, and even affect job promotions and marriage, because the name is too strange.

Then let parents use their brains well, and it is best to give a name that can make the child's life smooth, wealthy, and academically successful, and find an "expert" to name it! Hand in the baby's eight characters, and the money is not bad for money. This is the idea of a lot of adults who spend money to name their children.

Many of my friends spend money to name their children, some in the hundreds, some in the tens of thousands. I can't understand that I can't decide on my child's name, and I have to spend money to come up with it.

I think that some baby names have good meanings, and it is more important to recognize, read, and write.

I remember when Xiaobao was just born, about the name of the matter, we also thought about finding someone to help their children choose a name, spend hundreds of dollars to choose a better name, the name will generally accompany a person's life, some people say that taking a good name, can make the future life more smooth, the name can sometimes affect the future fortune of the individual, of course, some people will also say that this may be a superstitious statement, but the Chinese are superstitious!

From the sacrifices of the ancients, the lottery shows that the Chinese are a little obvious, now parents think that the name is good, the child's future fortune will be better than others, can not let their children lose at the starting line, of course, some parents think so, feel that their knowledge is not enough, help the child can not take a good and loud name, and then find someone to help pick a name! But there is also a kind of parent, purely the kind of lazy person, who sees that others spend money to choose a name, and they also want to have a fun time for their children! Catch up on the fashion!

Give the name to the child as a gift for the child's birth.

After all, the name is to follow the child for a lifetime, not a special case, or not to be an artist, with a stage name, under normal circumstances, this name will be used for a lifetime. Some parents feel that it is important to give their children a nice and talented name, so it feels worthwhile to spend money on a name for their child.

The family disagrees on the name of the child.

For example, if the old man is the same and the young man is the same, then when there is a difference of opinion, the best way is to either have one side give in and listen to the other party's opinion, or spend money to find a name company.

The name company will generally give your child a name according to your child's birthday hour, depending on which kind of child is lacking in life, and then add that item in the name, of course, parents want their children to be safe and happy in this life, so giving a good name to the child seems to mean to give the child a wonderful start to life.

Because of what? I used to think that the baby is a treasure, so it will not be easy to name them, and it is also very important to call his name, so they will not spend money to give the child some names that they think are particularly good, is it that a child especially wants to love him, so he is particularly willing to spend money to give him a particularly good name. Some parents have to spend money on their children, and the names they take are particularly funny, and then some special ones have connotations.

Maybe you pay more attention to the child's birthday, or Tujili.

It feels weird to have your own child named by someone else. Most of today's young people have little cultural accomplishment and think they don't know how to name names?

Of course, it is the importance of children and the desire for a unique name.

There are a few reasons why you might want to change your name.

The first is the name given by the parents or the hospital, and the child grows up and feels that the name is not good or the meaning is not clear enough and changes the name. Second, some people calculate the five elements of the original name and find that a certain element in the name is missing from "gold, wood, water, fire and earth", so they change their name in order to play all the five elements and achieve perfection. Third, the name given by the parents is changed because it is homophonic with a bad word (including dialect), which is unpleasant to pronounce or is ridiculed by others and cannot be tolerated.

There are four kinds of songs, and some people think that their original names do not match their own industry work and change their names. Fifth, some people change their names because their parents divorced and they don't want to use their original names. Sixth, some people change their names because they don't want to use their original names because they pass on to other relatives or other people.

There are seven kinds of names, and some people change their names because of the bad reputation of their parents and family, so as not to be discriminated against by others. There are eight kinds of pipes, and some people change their names because they break off their family and never bend their branches from each other. Ninth, some people change their names because their original names are the same as the names of their own people or their neighbors, or they are easy to distinguish who is who.

Tenth, the name is obscure or has too many strokes, and it is easy to be mispronounced or miswritten and the name is changed. Eleventh, you are divorced or have suffered other major blows, and you want to come out of the shadows and become a new self and change your life. The twelfth type is to change the name in order to get better luck because of the suspicion that the original name was not good.

The thirteen kinds of bamboo were renamed in honor of the event because they were reborn in some kind of event. In fact, the name is only the most basic label to distinguish people from each other, the main thing is not that it is difficult to hear or the meaning is too bad, we should not change the name casually, because sometimes the name change will cause a lot of unnecessary troubles to our enrollment and file management. In addition, when choosing a name, parents must first check the relevant name information and give the child a good name without having to change it in the future.

A woman's birth is a major event in the family, the child's physical condition, the growth process affects the heart of the whole family, especially the name of the child will attract everyone's attention, the child's name can not be too earthy nor too special, it is a rigorous knowledge, many people find that some wealthy families name their children, especially taboo, that is, "can not get too big".

In the past, in order to give the child a good life, so as not to let the child lose at the starting line, the so-called master will be asked to name the child, and take some names close to the gold, wood, water, fire and earth, and the wealthy family is not only a family's matter, but the whole family's business, so the name of the child is also to think twice.

Hong Kong gambling king Stanley Ho is a famous wealthy family, He Youjun is his son, He Youjun and supermodel Xi Mengyao's son is the eldest grandson of the gambling king, "eldest grandson" 2 words, you can also see the importance of this child in the whole family, so the gambling king also attaches more importance to this child, and gives the "Shen" in his name to the eldest grandson and named itHo Kwong Sun, from this, we can know how carefully the wealthy family names their children, the gambling king can become the gambling king, the name must not be bad, and the same word is passed on to the eldest grandson, at least it will not be wrong.

In addition to the pursuit of stability, the most taboo point of the wealthy to name their children is to get too big, and it is best for boys not to use the words "Tian, Kunpeng, Dragon, Hao", the older generation said: "Too big a name for children can not be suppressed, it will damage the fortune." This statement is a little superstitious, but there is still some basis for the fact that the name of the child should not be too big, and it may as well be explained by science.

Why can't I get too many names for my children?Like "Qianlong, Tian."

1. Names like "Kunpeng and Tiancang" seem to be taller and more powerful, but if the child is relatively thin and small, then the image does not match the name, or even the gap is relatively large, which will be ridiculed by others, affecting the child's personality and becoming timid and introverted.

In addition to being taboo to name a child, what other aspects need to be paid attention to?One: taboo homophony

Names for children must avoid homophonic troubles, homophonic names are easy for children to be nicknamed after school, nicknames are also considered a kind of school violence, affecting the child's personality to become inferior, like Lai Yuejing (menstruation), Wei Shengjing (sanitary napkin), Fu Yanjie (women's Yanjie) Such a very ambiguous name, must not be given to the child.

Two: Don't go with the flow

In the past, parents had little education, and liked to use the words "Wei, Tao, Yue, Ting, Yan" to name their children, resulting in a very high rate of duplicate names. And now the post-80s and post-90s generations have become the main force in giving birth to babies and raising babies, and their parents are more knowledgeable, but I don't know if they want to go together, or they all have a girl's heart, and they all like to go to romance when naming their children, such as "Yuxi, Yinuo, Zihan, Yuxuan" and so on, and the renaming rate is also very high.

In order to avoid the rate of duplicate names, it is best for parents not to follow the crowd when naming their children, and follow what name others take

It's a lot of brains. Because a child's name carries a lot of meaning, coming up with a good name can be a lot of brain.

Very brain-wrenching. The name is not only catchy, but also meaningful, and afraid of duplicate names, so it is difficult to come up.

It's a lot of brains, and basically every family member has a different opinion.

Choosing a name is very brain-consuming, because once the child is not chosen well, he will resent his parents in the future, and choosing a good name is easy for others to remember.

Traditional Chinese culture believes that names affect the good fortune and misfortune of a child's life, as well as marriage and longevity. Affect the artist's star popularity. Affect the survival time of the company's store and the financial path of the boss.

As a result, various "masters" and "experts" appeared on the stage, racking their brains and piecing together. What name is a magnetic field, the name is a talisman, the name is a spell,,, our most common "I Ching name", "Zhou Yi name", "gossip name" and other propaganda is to use the people's mystery of the Book of Changes and make a mystery, you want him to talk about the name and what the Book of Changes has to do with it, he is blinded.

All this, let's tell you this, all those who self-title, all those who mention "three talents and five qualities", all those who mention the use of gods, all those who talk about good luck and evil according to strokes and zodiacs, all those who score, and all those who can be directly named at that time are fake, no matter how famous he is.

I've seen a certain "easy-to-learn expert" piece together the talents and five squares of the Japanese into his own book. It's ridiculous. There is no logic at all, but anyone who knows a little bit about traditional culture knows that it is nonsense, and students will wonder, why are so many people staring and talking nonsense?

There is only one reason, for thousands of years, no one has made the matter of traditional naming clear and clear, no one has announced the real thing, and the common people have no reference at all, which is the most fundamental reason why they dare to talk nonsense.

The idea that names affect fate has existed for a long time, so since ancient times, some people have spent time on names and used their brains. Like Huo Quzhi and Xin Qiji, they all hope that the child will not get sick and be healthier. Wen Tianxiang is auspicious from heaven and blessed by God, but Huo Quzhi died at the age of 25, and Xin Qiji wandered all his life and died in a foreign land.

Wen Tianxiang is talented but constantly degraded, **, and imprisoned.

This misconception still exists today, thinking that the meaning of the word is auspicious will be good luck, and the meaning of the word and the fate are also common deceptive tricks of pseudo-masters.

As a result, the world asks: what is it that affects fate? Why can't some children bear the same word?

Why do children with the same parents and the same environment have different lives? Why do some people don't see what to do but put a lot of money in, positive wealth, partial wealth, and foreign wealth in turn. And some people hate to break a penny and use it, get up early and be greedy for darkness, work hard but never turn over, just save some money, things come, why?

There is only one answer, life. What is fate, and what is the relationship between fate and luck, this will be talked about later. But what is certain is that the name is the only way and opportunity to change one's life in a person's life.

Life is equivalent to the seed of a tree, and how tall and big the tree grows and how long it lives is determined by the seed. This is the fundamental reason why parents would rather spend more money to find someone who really understands the name. Of course, a large number of people are fooled by fake "experts", that's another matter.

The above is a transcription from Mr. Zhou Yinchan's book "Naming Authentic Traditional Numerology". Hope.

Nowadays, everyone lives more casually, and there are many parents who suddenly think of a word that becomes their child's name when they name their child. Most of today's parents are educated, so it's good to name their children themselves.

Most parents are very careful about naming their children. Nowadays, parents are getting younger and younger, especially the parents of the post-90s generation are a little random when naming their children, their parental concept will not be very strong, they will feel that their children will become friends with themselves in the future, and the name will be more casual after this relationship becomes more and more equal. Now everyone believes in some things on the Internet, there are some name evaluations, and many parents will name them on it, because everyone has no experience in naming names, so they directly use the results of the assessment to name their children.

However, there are still many parents who will find professionals when naming their children, these people help others name them all the year round, and they know what sounds good, and parents can help their children choose a more satisfactory name for some money.

Parents chasing stars are more serious. Nowadays, although many parents have children, their personalities are still like children, and they usually like their idols very much, so after the child is born, the child's name is similar to the name of their idol, and such parents will like the child very much. There are also many young people who will give their children a similar name because the name of a certain protagonist in a TV series is good.

Nowadays, everyone thinks that a name is just a synonym, and we usually chat with others online or something, and rarely call each other's names, so we will be casual when choosing names.

The mind is emancipated. Now everyone knows that only by working hard can we have a better future, and we don't feel how important the name is, and we will be very casual when choosing a name. As long as parents think the name is good, they don't think so much about it when naming their children.