How can we really let go and how can we learn to let go .

The universe is big, there are a lot of people on the earth, and no matter what happens, what happens to you is a small thing compared to everyone else.

Treat them all as a trivial matter, and think about the beauty of life in the future, and you won't be unable to let go.

Everybody has problems, and in the eyes of others, those things really don't matter, and you're still wasting time here and struggling with feelings.

Master Nebula said that what we cling to, we are often deceived by something; Whoever we cling to, we are often hurt by whom. So, we have to learn to let go. Look down on everything, look at it openly, see it through, don't care, don't care, it doesn't matter what is right and wrong.

Whatever you lose, don't lose your good mood. Grasp your own heart and let your mind be pure, white, and quiet. --Letting go is not the same as giving up, and persistence is not the same as persevering.

Time and new love. When I was young, investing in feelings was far less efficient than investing in myself, and investing in feelings was pinning my hopes on others, but it also wasted myself; Investing in yourself is to motivate yourself and gain more complete feelings. Therefore, feelings are not the whole of life, let it affect life is more than worth the loss, dig out your own life ideals, or to learn and complete some of your favorite things, not only enrich and grow yourself, but also be able to understand the problem of feelings with a more calm mind and broad vision.

You can't let things go of it as a kind of memory for yourself, but you have to keep moving forward. You can't stop and cry forever looking at something that's not yours.

Although the road ahead of you is bumpy, it must be more exciting than you spinning in place.

Do you hold it in your hand or in your heart?

There are two aspects to learning the knowledge of management and plagiarism:

The first is the basic methods and principles of management.

On the second is to manage people, and the two are indispensable.

1) Management Fundamentals DAO Methods and Theories:

The first thing to start is to learn management theory, which not only teaches you some basic management theories, but also explains some of the "formulas" of managers, you should learn to plan, plan, make decisions, coordinate, control on the basis of the integration of managers.

In terms of specific behavior management, you can learn some books on management psychology and how to motivate employees.

In terms of law, you can learn some commonly used legal knowledge in corporate law, contract law, tax law, etc.

In terms of theory, you can study basic theories of business management, accounting and other related books.

It is necessary to establish a strong desire to manage people and pursue it as a self-realization goal.

2) Manage people: constantly summarize experience, analyze people's types, needs, personalities, commonalities, weaknesses, etc.;

First of all, learn to make friends, better to be together, and less to play if you don't fall in love. Because management is to give full play to the strengths of all people, avoid people's shortcomings, improve their positive factors, and train all people to become competent employees.

Management quote: There are no incompetent employees, only incompetent bosses, this is what it means.

Managing people is not an overnight thing, and it is necessary to study it persistently, so it is said to be treated first, but it does not mean to start at the first time.

An old monk took the little monk down the mountain, and before going down the mountain, he repeatedly told the little monk, "Don't get close to women." When passing by a small river, I saw a beautiful cutie, who said, "I am dizzy, who can carry me across the river", and the old monk said, "I will carry you". So the old monk crossed the river with his eyebrows on his back, laughing, and laughing.

After walking ten miles, the little monk finally couldn't hold back and asked the master, "You said you don't want to be close to women, how can you carry that beautiful cutie." The old monk said, "I left her down when I crossed the river, why did you still think about it after walking ten miles?" This is a Zen case, the Buddha pays attention to living in the moment, and the Buddha said, "Let go to bear it."".

The Buddha didn't know how difficult it was for us to "let go" of all sentient beings, ordinary people! We and other sentient beings are always haunted by the emotions of a certain period in the past, some failures in the past, glory in the past, the harm caused to us by others in the past, and so on. Precipitating in our own hearts is often the source of our troubles.

Many people know that they have to learn to let go, but they don't know that it's really not easy to let go. Easier said than done. We all know to live in the present, but in reality, we will always live in the past or live in the future.

But a happy life must require us to learn to "let go", because if we can't let go, we won't take it, if we can't let go, it will be difficult to have the present, and we will lose the present and the future. What is in the past will become a stumbling block to the present and the future. How to let go, my personal experience is to learn to "allow".

Allow for personal mistakes and the mistakes of others in the past. On the other hand, in the past, we always had regrets, but at that time, we had made the best choice, the "now" in the past, we were not wrong, and now you think that you should not have done that at that time, it is because you look at the past experience from the perspective and situation of the present, and at that moment, we must be the best choice. So we're right.

To allow is to be inclusive, to be tolerant of oneself and to be tolerant of others. Only after allowing it can you let yourself go, instead of lingering. Only then can we truly let go.

Only by letting go can we have a happy life and bring happiness to others.

It's always good to let go, if you can't let go, it's equivalent to worrying and worrying, suffering for a lifetime.

Take a look at the Trisomy.

Just put it down.

First of all, you have to be able to afford it before you can put it down.

To let go is to think about the world outside the body, to think about the self, not to do any wrong obsession and greed, that is, not to be attached, or specifically not to be delusional.

To do this, one must first have the right understanding and give up greed for all self-desires. People's hearts are originally as calm as water, because of the external realm and their own ignorance such as greed, hatred, and ignorance, feelings arise in the heart, and then all kinds of desires and attachments arise.

Remember, all the sights, sounds, smells, tastes, touches, and feelings ......As long as we see just see, listen just hear, smell just smell, taste just taste, touch just touch, and think just awareness, this means not creating a "self". The Buddha taught us that if we practice in this way, the "self" will not exist, and when the "self" does not exist, the suffering will cease.

No matter what time or state, the mind is only limited to when it is needed, and it needs to remind itself to stop when it is time to stop, and it needs to remind itself to act when it is time to act. That is, it is not as still as water, nor as moving as waves, just like the flow of water, natural and smooth, not deliberately controlled, not attached to any idea, coming and leaving, so that he is his own master.

Buddhism talks about not attaching, not separating, and letting go, not about not doing it, but about not thinking about it. Only by letting go of the constraints of desire, doing things is just doing things, and doing things is not to achieve what to achieve, to know what is right and what is wrong, and to only do what should be done, this is the simple and practical life of an enlightened person.

I can't understand it, it's that I haven't really understood it, but I feel that I understand it, and when I really understand it, I will naturally let it go.

Practice little by little Spiritual practice is not achieved in a day. Have a long-term mind.

It is also necessary to continue to study the classics in depth, and learn one knowledge point at a time, so that we can integrate and integrate into many things.

Mainly in the aspect of breaking the phase: breaking the body, breaking me, breaking the person, breaking the sound, breaking the feeling、、、 if you really see through it, you will be able to put it down.

Real practice is not attainable.

It is also necessary to strengthen the study of concentration, to work hard, and to really show kung fu when encountering problems.

There is no Amitabha Buddha in the south.

It is difficult for the scriptures to prove the things of the world, so put aside the scriptures and look at the sky.

Color emptiness and emptiness are the right principles, and birth and entry into the world are the true scriptures.

This scripture is not a book, and it has gone through all the vicissitudes of life and got out of the cage.

In the past life, even though he was a god and an immortal, in this life it is difficult to practice demons.

You have your own pistachio with your heart, why do you have troubles in your heart?

Removing greed and vanity, it is one to ignore all religions.

Learning to let go is a kind of wisdom in life; Letting go is a study of the soul. In life, there are some things that you don't have to care about, and some things that must be emptied. Let go when it's time to let go, so that you can free your hands and grasp the joy and happiness that is truly yours.

There are flaws in any choice, and no decision is the best of both worlds. If you're always hoping for everything, you're never going to make a decision. When you finally choose the direction and path according to your own heart, instead of following the original habits, don't complain, let alone regret it.

Only when a person can bravely assume his responsibilities can he leave no regrets on the road of life.

Don't forget what you already have; What has been received is more cherished; Don't give up what belongs to you; What has been lost is kept as a memory; If you want to get it, you must work hard; When you are tired, put your heart on the shore; Don't regret your choice; Only when you are bitter do you know how to be satisfied; Enjoy life only when it hurts; I only understand that I am strong when I am hurt.

There are some things that can only penetrate the heart when they are experienced; Former people, only from the bottom of the heart to let go, the soul will be truly liberated. Nothing can bind your hands and feet all the time; No one can be yours forever. So, what you want to do, as long as you have the ability to do it, then don't wait, don't be afraid of failure; If you want to give love, as long as you think it's okay, then be bold and don't leave regrets.

There were some things that we will never forget; There were some people who made it difficult for us to let go. We go all the way, say goodbye to a piece of the past, and move on to the next piece of scenery. The road is extending, the scenery is changing, and there is no eternal life that remains the same.

Looking back after going far, many things have been blurred, many people have forgotten, only a few people and things are related to us, implicating our happiness and joy, this is what we really want to cherish.

Some things are clearly in the past, but they still stubbornly recall and stubbornly miss; Some passers-by are obviously far away, but they will still stubbornly love and hate; Sometimes, even though I feel very tired, I still have to stubbornly support and stubbornly resist. Those meaningless people and things, just let them go! Who else can you show stubbornness?

A person's stubbornness seems to be a solid shield, but it actually hurts his own heart.

What is deliberately found is often not found, and everything in the world comes and goes at its own time and place. What is yours is yours, what is not yours is not yours. Man has the right to pursue happiness, and a person who is willing to recognize this fact is wise and enterprising.

Don't think about it in your heart, control your emotions when you think about it, transfer other things to do, and you will naturally forget after a long time!

Try it this way and you'll know!

There is only affection and love that cannot be let go of in the world, and the deep chromium is imprinted in the mind, which can never be forgotten and never let go.

Letting go of a person, a short acquaintance, a fight, and then separation, that is, passing by, and quickly disappearing without a trace in memory. But sometimes they have known and loved each other for a long time, and the feelings are very deep, to the point that they are inseparable, and it is not so easy to forget.

Let go, no one wants to let go of the people you love in the world, but because sometimes it is not satisfactory, everything is not transferred by people's will, subject to natural conditions, Shiyu reasons, subjective and objective conditions, you have to give up your mature emotions, mandarin ducks fly separately, this inseparable scene, even if the temples are white, toothless are unforgettable, the former vows and mountains are all in the eyes, the memory is still fresh, no one wants to easily erase from the brain, this is called unforgettable, unforgettable for life.

How to let go of a person, it is also fate, and sometimes there is no fate, how can you let go? can only hide his feelings deep in his heart until the sea is dry.

Try it this way and you'll know!