I m about to get married, but I can t do without my former boyfriend.

Emotional matters should not be forced, two people should like each other, not to mention that you feel that both people don't like each other, it is difficult for a long time.

Upstairs is right,"There is nothing wrong with loving someone. But for the man who can't bring you happiness (and maybe not responsible enough), love is just a one-sided giving. "

So you have to leave the man who doesn't like you and you don't like either, and you have to leave the man who can't give you a sedan chair.

Actually, you just haven't met a more suitable one, maybe your social range is too narrow, and your parents may put pressure on you to get married.

As long as you work hard, you will definitely find a more suitable one.

Finally, I also wish you to find a more perfect love.

Leave them both.

Get out of your city for a while!

Don't marry him who has no feelings now, and don't make mistakes with him again!

It's not necessary, it's not interesting, delay yourself.

I want you to value yourself and not hurt your life because of a moment of uncontrol.

There is nothing wrong with loving someone. But for you, a man who can't bring you happiness, love is just a one-sided effort.

You still have a lot of things in your life that you need to pursue.

So you're going to leave the man who can't give you a sedan chair.

Try to walk like a more perfect life.

I wish you happiness.

It's normal, because it's not true love but the feeling of first love that makes people unforgettable, and you don't have to blame yourself.

Take responsibility for your marriage, forget about your ex-boyfriend, or break up with your current boyfriend to find your happy marriage. Don't waver, let alone walk into marriage.

If you can't put it down, think about it and talk to him

You don't like him, you don't hate him, he doesn't like you, he doesn't hate you, and those who marry don't necessarily love each other.

Will the one you love marry you? Will I get divorced and marry you? Can your parents accept it?

It is recommended that if your fiancé is not in charge, you can split your legs for the time being, until you think it clearly, let it go, and break it.

Emotional matters, you can't force it, for your happiness, but also for his happiness, talk to him well.

Very simple. Then don't tie the knot.

If it's over, you'll leave. Why bother.

Summary. If your boyfriend doesn't know that you've been married before, then of course that's something you don't want him to know. However, it can also be considered a lie, and since you are together and you want to have a more honest and down-to-earth relationship, it is still best to actively disclose the fact to him.

To be honest, you should be fully prepared to first ask yourself how much you value him and how you want to be in the future, and then see how much he values you and how he will react to the fact that you are married. When you're ready, you should communicate with him through a positive conversation, rather than trying to express your emotions through letters or the Internet. Before telling him about it, it's best to start with something else, such as sharing some past stories with him, so that you can let him know about your past, and from another point of view, you can also feel from his reaction whether he has insight into your true thoughts, and then you can come up with your plan, tell him how much you value this relationship, how you hope it will be like in the future, and then you can tell him that you were married, and clarify your thoughts, hoping that he can understand your past, Accept you and support your future plans.

If your boyfriend doesn't know that you've been married before, then of course that's something you don't want him to know. However, it can also be considered a lie, and since you are together and you want to have a more honest and down-to-earth relationship, it is still best to actively disclose the fact to him. To be honest, you should be fully prepared to first ask yourself how much you value him and how you want to be in the future, and then see how much he values you and how he will react to the fact that you are married.

When you're ready, you should communicate with him through a positive conversation, rather than trying to express your emotions through letters or the Internet. Before telling him about it, it's best to start with something else, such as sharing some past stories with him, so that you can let him know about your past, and from another point of view, you can also feel from his reaction whether he has insight into your true thoughts, and then you can come up with your plan, tell him how much you value this relationship, how you hope it will be like in the future, and then you can tell him that you were married, and clarify your thoughts, hoping that he can understand your past, Accept you and support your future plans.

He said a few tentative words before, and he said that he would not be with such a person.

Now I think it's probably best to leave.

You can explain it to him.

Summary. Your boyfriend doesn't know you're married, and now he knows about you and wants to leave you, right? If he doesn't mind your past, then maybe you will have a psychological burden when you get along together in the future, so you decided to leave him right.

Your boyfriend doesn't know you're married, and now he knows about you and wants to leave you, right? If he doesn't mind your past, then maybe you will have a psychological burden when you get along together in the future, so you decided to leave him right.

If your boyfriend really likes you and really loves you, then he won't mind if you're married or not. Because everyone has a past, the past is not important, the important thing is the present. If he really feels sorry for you and loves you, he will treat you well from now on, make up for your previous unhappy marriage, and make you live happily.

If he chooses to leave you and give up on you when he knows that you are married, it means that he is a more selfish person, because he never thinks about you and does not understand your feelings, so it is also right for you to leave him.

You can have this kind of thought, maybe it's also because you think about his situation, after all, he is the first marriage, he has not been married yet, so you take into account his feelings.

Well. In fact, you are a person who understands human nature very well, at least you will take into account the feelings of others, so if he minds, then it is right for you to choose to leave. I believe you will meet someone who is truly tolerant and loves you.

Isn't it so plain to live at home?,Do you still want him to spend Valentine's Day with you 12 times a year?,That's not realistic.。。 Anyone who has a family conflict, both parties are at fault, why don't you find the problem from your body first, and then try to solve it.

Know how to cherish worthy people, don't wait for loss to remember your husband's goodness, women want to think that your husband is good to you is your blessing, you can live a comfortable life, marry someone you love, cook a dish to cater to him will be very tired, old and old is a companion, and you can experience it when you are older.

If you say this, you don't love your current husband at all, you don't have feelings for him, you will have that kind of pain, maybe, letting go will be good for both of you,

Try to adapt to it, choose a person to be responsible, as long as the other party is not at fault, don't let people down.

If he can't, you can come by yourself.

Why do you want to get married?