Do you think you should be kind to everyone? Why?

I don't think you should be kind to anyone, because you have to look at his qualities and then choose how to treat him. If you meet this person who is very polite to people, or if he treats you very kindly, you must treat him with courtesy and respond to him with kindness, so that he can feel your friendliness. But if you meet someone who is very bad to you and has a very bad attitude towards you, then you will not be very comfortable, so even if you are kind to him, it is useless, because your heart will feel unfaithful to your inner thoughts.

I think that if a person is educated, he will definitely treat others in a very kind way, and will not easily treat others with an unfriendly attitude, then we should treat such people with kindness。After all, everyone wants to have more friends socially, because it is good for him. Therefore, you must be kind to people who are friendly to you, and communicate with a very good attitude, because this will promote the relationship between you and have a good friendship.

However, if you meet a person who is not very kind, you don't need to be particularly kind to himAt that time, the farmer was with a kind heart, and used the body temperature in his arms to warm up a frozen snake, but he was bitten by this cold-blooded animal, so we should also have such an inner reaction, or even resist, in the face of cold-blooded unkind people, we may not choose a kind way to communicate with him. Because maybe the result of our kindness to others is not necessarily good, maybe it is like the "bite back" in "The Farmer and the Snake", our own ending will be subverted by this kind of person, but it will cause some distorted changes in the hearts of some kind people, which will make them suspicious and distrustful of more people in the future. <>

So I think that when we treat kind people, we have such a kind attitude to interact with them, and if we treat very cold-blooded people, then we may not use that way

Of course not. The attitude towards each person depends on who the other person really is. It's impossible for the other party to be bad to you, and then you have to be good to him. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

I don't think we should be kind to bad people, because those people are no longer worthy of our kindness to him, and it is useless to be kind.

I think that everyone should be kind, because only in this way can I see the character and temperament of a person, and I can also see through whether he can become my bosom friend in the future.

No, there is a saying in Confucianism, repay grievances with virtue, how to repay virtue? Now if you are kind to everyone, the harvest is not a good ending, and good people are easy to get hurt.

I think that kindness should be a little sharp, not to make people feel that kindness is cheap, and kindness must be principled.

Some people are very kind in their hearts, and when they encounter some people in difficulty, they will reach out and help them in time, but there are often some people who are helped, maybe they will not be grateful, and always feel that others should help them, which makes people feel that kindness seems to be very cheap, but in fact, sometimes when kind people are helping others, they are also working very hard to live or, it is not easy for themselves. Therefore, there should be principles and distinctions for kindness, and only when encountering some unexpected situations or when others take the initiative to ask for help, they can give a helping hand, and at the same time make people feel it.

And for those who have helped once or twice and often have to ask for help, at this time more should be given a way, that is, as we often say, it is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish. It's more about telling others that it's not easy for everyone, and you need to find a way to survive and survive on your own. In addition, for some people who are endlessly asking for help, it is also necessary to give appropriate refusal, some people may have nothing to do all day, and when they encounter difficulties, they open their hands and ask to find the princess, for such people, I think there should still be some edge, and they must be rejected once or twice, so that they feel that kindness is not endless.

So I still agree that kindness should be a little sharp and principled.

Kind people can live a higher quality of life for themselves and others. Kind people should be loyal to their own hearts, not easy to change because of changes in the outside world, kind people should have a sober and calm mind.

I feel that we must always be a kind person, a warm-hearted person, and the people around us are the happiest people.

It's not easy to live, and I'm eager to meet kind people and warm-hearted people.

At home, it is good to have a warm-hearted lover who thinks of you in everything, speaks in a measured manner, and never makes you angry;

In the unit, there is a warm-hearted group that doesn't care about everything, doesn't laugh or talk, and never quarrels with you, how good;

Outside, there is a group of warm-hearted people, there are people to help them in everything, everyone is kind, and they never blush with you, how good.

If there is such an opportunity, I am afraid that he will be the happiest person in the world. I want to be such a person, I don't think anyone wants to. However, looking back at myself, is he a person who thinks about his lover in everything at home?

I always want my lover to treat myself well, but do I treat my lover well! The ancients said that respecting each other is like a guest, do you treat your lover as a guest? Perhaps, it was okay when I got married for a while, but after a long time, my lover's face was wrinkled, not beautiful, and she was vulgar, so she got tired of it.

There are frequent quarrels, and it is not pleasing to anyone who looks at them.

So when you ask people to be nice to you, first you have to be nice to people. Those who love love to return, and the love is deep when the love is true. On the contrary, complainers complain and ...... when they are upset

In the unit, you are eager to meet a group of warm-hearted groups, everyone is a group of kind, empathetic, do not care about things, the overall amount of others, smile at you every day, never quarrel with you. But have you done that?

Do you give your brightest smile to your colleagues every day? Do you think about your colleagues and leaders every day? Don't you ever take your anger out on others?

If so, congratulations, you must be the most popular person and the happiest person; But the fact is that you always bring your emotions on your face, one will be sunny and one will be yin, one will be this is not good, one will be simple and empty and that is not good, in front of colleagues to say that it is wrong, although it is not a big deal, but it makes people feel that you are always a little wrong, colleagues are alienated from you, leaders do not trust you, can such a day be called a good day!

I think there are two reasons for this. First, the psychology of bullying the soft and fearing the hard. Don't dare to confront the strong, but find satisfaction in the kind people.

Second, habitual psychology. There is a sentence in it that impresses me deeply, it says: "A person who is not treated well can best recognize kindness and cherish kindness the most."

It is always easy for us to take other people's good for granted, once we get used to other people's good, once possession becomes the norm at our fingertips, we will no longer cherish and squander it.

But the shouting is that although some of the negative energy of kindness not being treated well is sad, we should stick to kindness. Because of the stuffy reed, although the world is not as good as imagined, it is not as bad as imagined. As the old saying goes:

Gifts are still exchanged", "Cast it with a peach, repay it with a plum", "The grace of a drop of water, when the spring reciprocates" ......Treating kindness with kindness has always been taught by our ancestors. The selection of previous national moral models is also a high praise and affirmation of kindness, and it is the inheritance and promotion of "treating kindness with kindness". A few days ago, I saw a short video of a public service announcement on Weibo, the first half of the short video is about a depressed and suicidal woman who asks people on the Internet where the arteries are; An office girl bought magazines at the newsstand, but was scolded by her boss

This is the last one, I'm going to give it to my daughter, don't sell it, you go"; A courier brother rushed into the elevator sweating profusely, and the elevator issued an overweight reminder, and the people around him covered their noses with disgusted ......Then, the picture cut to the second half, and enthusiastic netizens replied to the woman who wanted to commit suicide: "Little cutie, don't be cranky, your arteries are hidden by me" ......The girl who couldn't buy the magazine left angrily, and the thief had to stop. The courier brother was about to get out of the elevator, but he was patted on the shoulder by the white-collar on the side, and the white-collar walked out and let him take the elevator up.

At the end of the short film, a line is typed: "The world is not as good as imagined, but it is not as bad as imagined." "It's evocative.

Therefore, we should stick to kindness, even if there is some negative energy that kindness is not treated well, we should firmly believe that beauty will eventually dispel the haze.