Don t let your child pay for bad moods, what effect does irritable parents have on children?

Irritable parents generally can't control their temper, and when they encounter something right or wrong, they will get angry with their children, which will not only affect their children's emotions but also make them rebellious. Over time, children become reluctant to communicate with their parents and to tell them what they really think. On the other hand, parents' words and deeds, including those when they are angry, will also cause a shadow on the child's psychology.

Therefore, most children who are taught by irritable parents are not gentle in the future.

It is easy to make children have inferiority complex, make children's personalities become withdrawn, do not like to communicate with others, have no confidence in themselves, and are easy to deny themselves, so parents should usually set a good example for their children and do not get angry easily.

The impact on a child can be lifelong. If a child is in this environment for a long time, it will cause his personality to be extreme, either very cowardly, or very irritable. They may even develop dishonest behavior to avoid punishment.

1. How important is the emotional stability of parents for their children?

1. Parents' emotional stability is sometimes more important than parental affection. Emotional stability is a kind of internal and external influence, that is a kind of upbringing and aura related to things, how stable your current emotions are, how stable the child's emotions will be when they grow up.

2. Parents are the first teachers of children, and their words and deeds directly affect their children's growth. Of course, the parents' emotions will also affect the child's mood, when the child faces the happy parents every day, then his heart is happy, at this time no matter what he does will be optimistic, and he will become an optimistic, positive and sunny child in the future.

3. Parents' emotions are particularly important for children's growth. Generally speaking, rational and gentle parents will let their children feel warm, and children who grow up in a warm and harmonious environment will naturally gain more feelings of being surrounded by love, and will naturally learn to love others and learn to understand others.

On the other hand, if the parents are emotionally unstable and often irritable and irritable, it will also have a negative impact on the child, and gradually become irritable and indifferent to others.

2. How can parents maintain emotional stability in front of their children?

1. Don't quarrel in front of your children.

If you do this, your child will definitely develop a sense of nervousness and fear. Parents often quarrel in front of their children, and the children will definitely be highly nervous, and the psychology will breed a feeling of insecurity. So, remember not to do these things in front of your children.

2. Don't complain about life or show decadence in front of your children.

Parents' attitude towards life directly affects their children's sense of security and confidence in growth. If parents often do this, it will expose the child to social or life pressure too early, which will make the child psychologically insecure, experience this insecurity too early, and bear what he should not bear at an age, which will affect the child's life. Therefore, parents are reminded not to show their children, no matter how big the life problems are.

3. Don't scold and criticize others in front of your children.

Some parents do not pay attention in their lives and do not shy away from criticizing others in front of their children, thinking that it has no effect on their children's ignorance. In fact, this is not only a very bad way to deal with it, but also a bad way of education that is harmful to children's health. This will make the child doubt the daily education of his parents, and it will also let him learn this bad way.

The impact of a mother's bad temper on a child may include affecting personality development, damaging mental health and other effects, etc., usually the mother has a close relationship with the child, so the mother's bad mood has an important impact on the child.

1. Affect character development: The mother's bad temper will have a certain impact on the child's personality development, which is usually manifested as a funny imitation that causes the child's maturity disorder, leaving a certain psychological shadow, and always feeling that he is not doing anything right, which leads to the child is easy to form a timid, inferior, and cowardly character, resulting in poor environmental adaptability, difficult to communicate with others, and even a psychology of boredom or self-abandonment.

2. Damage to mental health: If the mother's temper is not good, and the child loses her temper because she has made a little mistake, and has not given comfort and care to the child afterwards, it may cause the child to appear mentally depressed, anxiety, depression, mania and other psychological disorders, and in severe cases, it may cause depression, anxiety and other mental illnesses, affecting the child's mental health.

3. Other effects: The mother's bad temper also has a certain damage to the child's growth and development, because the mother's bad temper may lead to the child's lack of deep feelings with the mother, so that what happens in daily life will not be said with the mother, resulting in the mother can not play a guiding role in the child's growth and development.

Mothers with a bad temper must correct their temper in time to avoid irreparable losses to their children's psychology or physiology. Mothers can take their children to the psychiatric department of the hospital to judge the specific situation through the psychologist's inspection, consultation and relevant scale examinations, and intervene under the guidance of the doctor.

The bad mood of the parents will produce negative energy for the child, and the child will also lose his temper, be in a bad mood, and so on.

Parents' bad mood will have a greater impact on the child's personality development, for example, it will make the child become introverted and submissive.

Produces an inferiority complex and a vindictive mentality.

Bad mood in parents can have a variety of negative effects on children:

1.Bad emotions are transmitted. When parents are emotionally unstable, they often transmit negative emotions to their children. Your child may feel nervous, fearful, stressed, or restless, and may become anxious or emotionally unstable as a result.

2.Behavioral imitation. Children imitate their parents' behaviors, including negative behaviors. If a child often sees a parent angry, irritable, or out of control, they may also exhibit this behavior in the same way as their parents.

3.Learning difficulties. Poor mood in parents can affect a child's ability to learn. Studies have found that children's academic performance is closely related to family climate, and when parents are in a bad mood, children's academic performance and interest in learning may be affected.

4.Social impairment. Bad parental emotions can affect a child's social skills, causing the child to feel uncomfortable when interacting with peers.

5.Behavioural problems in children. If the parents are in a bad mood, the child will become more irritable, prone to temper tantrums, lack of patience, etc. These problems can lead to behavioural problems in children at home and at school.

Therefore, parents need to pay attention to their emotions and stay calm and stable as much as possible, which will help their children's emotional stability and healthy development.

Sociologists believe that parents' behavior in family life, especially emotions, is a direct factor in the mental health development of young children. Parents' behavior is the benchmark for children and the influence of children's psychological development. Parents are kind and peaceful at home, and they are humble and polite in dealing with others, which is conducive to the mental health development of children. If parents are often in a bad mood at home, quarreling and bickering, it will make young children often in tension and fear, which is extremely detrimental to children's psychological development.

So how do parents cultivate their own good emotions?

Keep learning and cultivate your own heart of love, tolerance, and understanding. When a person has a big heart, a big heart, and a big vision, the troubles and pains will disappear. The stability of parents' mentality is an important factor affecting the stability of children's mentality.

The same sentence to the child, 10 is language, 35 is expression, 55 is emotion, the different states of parents, the effect of saying is very different.

Having a good mood will make the environment in which you live also comfortable and comfortable, and will make the family harmonious and warm, and children living in such a family will have a healthy physical and mental development, and will also contribute to the development of children's personality. Emotions are the logical starting point for a person to make a mistake. A person who has a peaceful mind and emotions is a wise person!

So be a wise parent, don't let your bad emotions affect your children's health, and learn to cultivate your own good emotions is the best education for your children.

1. Parents often lose their temper, and children will become unconditionally "obedient" because of fear, which may lead to no own opinions in the future, and even become weak and lose themselves.

2. Parents often lose their temper, causing their children to be frightened frequently, which will make him lose his sense of security. If you are in such an environment for a long time, you will lose your self-confidence, and your personality may become withdrawn, trembling, and unsociable.

3. Children are good at learning from others, if there are often quarrels in the family, the child's personality will become hot, willful, impulsive, and even easy to quarrel with others.

In life, I often hear parents complain that their children are disobedient, willful, and rebellious... If the child has a problem, parents should first reflect on whether it is related to themselves.

Children are a mirror of parents, if children have the following problems, see if the reasons behind them have anything to do with you?

Parents' emotional instability can easily cause children's personality deviations, and many parents have a strong emotional relationship with their children. When you're in a good mood, everything is fine, and it's good for your children; Once you are in a bad mood, it is completely different, you are upset when you see everything, and you feel uncomfortable when you see your child, and you will inevitably reprimand and scold. This kind of family upbringing, which is sometimes tight and sometimes loose, is really a bit terrible.

Parents will ask, when the child makes a mistake, I just meet me in a bad mood, I can't ignore it, education is supposed to be, but we must talk about methods, respect the child's personality, do not hit self-confidence, do not do things to others, and bear the consequences of the natural law.