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Introduction. A writer who regards writing for children as his vocation, uses warm words to wipe the course of youth into a sparkling and soft light!
About the Author. Pang Jielei: Graduated from the Department of Chinese at East China Normal University, and now works at Good Children's Pictorial?
Open Sesame Magazine. I like hello kitty, I like rabbits, I like bears, I like all cute things. Sensitive, shy, and always a little unconfident inside.
Looking forward to all kinds of good things happening, willing to make simple and kind friends, enjoying a casual life, is a lazy girl, but she has persevered in writing, and will continue to write. He has published more than 30 works, such as "Molly's Holiday", "Orange Summer", "Good Confidant", and "I Will Miss You". His works have won the Chen Bochui Children's Literature Award, the Bingxin Children's Book Award, and have also appeared on the national children's bestseller list for many times.
No, I can't swallow this breath, I have to ask for an explanation! I angrily pushed open the door of the study and asked my mother menacingly: "Reporter Xu, did you peek at my diary?"
Mom is sitting at the desk, struggling to type on the keyboard, with black headphones on her head, and she is listening to ** while working again. When I wanted to do this, she would take the headphones off my head and say, "Yo-yo, it's easy to get distracted by doing homework while listening to songs."
Only the governor is allowed to set fires, and the people are not allowed to light lamps, hum! When she saw me push the door and break in, she was stunned for a moment, took off her headphones, and asked, "Yoyo, what were you talking about just now?"
I didn't hear you. Her eyes widened and she looked at me innocently, and that blank expression actually made most of my arrogance disappear: "Mom, are you peeking at my diary?"
Diary? Yoyo, don't you really like writing essays? Do you still keep a diary?
How did I not know?! Mom gently held her chin with her hand and asked with a smile, "Tell Mom, what did you write in your diary?"
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It means that no one will care about you, no one will pay attention to you, and it means that it is a transparent person.
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He shouldn't be a transparent person, because he is very present in everyone's words.
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No one is a transparent person, we can all see it.
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What are you talking about is which one does what today.
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I'm a transparent one. The synopsis of the people.
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It is generally used in the workplace or socially, which means that you are not too prominent, basically no one cares, and there is no attention in the crowd, just like a transparent person.
The performance includes: 1. When you find that your name and the important projects of the department are basically not registered.
2. When I go to work and get off work diligently every day, most of the old employees of the unit don't know their names.
3. Will colleagues often leave themselves behind when ordering meals and parties on weekdays and do not bring themselves to play?
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Why do others ignore their own existence?
First of all, put yourself in perspective. Find your strengths. Then, let your strengths play to your strengths.
This is the most basic condition for gaining self-confidence. To gain self-confidence, you must first gain a sense of satisfaction and make yourself feel that you are very good. This is the most basic.
Therefore, you need to make good use of your strengths and try to play to your strengths. Do more, only in this way can you taste the satisfaction of success as much as possible, then you can build self-confidence. If you think you can't do anything, and you don't do anything, you don't dare to do anything.
The less confident you become, it's a vicious circle. As long as you get the satisfaction of success, you can further gain self-confidence. Of course, maybe take your time.
You can start with small things and gradually increase them. Self-confidence, in fact, is just a state of mind. All you need is to discover it yourself, and you don't need too many complicated processes.
As long as you have faith in yourself, then you will definitely be full of strength. Don't be overly considerate of others, pay too much attention to what others think of you. Deal with any setbacks with a nonchalant and normal mindset.
Self-confidence, in fact, is very simple, just believe in yourself. When you have self-confidence, you will be able to do everything. The key lies in yourself, as long as you have confidence in yourself, you can solve anything.
In addition, the biggest factor of self-confidence is probably the influence of the outside world on you. To know that what others say about us is always what they think, and we don't have to live in someone else's world. Just do your own thing.
Why don't you care so much about him? It is necessary to have the momentum that the world exists only for itself. Have the courage to go your own way and let others do what they say.
No one can change themselves, no one can control themselves. When you succeed, it's your own business, but if you are influenced by others and retreat, it's your own business, so why bother to control yourself for irrelevant people. In the last sentence, as long as you believe in yourself, you will be full of self-confidence.
It's all about the mindset.
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Explain that you are transparent in front of others and do not have your own secrets. Seen through by others.
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What does it mean that I am transparent? What he means is that you treat him as transparent. Meaning that does not exist.
He said it. It means that you ignore her feelings and don't see her as a presence. It doesn't mean to take into account his feelings.
It's what he wants to find a sense of existence.
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Say that you are dispensable in the hearts of others, and there is no value at all. You should play to your strengths more, everyone has strengths.
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It's that I don't have a sense of existence.
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Others? Alone, you can not care. Two people, you can still not care.
If many people think of you as transparent, then it's time to find out why, maybe your personality is a bit introverted? Not quite social with others? Try to change, of course, it is not for the sake of others to deliberately change themselves, but people always have to live in a group, to communicate and communicate, right?
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Maybe it's because you don't take the initiative? Many times a lot of things are fought for by yourself, not by others.
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Seeing your question, I am reminded of the song "Love is Like Air".
Air is transparent.
They love you so much.
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Don't care too much"Others? "Lack of cultivation and lack of etiquette.
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"Nobody pays attention to you, no one cares about you, no one cares about you, you have become transparent, as if you don't exist", right?
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Pang Jielei graduated from the Department of Chinese at East China Normal University and is a member of the Shanghai Writers Association. He has published more than 20 books, such as "Molly's Holiday", "Orange Summer", "The Best Confidant", "I Like to See You Smiling", "I Will Miss You", etc.
He has won the Bingxin Children's Book Award. Chen Bochui Children's Literature Award. His works have been featured in the open book of the National Children's for many times.