Just broke up with my boyfriend and my family arranged a blind date, how can I not go?

I think it's a blind date arranged by my parents, and I can't help but go through the motions, but I have to go through the motions.

You can tell your parents about these reasons for the blind date:

Actually, I think this kind of blind date is extremely fucked up, for the following reasons:

First of all, the person who arranges the blind date must be someone who is in contact with his relatives and friends, and he will introduce you to you with an attitude of knowing the roots, right?

1.How much do you know?

I think at best, I know the person's height, appearance, education, income, and family property status.

If that's what you're looking for, then of course it's OK. But you also have to know that this person's four views (life, world, value, consumption) are what your introducer will not know in most cases, more partial, whether this person has a medical history, domestic violence, etc., can only be discovered by yourself, if you think you know the roots, in fact, it is very wrong.

2.If the blind date is successful, everything will be fine?

If the blind date is successful, it is gratifying, but it does not mean that there is no hidden danger, your relatives and friends may overlap each other, if there is a crack in the relationship in the future, this gang of goods will definitely insert a bar, in line with the principle of rather demolishing ten temples than breaking a marriage to persuade and not persuade to separate, breaking up and divorce itself is a matter of two people, but it is necessary to withstand the pressure of other people, and finally a large number of people who make a lot of noise are stirred up in it, and the head is big to think about.

3.If the blind date fails, is there any hidden danger at all?

If the blind date fails, it is largely because your relatives and friends think this person is good, but in fact, you see intolerable shortcomings in this person. Just such a reason is enough to tear up with relatives and friends, and the other party is also your relationship with relatives and friends, it may be very unpleasant, and eventually consume family affection or friendship.

To sum up, this truth still needs to be explained clearly to the family, if you can listen to it, of course, it is good, if you can't listen to it, ......Anyway, you've said everything you should have said, and since you can't listen to it, you should play tricks.

Let's just say that I haven't walked out of the previous relationship yet, so I can't accept a new relationship rashly now.

You tell your family that you have just broken up, you are still in grief, and you don't want to fall in love yet, and you will go back after a while when your mood is better.

Family, communicate, let them understand that you are not in the mood to go on a blind date and tell them that the marriage fitting room is a very utilitarian thing is not a must-do, don't be in a hurry, fate will naturally come.

You just say that you don't want to go, or you can put it mildly, you just happened to have some other things to do that day, and you made an appointment with a friend, a customer, or something.

Let's just say that you just broke up now, and you don't want to find a boyfriend so soon, and you want to delay it for a while, and I believe that your family will not force you.

It's up to you what you think? You can go if you want, because after all, we have broken up, and there is no moral responsibility, if you don't want to go, you can not go!

You just pretend to be sick, this is the easiest, you are sick, no one can bear to let you go on a blind date again, of course, you must take care of your illness first, the child's life matters.

Don't tell your family not to go, just ask your friends to help you go and see, maybe your friends like it, if they don't like it, there is no fate, and it doesn't hurt the harmony.

You can directly say that you are not feeling well, you can't get out of bed, you feel headaches, dizziness, weakness in your feet, or that you have just broken up and don't want to be in a relationship anymore.

If you directly refuse or prevaricate with various reasons, you can say that you are sick, or you can say that you can't go to the company because of something or a job.

It's better not to go.

I am also facing such a situation, and I am still stiff with my family because of this.

My current blind date has been in place for three months, and I think it's pretty good. But my dad didn't like him from the beginning because he had a lower income than me and hadn't bought a house yet. He wanted me to find someone with better conditions.

Half a month ago, I asked me to meet a boy who was said to have a house, and I refused, and he said that he was not optimistic about the current one, and felt that he was not very promising. I heard it was really hot, and he thought it was good to have money and a house? This person who doesn't have much potential will become his son-in-law in the future.

But my friends and cousins both felt that it was okay to meet other people, just to cope with their parents, just to meet each other. But my principle is that even coping with it will not work. I can't accept that I can reach out to one guy and then other people, that's my principle.

Girl, I can understand your feelings, because I talked for five years for my first love, and EX came to his hometown after two years of long-distance ex, and then was broken up.

I also despised this practice of riding a donkey to find a horse and casting a wide net, so during the two years in the long place, even if there was a fierce quarrel and someone instigated the introduction, I was angry but gave up and reported all the new feelings (someone pursued me) to him. At that time, I also felt that if I did this, I would not only hurt others, but I would also despise myself.

But it seems, I can only say that according to some indications, it seems that EX talked less than half a year after the breakup, I don't want to speculate on anything, I can't investigate anything in a place where I have no relatives and no reason, and more importantly, I have to come out and can't pay too much attention to him.

So, now I'm more tolerant of things like riding a donkey to find a horse, maybe we're the donkey being ridden, alas.

But if this really falls on me, I may not really ride a donkey to find a horse, because after this experience, I will seriously consider seeing more people before falling in love, confirming the relationship, and managing it well. So, the specific choice is still up to you, after all, everyone's experience is different. Hope you are happy!

It is recommended not to go, be completely sure, you have already walked out of the last relationship, if you feel that there is no problem at all, and you really want to get married, you can go at this time.

I don't think it's better not to go, because if you just broke up and go on a blind date, it seems a little seamless, so you should make sure that you have completely walked out of the previous relationship before going.

Yes, you can actually make friends on a blind date, you don't have to be together, maybe a blind date can make you feel better and get out faster, isn't it good, and your family is not so worried.

Go ahead, respect the person who arranges the blind date, and tell the other party directly that he has just fallen out of love when he goes on a blind date, and his mood is not very good, and he is dealing with his family.

If you haven't gotten out of the previous relationship, then refuse your family and don't go on a blind date, otherwise you will dislike the blind date in every way.

You can go, but the people at home are also worried about you. Just to meet once, and not to meet you to make friends with that person and fall in love.

It depends on what you think in your heart, if you have come out of the previous relationship, then of course you can go on a blind date and meet some new friends.

This depends on whether you want to go or not, if you want to go, then you can go, you can also go, after all, you just broke up and need someone to be quiet.

If you ask yourself this question, do you want to go? Then I think you should go, because only new love can ** old love.

Do you want to see yourself, you don't want to go, you can go, but you can go, you have broken up with your ex, there is nothing wrong with starting a new relationship.

You already have a boyfriend - and your family is still forcing you to go on a blind date, why is that? Is this because your family doesn't know about the existence of your boyfriend? Or, do they think this boyfriend is unreliable?

Or do they think your relationship won't last? Or do they think it's not appropriate for you to be together? Many times, we need to know that our parents' intentions are good, that they want their children to live a better life, and that they will find us the right person according to their ideas.

But we have the right to resist, we can go and communicate with our parents and let them know what we really think in our hearts.

<>I think it's better to confess to your family. Tell your family that you have a boyfriend. Let the family recognize their boyfriend. Your family is doing this by thinking that your current boyfriend is not good enough.

I met another blind date, in all fairness, this boy is not bad, as for the rest of him, I won't introduce it, anyway, even if others are good, I already have someone in my heart. I don't have the bizarre blind date experience that some Tianya netizens encountered, and I also saw a boy a year ago, all within the normal range.

If you have a boyfriend, your parents still let you go on a blind date. One, did they not know about the existence of your boyfriend, so they forced you to go on a blind date? If this is the case, you can tell your parents directly that you already have a boyfriend, tell your parents about your relationship and progress, and then discuss a time with them to bring your boyfriend home to see.

No matter how you think about it, there is nothing wrong with being a parent, and as a child, try to understand the painstaking efforts of your parents.

But as a girl, you have to take care of both ends, you are the bridge between your boyfriend and your parents, what do you have to say to your parents clearly, so as not to have unnecessary misunderstandings on both sides, anything, if you make it clear, it won't matter.

As your boyfriend, I feel like he has the right to know about what you're going on a blind date. It is much better for this to come out of your mouth than to know it elsewhere later. You have to tell him the whole story, and reassure him that this is just a formality, and that he should not be overwhelmed, so as not to affect the feelings of each other.

It depends on your boyfriend's attitude, if your boyfriend refuses to go on a blind date, it means that he wants to be with you, and if your boyfriend listens to the people in the family to go on a blind date, it means that your boyfriend still wants to have one more choice in his heart.

I think you should choose to break up because your boyfriend is not an assertive person, he always wants to run away from things, and he doesn't respect your ideas.

Should. This shows that his family does not approve of the relationship between the two of you, which can easily lead to an emotional crisis due to family reasons in the future, so you should break up.

should choose to break up, because he already has a girlfriend, but he hasn't refused the blind date, and he is already sorry for himself for these behaviors.