If you don t get along with your boyfriend s family, should you break up?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-20
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Try to get the relationship back as best you can. If that's still the case, then break up. After all, the goal of love is marriage. Families play a big role in marriage. Most of those who are in favor of it have never experienced marriage.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Love someone: to understand and understand, to apologize and thank you, to admit mistakes and correct mistakes, to be considerate and considerate;

    It is to accept rather than endure, to tolerate rather than conniv, to support rather than dominate, to condolence rather than questioning, to confide rather than accuse, to remember rather than forget, to communicate with each other rather than to explain everything, to pray silently for each other rather than to ask for many of them.

    It's okay to be romantic but don't waste it, don't hold hands casually, and don't let go casually.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You have to figure it out, are you living with your boyfriend for the rest of your life or with your boyfriend's family for the rest of your life, I don't agree with my opinion upstairs, if your boyfriend treats you badly, you can break up, his family, he doesn't want to be like that, he can't change it, if your boyfriend is good to you, I advise you not to break up.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Well, it depends on what you think! Well, I'm also experiencing this problem now, my boyfriend said that in fact, they also have a lot of helplessness, when you quarrel with his parents, they are the most helpless, some things have to be sacrificed, I also understand that you have a lot of discomfort in your heart, because now it's all one plus a child, but I think if you love him, you will sacrifice for him, what do you say? In fact, love is to two people to understand each other, don't argue who is right or can't say anything that hurts him, I think you treat him well and he will reciprocate!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It depends. Would you like to be together?

    If you're together, work together to change how his family thinks of you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't, love is a matter for the two of you, parents and friends are just references, you must remember that it is not easy to find someone who loves you and someone you love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If his family is not particularly good, it is better to break up! If you have a good family, you will score even more! When you get married, you will be angry and unbearable!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's not easy for two people to be together, don't say it easily If you really love him, you have to love him all, what does it have to do with you if he doesn't get along with his family? As long as you are happy together, isn't it over? You're not married to his parents?

    I hope you think carefully about not "talking" about breaking up easily

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It shouldn't be. The disagreement can be slowly understood.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You love him, not his family, as long as you love him, you must tolerate his family.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Do you love him or not, if you love him, you should tolerate everything about him, really.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you really love him, do you understand that you love Wu and Wu?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Summary. Good afternoon, dear! If your parents don't agree, you can ask your boyfriend to do the parental work himself, which will be more convincing than you can speak.

    What to do if your boyfriend's parents don't agree to reconcile after a breakup.

    Good afternoon, dear! If your parents don't agree, you can ask your boyfriend to do the parental work himself, which will be more convincing than you can speak.

    Is it convenient to talk about why you broke up?

    At that time, they were younger, both of them were more impulsive, they broke up in 19, and they reconciled at the end of last year, and after my boyfriend came home for the New Year, the family did not agree to reconcile, because my boyfriend broke up during that time was very decadent, and then yesterday my boyfriend's family had a conflict and fought, and then my boyfriend and I also quarreled.

    Well, it is recommended to let your boyfriend calm down first, and don't be in a hurry to argue with your parents.

    Love is a matter of two people, but marriage is a matter of two families, and the other party's parents do not agree with you getting back together, first of all, even if you come together, your road may not be easy to walk in the future, so you still have to solve this problem slowly.

    Love is a matter of two people, but marriage is a matter of two families, and the other party's parents do not agree with you getting back together, first of all, even if you come together, your road may not be easy to walk in the future, so you still have to solve this problem slowly.

    Why did the man's parents object?

    We calmed down all night, and we talked a lot, but I felt that it was difficult to do a good job in the ideological work of the people in his family, his father was more impulsive, I didn't know what happened yesterday, and kept sending messages to ask him, which led to our quarrel later.

    The time when he broke up with me was also the year of the epidemic, and then he was in a bad mood and often quarreled with his family and cried a lot, probably because his parents felt that I had too much influence on their son, and they were worried about whether this kind of thing would happen in the future.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    After the breakup, it may be that under normal circumstances, the parents already know, and it cannot be said that the parents broke up without knowing it, and generally the contradictions before the breakup have been very intensified, rather than saying that one thing happened to break up, so the parents have heard about it, and they have already knew.

    1. Parents will know sooner or later, and when parents know instead of knowing from you for the first time, what kind of situations and phenomena do you imagine will appear.

    2. Parents are the people who know your character best, from childhood to adulthood, parents are the people who have been with you for the longest time, and they can see at a glance what you are thinking. So when you communicate with your parents, you can get more comfort from them.

    3. Parents will communicate with you verbally, help you relieve the sadness in your heart, analyze the reasons for your breakup, analyze the inappropriateness between you, and avoid the same mistake last time when you are dating.

    So as to sum up the experience, instead of being sad for someone who does not belong to you.

    4. Sometimes, there is still a certain generation gap between you and your parents, and they don't understand your current life, so when you communicate with your parents, try to be easy to understand.

    5. If you don't want to disappoint your parents too much, you can re-associate with someone who is suitable, and as a parent, I just hope that you will start a family as soon as possible, and I hope you can find a reliable person who suits you, and it doesn't have to be with anyone.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Be honest with your parents and tell your parents why you broke up.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    They don't agree, what can they do with you? After all, you're talking to the other person!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The breakup of lovers is a very painful and sad thing, but after the breakup, you should still cheer yourself up as much as possible, after all, your life has to go on, and after the breakup, I personally think there is no need to feel too embarrassed and embarrassed, as far as the breakup is concerned, when facing my parents, I personally think there is no need to hide it, or should say it directly to your parents.

    First of all, the reason why some people are reluctant to talk to their parents after the breakup is mainly because they are worried that their parents will be sad because of such a thing, and get angry for themselves, in fact, such worries are completely unnecessary, for most parents, they hope that their children can be happy, as long as they can adjust their state in time after the breakup, so that parents feel that this relationship experience does not really bring you any harm and negative emotions, then your parents will not worry about it, so in this case, it is better to talk directly to your parents.

    On the other hand, if you think that you will make your parents sad about this matter directly with your parents, this is because after the breakup, you are always in a sad mood, then in this case, there is no need to talk to your parents about it, wait until you completely calm down your inner emotions and regain your strength, and then consider whether it is necessary to talk to your parents about this matter.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You should tell your parents after breaking up with your boyfriend. No matter what happens, children are the meat of their parents' hearts and their greatest concern. So tell your parents about everything, and they can help you. Your parents are your last base and your warm home.

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