Why is He Jie angry, Why do you say that my child is habitually lying! ”？

Although I am also a self-** person, this time I firmly stand on He Jie's position. Why? The reason is that in a recent entertainment program, some of his son Qibao's performances were rated as "habitual lies" by himself.

So He Jie wrote hundreds of words on Weibo in the middle of the night, angrily accusing the people of self-**** out of context.

In the latest episode of the second season of "Incredible Mom", the program team conducted a "safety test" on the children, basically simulating some situations to test whether the children would open their doors to strangers. Before going out, He Jie said to her son Qibao many times, "Don't open the door to strangers", and after He Jie left, the "bad guys" arranged by the program team came to Qibao's room and tried to knock on the door. Therefore, many people also speculate that Shippo has completely forgotten his mother's advice and opened his door to strangers.

He Jie returned to the room from the monitoring room and asked Qibao if he had opened the door. Shippo shook his head in denial.

Through self-**, this parent-child relationship is described as "making excuses for the child, and also lying to the child by default". At Shippo's age, some reactions are obviously abnormal. But some people wrote based on it, calling Qibao a "habitual lie" and noting that He Jie "still has an excuse for this."

Of course, He Jie was very angry, so she posted on Weibo to get angry.

As a mother, I would also like to say: Why do you say that a child is "habitually lying"? Obviously, compared with the interaction between mother and child, it is easy to label a child as "**" and buckle a hat, which is the biggest mistake in parenting!

No wonder He Jie gets angry when the mother and son are dating, and is labeled as "habitual". In fact, the most worthy thing for parents to think about is, is the child's "lying" worthy of such an online show?

Because talking about their own children is not allowed by every parent.

Because all parents don't want others to talk about their children.

No matter which parent it is, they will not allow others to slander their children.

Who would allow others to slander their children, no one can bear it.

Online violence is indeed a big problem in this information age, and it often destroys people's mentality.

No one wants to hear someone say that their children are not good, but of course they have confidence in their own education.

I think it's an insult to her, these people are too much.

I think this is the biggest insult to a mother, I don't think it should be.

I think it's an insult to a mother, it's too much.

I think He Jie's son is not habitually lying when he lies on the show, children are at a certain age, and with the development of their brains, their understanding of society becomes stronger and stronger, so he will lie according to some of people's reactions, which is also to cover up some of his wrong behaviors.

In the show, his mother He Jie had already told his son not to open the door to others easily, but his son did not listen to her and opened the door to strangers casually, so when his mother asked about him, he would subconsciously choose to lie, mainly because he was afraid of being criticized by his mother, so he would lie.

For a child of this age, this is actually a very normal psychology, he has a little speculation about the character of his parents, so in order to avoid criticism, he chooses to lieOf course, at this time, we can't blindly expose his lies, they are actually very much in need of face at this age, if you go to expose his lies, it is easy to make him angry.

In addition, He Jie's son is a single-parent family, so special attention must be paid to education, and patience must not be too impatient. You can choose to reason with your child, children at this age are also very reasonable, but they are sometimes reluctant to let themselves understand so many things, but if you can choose to calm down and patiently talk to them, in fact, they can understand.

Children at this age can't be easily criticized, no matter what they do, they must have their own reasons, so when they do something wrong, they should take the initiative to understand his motives for doing these things, rather than criticizing him, so that he will take the initiative to admit when he does something wrong, instead of covering it up with lies.

He Jie's son "habitually lies" in the show, which is probably related to family education.

It's the nature of all children, it's just naughty.

He Jie's son didn't actually mean it, it wasn't out of intention, it was the nature of children.

It's all a matter of parents, and educating children is not as good as educating them.

Children are basically like this, covering up their mistakes, not wanting to be scolded, but correcting them in time.

This is a phenomenon that children will appear when they grow up to a certain age, which is normal, just pay attention to guidance.

thinks that there is indeed a big gap with their education, so there is such an ending