I don t trust my wife at all now, what should I do, what about the divorce and the children

First, how old is the child? This is a key question.

Second, judging from your situation, your wife doesn't want to leave yet, so you can take the initiative.

Third, if the child is too young, it is better to wait, and if the child is older, it is time to consider leaving.

Fourth, you can't change your situation, since you can't trust it, then don't believe it, and deal with her affairs after solving the child's problem.

1. Trust and loyalty are the cornerstones of marriage, and without trust and loyalty, marriage is meaningless.

Second, let's leave, otherwise you won't be able to get out.

3. She is the party at fault, and the court will order you to raise the child.

Fourth, give children a good living and educational conditions.

5. Pay attention to children's physical and mental health.

Why don't you trust your wife? Did she cheat on you too much, or did you never try to trust her all along? Since you have a child, you should think about him in everything.

Communicate with your wife, if you don't know how to communicate, you can also find relatives or friends to help, try not to hurt your children. I wish you all happiness!

Married people don't talk about divorce if they have nothing to do, especially if they have children, you don't believe your wife, why don't you believe it, you can ask her if you have questions, you can't doubt your daughter-in-law casually, it is very important for two people to trust together.

I don't know why you don't trust your wife Generally, when a woman has a family and has her own children, she won't have anything to worry about, or two people still have to trust each other, all for the sake of the children.

You and your wife should communicate with each other and don't divorce easily, which will hurt the children a lot.

What is the reason for not believing it, and there will be no resentment when husband and wife communicate more.

If there is not even the most basic trust between husband and wife, no matter whose fault it is, just divorce!

If you have children, let's raise them honestly

Communication is the only way to solve problems.

If you can endure it, you can bear it, and if you can't bear it, you will disperse.

If you can get by, it's best not to leave.

Do you believe in yourself while you don't trust your wife? Why don't you believe her.

Why not believe it? You can communicate well!

Legal analysis: According to the provisions of the relevant laws of our country, running away from home without divorce and not caring for the children is an act of failing to fulfill the obligation to support the children, which can be regarded as abandonment of the children, and if it causes serious consequences, it will constitute the crime of abandonment.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1067:Where parents do not perform their obligation to support them, minor children or adult children who are unable to live independently have the right to demand that their parents pay child support.

Parents who fail to fulfill their obligation to support their adult children, or who lack the ability to work or who have difficulties in living, have the right to demand maintenance from their adult children.

Article 1068: Parents have the right and duty to educate and protect their minor children. Where minor children cause harm to others, parents shall bear civil liability in accordance with law.

Legal Analysis: Running away from home without divorce and ignoring the children is an act of not fulfilling the obligation to support the child, which can be regarded as abandonment of the child, and if it causes serious consequences, it will constitute the crime of abandonment. Parents have the obligation to raise and educate their children, and children have the obligation to support and support their parents.

If the parents fail to fulfill the obligation to support them, the child who is a minor or who is unable to live independently has the right to demand maintenance from the parents.

In the event that a child fails to fulfill his or her maintenance obligations, the parent who is unable to work or who is in difficulty in living has the right to demand maintenance from the child. Infant drowning, infant abandonment and other acts of infant mutilation are prohibited.

Victims have the right to make a request for abandonment of family members, and residents' committees, villagers' committees, and units to which they belong shall dissuade and mediate. Where the victim makes a request for the abandonment of a family member, the people's court shall make a judgment in accordance with law to pay alimony, child support, or alimony.

The crime of abandonment is objectively manifested as an act of refusing to support the elderly, young, sick, or other family members who are incapable of independent living, and the circumstances are heinous. The so-called old, young, sick or other family members who are unable to live independently refer to the family members who have the following conditions: (1) due to old age, disability, illness and other reasons, lost the ability to work and have no livelihood**; (2) Although there is a life, but due to illness, old age, disability, and unable to take care of themselves; (3) If the person is unable to live independently due to young age or mental retardation, the problem of abandonment does not occur except for family members with such circumstances.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 26: Parents have the obligation to raise, educate, and protect their minor children.

Adult children have an obligation to their parents to support, support and protect them.

Article 27: Parents are the guardians of minor children.

Where a minor's parents are deceased or have no capacity for guardianship, the following persons with guardianship capacity are to serve as guardians in order:

1) Grandparents;

2) brother and sister;

3) Other individuals or organizations who are willing to accompany the world to serve as guardians, but must have the consent of the residents' committee, villagers' committee, or civil affairs department for the minor's residence.

Legal Analysis: The court will determine the ownership of child custody according to the actual conditions of both parties and the principle of being beneficial to the child's growth. However, when the child is not yet two years old, it is generally given priority to the mother's custody, and the court will also seek the child's opinion when the child reaches the age of ten.

If one party is raising children, the other party has the right to visit and pay child support. The standard of child support, if there is a fixed income, the child support is generally paid at 20 to 30% of the fixed income; If there is no fixed income, the court shall make a comprehensive determination based on the child's actual expenses, the local standard of living, and the economic situation of both parties.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1076:Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

Summary. If now is the best time to divorce. Kiss.

Otherwise, if you miss this best opportunity, it will really not be so easy to divorce again.

So both parties must be calm and think about whether it is suitable to live together for decades?

My wife and I are married. It's just half a year. There are no children. Bad feelings. The wife wants a divorce. I don't get divorced. What to do?

Do you have any new questions?

I have been married to my wife for half a year and have no children, and my wife wants to divorce, and you don't want to divorce.

If now is the best time to divorce. Otherwise, you will miss this best opportunity, and it will really not be so easy to divorce again. So both parties must be calm and think about whether it is suitable to live together for decades?

Bad feelings. Can you make do with it? Because remarriage costs money.

If it's not very rich, then make do with it for a lifetime. If you have money, then if you want to pursue a high-quality marriage and family life, consider divorce.

Money plays a decisive role in marriage, dear.

Let's calm down with my wife and have a good talk! That's how plain marriage is. If you can't do it, you can run the family as a company, still dress up beautifully to go to work, and don't get too close to each other, so that it will always be attractive. There will be no divorce.

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