What is the emotional distance with your girlfriend, the distance between boyfriend and girlfriend?

Updated on society 2024-05-28
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Sometimes feelings are like this, and they become very fragile in the face of reality.

    I tried to coax him, saying that I went this time, and I would accompany her well when I came back.

    You can't always snub people.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    1, if you don't do things, she will leave you over time, 2, time and distance are the number one killers of feelings.

    3. Find a good balance between your career and love.

    4. People should live with self and open-mindedness, in fact, sometimes all you need is a woman, not anything else!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    No, it's hard for the two of you to have a problem with your love! You don't need to think about a lot of things, as long as you think it's right, you can do it, and at the same time, you two need to communicate! It's good to have some things to say!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

    Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

    How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

    Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

    When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

    Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

    Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

    The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

    There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. in this world.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    1. Don't be too intimate and keep a certain distance.

    When friends of the opposite sex get along with each other, they must first keep a distance, keep a certain distance from each other in their behavior and heart, and don't get too close to each other when two people get along. Too close to friends of the opposite sex will directly cause misunderstandings and will not be comfortable getting along.

    Don't contact each other too often, so that the other person mistakenly thinks that you have a bad idea of her, and if she doesn't like you, she may block you.

    2. Pay attention to the way you speak, don't choose what to say.

    If you want to maintain friendship with each other, you need to be cautious and don't make jokes that go beyond friendship, which will make the other person very embarrassed. A friend is a friend, even if you are intimate, you should pay attention to the way you speak, and don't embarrass the other person without choice. As a friend and a friend of the opposite sex, you must pay attention to your words and deeds, if you trespass, it will make the other person very uncomfortable.

    3. Restrain your behavior and don't be too casual.

    Friends of the opposite sex, even if they have a good relationship, should restrain their behavior, and should not be too casual, otherwise it will make each other awkward. Don't be too distant, just keep a certain distance.

    When you are with friends of the opposite sex, don't take it for granted that the other person is a homosexual person, and don't care about physical touch, which will also embarrass the other party.

    Especially when friends of the opposite sex and their own couples can cause unnecessary trouble.

    Friends still restrain themselves.

    4. Be a good friend and don't interfere in each other's private affairs.

    Friends only do their duty to help enlighten each other, but they can't cross the line and don't need to interfere in each other's private affairs.

    Learn to respect each other's privacy and only do what a friend should do when confronted with the other person's confiding.

    5. Don't be sentimental and think about your friends.

    When friends of the opposite sex get along with each other, as friends, don't have some kind of illusion about each other. When you know that he just wants to be friends with you, you should control your heart. Just be by his side and be a good friend.

    Don't always think about piercing this layer of window paper and crossing the line, if the other party detects, your friends may not be able to do it.

    6. Maintain your independence and don't always rely on friends.

    Get along with friends, don't think about finding friends for help in everything, and do it independently by yourself. Friends are not everything, especially between friends of the opposite sex, and there are many complicated relationships. If the dependence on friends of the opposite sex is too strong, the relationship can easily deteriorate, such as the desire to monopolize the friendship, or the desire to develop the relationship in a deeper direction.

    In short, the friendship between boyfriend and girlfriend is difficult to get along with, but there are some, but not much. Friends of the opposite sex,

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    From start to finish with my ex-girlfriend, I always felt that she was deliberately keeping my distance from me.

    It shouldn't be too inaccurate to say that, and it should be said that it's obvious to keep my distance.

    But. But they're already a couple, what's wrong with holding hands! What happened when it was discovered! Besides, which time period is ambiguous, and which time period should not be ambiguous, how can I not have a point b in my own heart.

    Also, the most incomprehensible thing for me is that she especially doesn't like to make our relationship public. So none of her friends knew she was in love.

    You say that this is one thing, I am a big man, and I vividly deduce the bridge of the little three.

    Later, then we must have broken up.

    In the short time after the breakup, I pondered why our love was so deformed and so morbid.

    That's it, from beginning to end, in this not very long but unforgettable relationship, she doesn't know whether she likes me or not.

    Sometimes it's really scary, and you say you like it or not, how can you not know it.

    That is, my partner occasionally really cries alone because of my negligence. When I asked, she blamed me for caring too little about her, man, how could I see a girl crying.

    So I feel like she still loves me.

    I've also said it's occasional, but the norm is that she'll act like she's the same with me or not.

    So she has to keep her distance to determine whether she likes you or not, so she will never mention the breakup first, because she wants to save face, and she once said that she loves you. Suddenly separated, what if I really like it.

    So her attitude is to keep her distance all the time, and she will never be distant or close.

    Of course, there is another reason. It's that she has someone she likes, and her ex-boyfriend, or new love, must have such an existence.

    So, not long after we broke up, she was in love again.

    It's a heart-wrenching experience, but it's true. When she was in a relationship with me, the distance she kept must have been deliberate, and the reason was of course to show this new boy.

    Of course, in the end, I have to say that the ultimate reason is that she doesn't like you at all.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think there is a gap between you and your girlfriend, you should take the initiative to communicate with your girlfriend, otherwise if this continues, you will definitely accumulate a lot of complaints, and you must know how to care about your girlfriend, and when she really accepts you, then this sense of distance will not exist.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If only you've been together for a short time. Maybe he doesn't trust you too much. If you want to gain his trust, you should care more about him in this regard.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Two people become your lovers but both will have their own ideas, you have to learn to respect other people's ideas, don't impose your own ideas on each other, you should know more about your girlfriend.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I feel like she wants to break up with you, because she may be deliberately avoiding you, so make plans for the next step.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Maybe it's the feeling that you don't feel completely at ease, or maybe you don't give her the security she wants!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can directly ask your girlfriend if there is anything on your mind, and then try to solve it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The distance of love. The goddess of love hurried past here, and the round remnant sprinkled the seeds of love ......

    It slowly took root and sprouted, and as a result, there was one more thing on this planet, which was the most obvious word in the world that represented happiness - love.

    There are many kinds of love, love between relatives, love between friends, love between people, and so on. When you have this love, you will find how blessed you are.

    Love is a responsibility. When your lover's fate is in your hands, you should try your best to take care of him, protect him, and make him feel the warmth and warmth of love.

    Love is a kind of encouragement. When your lover is frustrated, you should encourage him, give him confidence, and let him face every difficult problem with confidence.

    Love is a kind of giving. When your lover needs your help, you should not hesitate to help him at the cost of ruin, because love is selfless.

    Love is a kind of tolerance. When your lover does something you don't like, you should forgive him for his mistakes with tolerance and understanding.

    Love is a kind of understanding, when your lover does something that you don't understand, you should treat him with understanding, because understanding can build a window to the heart.

    Love is the eternal emotion of human beings.

    The farthest distance is not that you and I are separated by sea and sky, but that I stand in front of you and you don't know that I love you.

    So let's cherish ourselves what we love and the people we love, it is these people who bring us a lifetime of happiness! It is these people who allow us to see the best things in the world!

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You can properly confess your feelings for her, and do some intimate actions from time to time (but don't be too intimate, be careful that she dislikes you), which will make him feel happy with you. Just because she loves you, so the lover will think you are very good. At school, just be a good friend, although occasionally let classmates misunderstand, so that you can care about her openly (these are the premise that she does not object, it is best to ask her opinion first, what kind of way she likes to get along).