What should I do for my sake?

I have had the same experience and a similar family background to you, I told my family when I graduated from my senior year, to be exact, let him see my family, in fact, it's nothing, girls grow up, although their parents don't want you to find a boyfriend before high school, that's because they think it will affect your studies, but when you grow up, this becomes what your parents want, you can start with one of your parents. See how they think about dating things like that right now (note that it's best to use someone else's example unintentionally, hehe, it's not a lie, it's just a way), and then decide not to tell them.

On the other hand, you don't have to feel too guilty about your boyfriend and their family, because most girls tell their families late in this situation, and my good friends and I are like this, that's because girls are more shy, as long as you are good to them

Personal opinion, hope it will be useful to you

are all college students, communicate and discuss with your father, the man's family is so good, your father can rest assured that he will hand you over to them.

I think parents are reluctant to leave their children! But children will always grow up and will always leave!

You don't want to tell your dad all the help your boyfriend and mom have given you! can wait until it's time to talk about marriage in the future, he should feel relieved to have such a good in-law.

When a girl falls in love, she tells her mother that it should be natural!

The most important thing is that you and him can be happy!

How to say it, I don't think the relationship is too old or young, the friends I introduced to my friends are also a year younger than themselves, but now they are all very good, and the feelings are very real, but I think you are too young now, you can be in the middle of a period of time I am also 19 years old and now married for three years, married life is not as simple as you think, I have come over, not older than you, it is my own feelings, maybe you will change your opinion of you when you are older. Now that I'm 23 and my daughters are 3 years old, can you imagine how hard it is? You can't think of it, so maybe it will change when you're older.

How old are you? If you feel that you can't cope with it, you can do it by feeling, and it's useless to think too much. Turning around and running away also has troubles after running, as for his family being good to you, they are willing, don't you also dedicate yourself. In short, whatever you want.

Go to him, even if you can't do anything, it's an encouragement and comfort. You stay with him, and you don't need to say much. If there is something that he does not see, you will be his eyes; If he can't keep busy, you will be his hands and feet. Go to your lover's side and don't think about going down.

Do you have his friend's **? Check it out.

Do you have a ** from his unit? Check it out.

You have to do something, you can't sit still. If you don't know the address, you can inquire (you can't ask someone else, you ask him); There is no travel fee you can borrow; There is a job and you can take time off. You always have to fight for love and give!

If you really fail to achieve your wish due to some objective reasons (such as: when you come to him, he has already gone back), then, one day in the future, you will feel calm in the face of him or look back at yourself.

Even if you don't do anything, you try to do it, not just imagining. Then, if you tell him about the process, he will accept and be moved.

To put it harshly, it would be too pale if you were just verbally comforting now. Because he is now losing a loved one, will you make yourself a possible relative for him?

Be persistent, even if he complains about you, it is possible to bring more money, and it may be used.

Take the initiative to find him, he needs you.

If you really have the heart, you will know how to find him.

You can send him a text message first to comfort him, and if he returns, then you can call again; If she doesn't reply, then you don't bother her just yet.

Although you say that it is impossible to go to him, it is better to go to him immediately, even if you don't say anything, just give him a hug, which is better than anything. If you love him so much, what else can't you let go? If you really don't feel good, you probably don't love him as much as you think.