Why can t you insist on it?

Why do you feel sorry for him? It may be that deep down in your heart, you feel that you don't love him as much as he loves you, or you don't love him and don't propose to break up, so you feel that you are delaying him, and you will feel sorry for him (personal understanding).

I think it's better to divide it early.,There's no emotion as if.。。 As long as you feel unhappy. If you stay together for a long time, you're still unhappy, so it's better to let yourself go.

You don't care what the other person thinks, whether he loves you or not, whether he is good to you or not, you ask yourself first. Do you love him? If you love him, you insist on letting him go if you don't love him, and he lets go of yourself, but I think you don't love him because you feel sorry for him......Neither is it together, and breaking up seems to be even worse ......

I think you'd better let him go.

I think it's better to break up.

Sooner or later, your thoughts like this will hurt him. Better a finger off than always aching. Let him understand your heart earlier. He won't be hurt that much by then!

If you really like him, just go ahead, it seems that he is fine, but you can't force yourself, pretending to like him is actually deceiving him.

Feelings are too hurtful, either you are hurt or he is hurt.

We have a lot of things to do in our daily life, and some things need to be done for a long time to get results, which requires persistence, such as reading, such as fitness, these are things that need to be done for a long time to get good results, and what is needed in the middle is persistence.

We often know that as long as we persist in doing something for a long time, it will have good results, but why can't we always stick to it?

With this in mind, I asked someone close to me who had got the results.

Here's the thing, I and many mothers around me participated in an online traditional culture teacher training course. The learning tasks in this class are relatively heavy, there are reading parts, writing parts, and lessons to listen to every day, and there are no more than two hours a day, so I really can't get such a learning task. After I persevered for less than a month, I gave up.

Among us, there is a mother who is particularly persistent, has been studying for more than a year, facing the daily learning task, not a day has been left behind, and her growth is also amazing, and people who are familiar with her around her have seen her changes.

I wondered how she did it. Everyone has to work, have children to take care of, juggle family and work, and find time to study. I think she must have some kind of time management method, or maybe her husband gave his full support to help with the children and household chores.

Hers is completely different from what I thought. She said it was a daily compulsory course and she got used to it. It was difficult at the beginning, but it became a habit to stick to it, and I used the fragmented time to study every day.

One thought in my heart, I have to learn every day. When you let go of laziness, you can break your thoughts with thoughts. As we often say, don't forget the original intention.

She gets up at 5 o'clock every day to study and rests at 12 o'clock, enjoying the fun of learning and experiencing a feeling of happiness in learning.

I thought it was a problem of time management and a problem of art, but I didn't expect it to be a problem of the mind, a matter of the Tao. Thoughts, persistence, habits, to break the thoughts, the road to simplicity.

Taste it carefully, everything that can't be insisted on is the original intention, and there is something wrong with that idea.

There is always a way to do it, and there is always a reason if you don't want to do it. That's the answer I've found.