Why are people in rural areas poor and exquisite ?

There are many rules in rural life, from eating to dressing. These rules are also part of the traditional customs in the countryside and play a role in the daily life of people. For the present, some of the earlier rules are no longer in line with the current situation, and they are often said to be "poor and exquisite", and they are often criticized by people.

In rural areas, basically the poorer the family, the more particular they love to pay attention to, and the more backward the place, the more they like to pay attention to comparison. For example, pay attention to eating and drinking, pay attention to dressing, or blindly follow various old rules in the past. But anyone who has such a style is called "poor and exquisite".

But if you are a little wealthier, this will not be the case, and the rules can be there but there is much less exquisiteness.

Many elderly people in rural areas are more aware of old reason, and they also have various requirements for their families. Listening to my mother, when I used to make dumplings during the New Year, I was more particular than usual, for the sake of Tujili. When my mother was a child, she never let people interfere with dumpling making grandma, but if she made any small moves, she would be hit with chopsticks, and sometimes she didn't even know what was wrong.

Later, I heard such a saying, "Busy and busy, don't let dumplings run around". This is an old rule in the countryside, pinching dumplings can only be placed on the round cover curtain board, and there are this requirements for the number, each curtain of dumplings can only be placed 99, more than less.

Now it has become "poor and exquisite", but the older generation has abided by such rules for a lifetime, and these have long been integrated into their lives. In fact, the conditions were limited at that time, and people wanted to get good luck when they did things, although there were not many changes in life, but they always followed. Now that life is getting better and better, grandma doesn't have any attention to these things, and the yards are not messy, and making dumplings requires the whole family to go out to have an atmosphere.

There is no shortage of people in the countryside who love to be "poor and exquisite", but their families are poor but have to put on a full shelf. Eat well outside, dress more carefully, and improve your awareness in the eyes of others through these, and in the end, you lose face and lose. In fact, "the poor are exquisite, the more exquisite they are, the poorer they are", and they pinned their "poverty" on some unnecessary things, and there were all kinds of rules and regulations in life, which also restricted their progress.

In the countryside, "poor and exquisite" is more manifested in comparison, in the past, these things were more serious, in addition to red and white ceremonies, a little big thing has to be put on a few tables of flowing water to celebrate. It's more because of "being poor and exquisite", and always wants to make some big scenes, so that outsiders can see face. In the later period, the whole village was disgusted, bought a car to set up a banquet, added a new family to set up a banquet, the sow cubs in the family had to set up a banquet, and even divorced to have a banquet.

Many people say that rural people love to be "poor and exquisite", but in fact, these are the restrictions of poverty, and these exquisiteness brings some psychological comfort. Nowadays, the countryside is becoming more and more affluent, and people have a more correct understanding of paying attention to living, the environment, and education. The "poor and exquisite" tense of the past has gradually disappeared in the countryside.

In fact, I have heard of this saying that rural people are poor and pay attention to it before, but I think that rural people are poor and pay attention to them also have a certain purpose. What people call poverty may simply be that they want to have a more standardized life like the people in the city. Take a garbage can as an example, some rural people will deliberately prepare a garbage can, cover it with a garbage bag, and put it next to the kang after feeding it like people in the city.

I want to throw all the household garbage in the garbage basket on a regular basis. People in the group should think it's funny after seeing it, because the environment in the countryside may be quite different from that in the city, so they think this is unnecessary, but in the eyes of rural people, this is a kind of change, a kind of pursuit. <>

I don't think it's that they love to compare, but that the overall social environment leads them to want to have a positive heart and want to change their living environment, and I think this idea is okay. Rural people are not known for being dirty, they also want a clean environment.

I think it has a lot to do with poverty in the countryside. In the past, there was a big economic gap between the rural and urban areas, and these peasants would "slap their faces and become fat" for the sake of their own face. He is very particular about many things.

They thought that this would make the city people look down on the rural people. In fact, they don't understand that these poor and particular things show even more the kind of petty family spirit of the peasants.

These poor and exquisite peasants also have a lot to do with some traditions left by their ancestors. These traditions are essentially ingrained in the minds of the peasants. The countryside is much poorer than the cities, and these poor traditions will not be so easily abandoned in the minds of the peasants.

Even now, the gap between rural and urban areas is gradually narrowing, but some elderly people in the countryside are still clinging to their so-called "poor and exquisite" traditions.

I believe that with the development of society, there will be fewer and fewer "poor and sophisticated" people in the rural areas, and eventually disappear.

It's not that they are poor and exquisite, every place has its own customs and customs, because their growth environment is constantly changing, but they still have the practices and ideas passed down from their ancestors in their minds, which they think are right in their eyes, so their exquisiteness is good for their children and their own village in their eyes. And. It is really because of this that every place in our country has its own characteristics.

This is a bit too much, the city people have few rules, because the urban environment does not allow it, and the rules that rural people pay attention to are left by their ancestors, and this is their expectation of a better life in the future.

There are many people who are rich and rich and cry poor, and there are very few poor people who pretend to be rich. After the reform and opening up, rural peasants can not only go to the cities to work, but also go to the cities to do business. Some smart, brave, hard-working people did get rich.

Wealthy people generally have the mentality that they don't want to expose their wealth. One is afraid of being jealous of others, the second is afraid of being robbed, and the third is afraid of borrowing money from relatives, friends and neighbors. Therefore, most of the people who made their fortunes were very low-key, afraid to build a mansion, afraid to buy a good car, and afraid to dress beautifully.

When people ask them how much money they make, they usually say that they still owe a bank loan. In fact, these people are not really rich people. Really rich people don't have the leisure time to decorate their facades.

It doesn't matter if they're poor or rich, they don't have that time. Comparatively speaking, the living conditions in the rural areas are relatively backward and simple. Everyone is from the street, they are more familiar and familiar.

They chat more often. Many people and things can easily become topics of conversation. The home is short, the voice is heartless, and the listener has a heart.

As for the poor who pretend to be rich, yes. This kind of person has a strong sense of vanity and is unwilling to let others say that he can't do it. But there are not many such people, because there is no money, and they cannot pretend to be rich.

If you don't have the money, let alone hundreds of thousands of luxury cars, you can't afford to buy hundreds of thousands or even tens of thousands of cars, unless you borrow someone else's car and tell your friends that you bought it yourselfIt's even more embarrassing to let friends know! As for the poor, because they are used to being looked down upon, they are afraid that their behavior will appear too stingy or too poor, so they deliberately make a high profile and be generous.

Actually, he is not really poor, he is really poor, just pretending to be rich. This kind of person who likes to act and confuses others will not get lost halfway, and they all want to show something to make people pay more attention. In rural areas, people who have no money are often looked down upon.

When you need help, you often don't get it. When doing things, many people are ruthless, girls can't get married, and boys can't find wives. Long mouths can kill.

Over time, it is often unacceptable to the poor. They are afraid of you talking, of borrowing money and things, of dealing with you, of being rejected. Therefore, it is not a good thing that the countryside is poor.

Rich people are afraid of others borrowing money. There are too many relationships, so I have to pretend to be poor and cry poor. The richer people have the spirit of misers, the more reluctant they are to spend money, they get angry when they see that they have no money, they feel that they don't work hard, and they feel that it is not easy to earn every penny. We've seen the rich cry poor.

The real rich man is very low-key, crying poor will not cause you a lot of trouble, when you are rich, there will be many people who ask you to borrow money, the poor pretend to be rich, so that people can look up to him, when he needs help, someone is willing to help him.

Because the rich are especially afraid that people will ask them to borrow money, and the poor will pretend to be rich in order to earn enough face in front of outsiders.

It is because in the countryside they are more inclined to talk about others, so everyone will disguise themselves.

Rural populations are small. The young labor force is mainly concentrated in urban development (and talent may also go to urban development), and the rural population is mostly elderly and children.

The economy (low level of consumption) has a limited population, low purchase consumption, and is self-sufficient in basic consumer goods.

The transportation is inconvenient and there are few jobs available.

I think the reasons are as follows: 1. The geographical location is poor, and the underdeveloped transportation affects the development. 2 is that there are few resources, and most of the good resources are in big cities.

The countryside is not necessarily very poor, there are rich and poor people in every place, and there are many rich people in the countryside, but some people are poorer!

Because there is no population in the countryside, there is no business.

Huaxi is also rural, and it was not poor before.

There are many reasons for rural poverty, including historical reasons, natural environment, social system, education level and other factors. For a long time, infrastructure construction and industrial development in rural areas have lagged behind, resulting in a relatively low level of economic development in rural areas. The natural environment is also one of the factors affecting rural poverty, such as natural disasters and water shortages, which will affect the livelihoods of rural residents.

In addition, the social system and the level of education are also among the factors that contribute to rural poverty. The inequity and instability of the social system can lead to the loss of fair competition opportunities for some people, making it difficult for them to obtain adequate income and resources. At the same time, low levels of education will also limit the development and employment opportunities of rural residents, making it difficult to increase economic income.

Rural residents also face many difficulties and challenges in entrepreneurship and development, such as lack of capital and technology, poor markets and marketing channels, and limited land and resources. Therefore, although they will try to do some business, it will be difficult to get enough income and profits.

In short, rural poverty is not a simple problem, but involves a wide range of factors and problems. To solve rural poverty, we need to start from many aspects, including strengthening infrastructure construction, promoting industrial development, improving the level of education, improving the social system, and solving the problem of land and resources. It is only through comprehensive measures and policies that the livelihoods and quality of life of rural dwellers can be effectively improved.

Cognitive problems, as well as the limited education received by most of them, in the environment in which they live, the cognitive level is not high, and it is difficult to make a fortune without going out.

I married to the rural family also love to be poor and exquisite, very annoying, I feel that everything is not going well, everywhere restrictions, how to say, he is very filial to the elders, the elders' words are the same, although sometimes I am very good, but I am not happy, I feel that the people I married are not rural people but generations of scholars, very depressed, although we love each other and get married, but I don't know if we can grow old together, will there be a day when I can't bear to choose to leave, I may have, very scared, I felt like I was doing something very risky, like walking a tightrope in the air, and the rural medical conditions were okay, and I felt that he was unreliable.

A poor man, only 5 yuan, he took a bowl of noodles, and the money was gone; A rich man, he has 50,000 yuan, take 5 yuan to eat a bowl of noodles, and the rest is in the bank, and he will come back in a few days. We often wonder why the poor are getting poorer and the rich getting richer.

Because the "money" of the poor is not the same as the "money" of the rich. To a large extent, the "money" of the poor can only be regarded as "shopping vouchers", because the income and consumption of the poor are basically the same, and the basic expenses of food, clothing, housing and transportation can no longer be coped。Even a small surplus that can be used for savings is overwhelmed by inflation.

The real structure of the rich people's "money" is a variety of assets, including equity, debt, real estate, copyrights, etc. His purchase of jewelry, villas and yachts is not a consumption, but the transformation of one form of asset into another. The proportion of consumer spending such as eating and shopping is very small, and the rate of asset appreciation can fully cover consumption, so it will create a feeling of "spending all the time, but more and more money".

Capital primitive accumulation of wealth can be accumulated. The more wealth you have, the faster you will gain it。If the deposit interest rate is fixed at 5%, if A has 100 yuan, he can get an income of 5 yuan after one year of bank deposit.

But if B has 1 million, his annual income in the bank is 50,000 yuan. A and B have 10,000 times their personal wealth, but this gap leads to a 10,000 times difference in investment returns. This illustrates the importance of capital accumulation.

Capital accumulation is like a snowball. The bigger you roll, the faster you roll.

Distinguish between assets and liabilitiesWhat is an asset? An asset is something that puts money in your pocket. What is Debt?

Debt is something you pay out of your own pocket. Buy assets, not liabilities. A car, including a cost of about 150,000 yuan, will be scrapped after 10 years of use.

The annual cost is £20,000. The total cost is 150,000 200,000 = 350,000. Ten years later, those 350,000 people are missing.

But if you change your way of thinking: spend 150,000 yuan to buy a house first, pay 20,000 yuan a year, and in 10 years you will have at least a house of 300,000 yuan (350,000 yuan, of which 50,000 yuan is mortgage interest). If you spend 50,000 yuan a year on decoration rent of 10,000 yuan, then after 10 years, regardless of the rise and fall of housing prices, you will have at least 300,000-50,000-50,000 yuan = 400,000 yuan.