My son is autistic, what about the future?

I can empathize with your situation, my brother is autistic and 21 years old. His future is indeed something we all fear about. My mom is now training my brother to take care of himself, do laundry or something, although it can't do well, but it's better than nothing.

Your child is not too old yet. So you have to have the confidence to teach him from now on, train him, we don't want them to become normal people in the future, but we still have to work towards him being able to live independently. My brother is lucky, after all, there is still my sister.

Actually, I'm thinking more about what he's going to do after I'm gone. To put it mildly, if the financial conditions allow, consider having another child, after all, it is a sibling, and it is better to give your son to his own brother or sister than to someone else, although it will be unfair to another child.

What to do. Be nice to him every day. We are all miserable people.

You also finished watching Jet Li's Ocean Paradise, I didn't dare to read it as soon as I saw the beginning, I hope that there will be a ** meeting in the country, parents like buying insurance, saving money regularly, and the state subsidizes a little, to ensure that the children behind them can be fed, clothed and have a place to live.

Life and death let him be with you and never be separated.

Parents don't think about the future, they think about the present.

It's autism. Children often have stereotypical behaviors, such as doing things or playing with toys in the same way, asking objects to be placed in a fixed position, going out on the same route, and eating only a few kinds of food for a long time.

Losing hands are often accompanied by stereotyped repetitive movements and bizarre behaviors, such as repetitive jumping, staring with hands in front of your eyes, fluttering, or walking on your toes.

A few points of consensus on autism**:1. There is no specific drug for autism**. Early diagnosis and early intervention can improve the prognosis of autism, so autism** is generally considered to be the younger the age, the better the effect, but there is no age cut-off point, in fact, some patients improve at a later age.

2. Countries around the world, especially developed countries, have established many special education and training course systems for solitary high independence disease, and the above several main training methods have their own advantages and disadvantages, and there is no evidence that which one is significantly better than the other. There is a tendency for various approaches to converge with each other.

Then you should take your son to relax more and make more friends.

See if he is autistic, whether he doesn't like to communicate with others and is withdrawn, so it is autism.

When children are young, if there is no correct guidance from parents or parents ignore children too much, they are likely to have some psychological problems, and if these psychological problems are not solved in time, it is likely to have a certain impact on their character development and future learning and development. Autism is also relatively common among children, so how to deal with autism after a child suffers from autism**?

Autism is mainly manifested as interpersonal communication disorders, usually after children suffer from autism, they are reluctant to interact with others, and there is no common topic with others, and they do not like to talk and shout when getting along with others, and they are not social, and even some children are not very coherent when they speak, and there will be serious speech disorders. Parents who have a serious situation must pay attention to it, take their children to see a psychologist, and let them check it as much as possible to help them recover. If some patients with mild symptoms of loneliness, then parents must take time to spend more time with their children and talk more with their children, so parents should communicate more with their children to give them a sense of security, and they will slowly open their hearts and gradually get better.

Many people will talk to their friends when they feel uncomfortable, this method of confiding is also very good, if the child is suffering from autism, then they may not be very familiar with the outside world, and they are more repulsed, but the more this is the more they can not let them stay at home all the time. Parents can take their children out to play together, let them make some good friends or take their children out to exercise more, through sports to release their stress and unhappiness, in the process of sports, it is likely to meet like-minded friends, then Zheng Mao's children and these friends have more contact time, and they will slowly let go of themselves and say more.

The best methods for children with autism are as follows: 1. Take social interaction as the core content of training. The core disorder in children with ASD is social impairment, so motivation and skills for social interaction are at the heart of early intervention**; 2. Take behavior as the basic means.

Behavior** refers to the use of positive reinforcement, negative reinforcement, extinction, fading, punishment and other techniques for different behaviors of children, so as to promote good lead luck behavior, adaptive behavior, reduce and eliminate bad behavior and non-adaptive behavior; 3. Structured education and randomized training are the basic framework, arrange orderly life, establish daily routines, and educate in fun. For children with ASD, the content of the activities to be participated in is no different from that of normal children, which is still the natural upbringing in the family and natural living environment, daily life, outdoor sports, indoor games, etc.; 4. The recommended foreign mainstream early intervention methods mainly include ABA method, structured education, social intervention represented by interpersonal relationship development intervention and local stimulation time, early intervention Denver model and interactive support method for social emotion regulation.

Parents should take their children to the hospital to find a counselor. Parents should pay more attention to their children and don't put too much pressure on them. You can experience encouraging the children to come into contact with other children, and the tasseling can have the best effect.

Pay attention to the child's psychological state, pay attention to communication, and be sure to guide the child, so that the child is willing to get along with other people and be willing to play with other people.

According to the doctor's advice**, or to understand the child's basic symptoms, you must learn to enlighten the child and change the child to a new environment.