I plan to do business with my husband after the Spring Festival, but the psychological pressure is p

Updated on psychology 2024-05-21
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hehe, hello two children.

    You're younger than me, but you have the courage to do business, good things.

    In fact, the root cause of your current stress is not what will happen to your business, but whether you are optimistic about your husband.

    If you are optimistic about him, then what if you fail, young man, just start over, and it may be a good thing for your relationship for a couple in distress to see the truth.

    But if you don't like him in your heart, then of course you will have a drum in your heart and pressure on the business he chooses.

    The reason why business is difficult is because there are so many uncertainties, and no one can tell you exactly which factors are, because these uncertainties are the choice of cameras at different times and places. All you can do is see the move.

    And the last thing is, whether your business succeeds or fails, you're going to get a lot of life lessons, and that's invaluable.

    Suggestions for relieving stress It's very simple Go to Tianya to read that famous post [gossip rivers and lakes] Come to Bayone, how miserable are you at the low point of life? How did you survive in the end?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Landlord, the law of the jungle! If you're scared, it's better to work. What does it take to do business? The spirit of perseverance! People with good ability to work under pressure are suitable for business. Anyway, if you think about it yourself, it's not that I speak badly, but I'm also good for you.

    In fact, doing business is like this, rent, transfer fees, and business licenses all need your pay, your face, business is not so easy to do, otherwise you will be the boss, don't you say? Hehe.

    What I can help you and tell you is: doing business is not about how sweet your mouth is, how eloquent your mouth is, and how likable you are, but how you face it and how kind of mentality you face. Experience in business?

    Hehe, really experienced people won't tell you casually, because experience is spelled out step by step, and it is all hard work.

    So, I feel that what you and your husband should be doing at the moment is to calm down, put your mind at ease, the more anxious you are, the more chaotic things will be, and you see that there are a few people who are not calm - very few. The store will find it - if you can't even find the store, don't do business. There will still be difficulties, it's not that I don't say good things, the fact is that I want to make a lot of money but don't want to pay, how can I do it in the face of difficulties?

    You said no? Either way, bless you. You have a good fight, the business was originally spelled out, not falling from the sky. Work hard!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Let your heart open, keep your eyes open, and don't be afraid of failure.

    When I started my business, my parents didn't want me to do it, because they were afraid that I wouldn't be able to do it well.

    The heart is open, the business has losses and gains, do not affect the mood, keep the mentality normal, you can be kind to the customer, the customer feels that you are polite, in order to take care of your business for a long time, and can also bring you business. Harmony makes money, how can you be harmonious without a good mood.

    Take a long-term view, don't look at the immediate loss of business for a while, you will earn it back.

    Don't be afraid of failure, you have to break through while you're young, you can afford to lose when you're young, and being young is the capital.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Personal suggestion: The two of you understand **No, you initially understand the market, and there is no room for development in the market. Make an assessment of yourself and feel that you can make money on your own.

    Just go and do it boldly, and use up all your strength for a long time. I think your pressure is that you two don't have much confidence in your business. You're not stressed yet.

    You're still crying when you're doing it...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Is that all you have to worry about? If so, I don't think it's pressure, I feel that your pressure is not from what you do, but from whether you will make money by doing it? If you don't have the confidence to do it with your boyfriend, I suggest you still don't do it well, after all, the experience of the two people is not too rich, the most important thing is that there is no knowledge of business in it, some are just a passion, if you don't deal with the problems that you have to face when opening a store, then you should first find a business with yourself to do business almost to exercise your own things to do...

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The key is to control the quality, do not need to be sociable and express words, know how to be diligent, communicate with customers more, and listen to feedback.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Take other people's money to do your own business.

    When taking someone else's money", success or failure has nothing to do with yourself, win a good attitude.

    Come and do your own business"With a good attitude, you can let go of your hands and feet and stride forward, you are the CEO, and when you do business, you become a person.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't know what kind of work you are engaged in now, if you wholesale milk, you have to see if you have a fixed channel to sell now, because milk is a food and has a shelf life, so relatively speaking, the risk is relatively large. Look before you leap.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    As long as it is a project that you have inspected, choosing a good market is the most critical, and you are ready for these two points, then rest assured to do it boldly, and the early stage is to accumulate experience and find out the direction of better development, and if you work hard to do it, I believe that it will be done well.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Everything is difficult at the beginning, as long as you do it persistently, you can succeed. As for relieving stress, these are all troubles that you add to yourself, and there is no need for so much pressure, isn't it just to open a store? It's all so young, even if you fail, you can start all over again, and you don't have to be so stressed.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Personally, I don't think it's the best time to start a business, so it's recommended to focus on exercising, accumulating experience, trying to work in a field you like or planning to get involved in, try to do it, feel that you are really competent, and it's not too late to do it!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think it's different from others, it's better to keep the money in the past two years, doing business depends on the atmosphere, and now is not the time to make a move.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I can't help you with how to do business, but I can help you with your business license and food circulation permit.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Success is simple, not as difficult as the legend says, goal plus persistence. In addition, you can make more friends in the industry.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Does clothing wholesale do? It's very simple, it's no problem to earn seven or eight thousand a day in the peak season.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Fear of failure will never succeed,

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When the pressure is particularly high and cannot be relieved, you can listen to **, listen to your favorite songs, and soothe your mood.

    Talk to others and tell your close friends or family members and elders about your thoughts.

    Keeping a small plant close to you and looking up where you can see it can soothe your mood. When you feel stressed, stop what you're worrying about for a while, take care of the plants, and relax.

    In short, it's best to find a way that you can accept, and don't keep it in your heart. I hope you are happy every day and everything goes well.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In fact, a very important cause of heart disease is low self-esteem. If others can succeed, why can't you yourself? Can you do what others say is the wind?

    Can you go back when someone scolds you? Many reasons for success are self-confidence, and how can a person succeed if he doesn't even have self-confidence. Let's go back and talk about it:

    If you don't have low self-esteem, you are confident, and you succeed, will you still feel that there is something wrong with you? Sometimes a lot of thoughts and actions stifle in low self-esteem only, friend, cheer up, okay? Let's do it!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Life is the best, whether poor or rich, life is beautiful, think more about happy things, think about your dreams, and strive to strive for the life you want is better than anything, and it is normal to achieve nothing when you are young, no one will look down on you, because you just say you, unique you, good luck!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In fact, 95% of young people in their 20s have houses bought by their families, and they are 23 or 24 years old after graduating from college.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Don't be too depressed, it will cause depression, you can talk to friends, talk to your heart, and talk about your heart. Don't always think about the things that are not happy.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Financially independent, moving out to live, distance produces beauty, and if you can't produce beauty, at least it's not annoying. If you can only live under the same roof, then be thick-skinned, don't be so sensitive, she said it's up to her, don't talk back, and don't take it to heart.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There are many reasons for stress, such as work reasons, family conditions, etc., and those who can reduce pressure will be decompressed

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    To say something that might offend your family, move out, and the family who will only complain will only put pressure on you. It's good to pay your living expenses on time every month!

    I used to be like that, and then I went out to work, and I didn't live with my family that year, and I was much better. Now that I'm living with my family again, I'm irritable every week.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You need to find someone to talk to every day, I'm the same as you, now I often look for someone to talk to, I must find someone who is trustworthy, regardless of men and women, and after a period of time, I will stay away from my family After a period of time, it does have an effect, in fact, I saw that there is the same as me, so I answered.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I also hate my mother, my mother controls everything, and when I grow up, my work salary is taken away, and I only have three hundred yuan left for me to spend every month, and I praise the money every month for a few years, and my mother always finds all kinds of excuses to take the money away, in fact, I know that the money is spent outside for her own face, and I live like a dog, everything is for her own face, and the personal pressure is also very high, and the mood is also very low, Every day like a dog, I hate my mother to death, I also have a slight mental illness, I always want to run away from home, but people always have to live, I can only explain myself, but I will not be used to my mother now, she wants to raise people outside to raise herself, I will not pay her a penny more, only give her half of her salary every month, and the money left to live your own life, you also have to explain yourself, otherwise the condition will only be more serious like I used to.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    1. Find the reason: If you feel stressed, you will find the reason for the pressure, whether it is because of work or family, after finding the reason, solving the difficulties, solving the problems and troubles, there will be no pressure. 2. Don't force it:

    People who are under pressure can't let go, can't think about it, and want to decompress, so don't force anything, go with the flow, and do what you should do. 3. Learn to let go: don't be too persistent about everything, just work hard, don't regret it, you have to learn to let go of what you should put down, without too many distractions and desires, including the eyes of others, let go, and naturally there will be no pressure and troubles.

    4 6 Don't suppress: When you are stressed, you must think of ways to reduce the pressure, resolve it, don't suppress yourself, put it in your heart, don't tell others, bear it yourself, say it when you should say it, or cry a good time alone, shout a few times by the sea, on the mountain, and release the bad emotions. 5. Eat, drink and sing:

    When you are stressed, find a few friends, eat and drink, go out and have fun, play, sing, and exercise can relieve stress.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Advise yourself that when choosing a job and coping with real life, you need to do what you can, don't force yourself, and don't live for others. Choose a life path that suits you, compare yourself with your past, and don't compare yourself with anyone else. With a healthy mind, a peaceful mind, living every day in a down-to-earth manner, and handling everything well, I think I am a successful person!

    At the same time, they also need to consciously improve themselves through the study of psychology and extensive social practice activities, and improve their comprehensive quality and psychological endurance.

    Think differently! Sometimes I feel very tired, I feel that any pressure is on my shoulders, in fact, it is a problem of thought, don't always think about these problems, people live to be happy, you don't want to listen to some light **, or do something you like, soak your feet in boiling water at night! Have a great day!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you're feeling stressed, release yourself and be careful to push yourself out. For example, looking for friends to come out K songs, I think K songs are good for stress relief, sing loudly on KTV, no matter whether the singing is good or not, forget about everything.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    How to reduce stress, you must have a good attitude, you can adjust your mood, such as going to travel a little more relaxed, listen to **, watch a movie, don't take things to heart, do things on the same day, don't think too much about it, in order to reduce your pressure.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The goal is reasonable, the mentality is correct, and the rest is reasonable.

    First of all, there should be reasonable goals in life. The goal of doing things (including study, work, love, etc.) should be combined with your actual situation, not too high, unrealistic, and you will be stressed when you see tasks that cannot be completed every day.

    Second, be relaxed. Don't compare yourself to others every day. There will always be disadvantages, dissatisfaction, and there will be a lot of pressure.

    Finally, learn to take proper rest. Learn to take a break without thinking about things and concentrate on resting. Now that the weather is nice, you can take into account the outdoors, or go for a trip in the suburbs. Good luck.

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