Am I wrong with my mentality, my mentality is wrong

After all, your eldest brother is older than you, and it's normal to have a diaphragm.

Besides, everyone has different thoughts, different personalities, and different ways of doing things.

It may be that you don't find the same topic, or it may be that he says his point of view and you disagree, sometimes try to put yourself in his perspective and be humble to each other. If you want to change a good relationship, you can get along with him more, tell him more about your own opinions, for example, you can directly say that you don't like him to be so rigid, so that he can know what you think.

And I can't often help the little brother.,The little brother may have a very cheerful and lively personality.,Naturally simple and many people.,Maybe you often care about the little brother and ignore the big brother.,If I'm ignored and hated by my sister, I'm definitely not happy.。

So you can improve yourself first, try not to hate him, get along well, even if you are a big brother, you will only be bad to outsiders, and you will not hurt your relatives.

How to say that the mentality is not very correct anyway, it is estimated that you can't eat grapes and say that grapes are sour.

Everyone has their own personality traits and ways of dealing with the world. Maybe what the big brother said is very orthodox, giving you a direction but not listening to it is not the answer you want, and the little brother can tell you some things euphemistically and make you feel very useful. In fact, they are all good people, for your own good, the family should not treat Ra differently with emotions

Generally, there are two types of two people together, one is complementary, and the two have characteristics that the other does not have and are attracted to each other; The second type is the common interest type, the two have similar interests, of course, they are more harmonious and friendly together. I guess you are the first type, or the enemy type, and to tell the truth, if the gap between the two personal growth experiences is relatively large, including family background, educational experience, etc., then my proposal is that the two tolerate each other, understand each other, and the other party must continue to learn and improve, and the two have a common goal, they will not care about the difference in character or the way the other party deals with problems, you must know that there is absolutely no good or bad character, pay attention to appreciate his good side, and as a woman, The way of dealing with it definitely requires wisdom, it is best to be tactful, a little more ingenious, I believe that through your wisdom, he will also change quietly in the subtle way, finally, I wish you happiness!

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Flamboyant people are not good people, upright people are good people, society needs this, if they are all upright and intolerable, then there will be less corruption, and the society will progress.

It may be that you can't do this yourself, and then you feel that you are not rigid intentionally or unintentionally, it may be the envy in your heart, or maybe.

If you look at things from different angles, you will find that there are many things that are not what you think.

Read a few history books, and people will become more peaceful.

After all, your eldest brother is older than you, and it's normal to have a diaphragm.

Maybe there is a so-called generation gap between you and your big brother.

Maybe you subconsciously feel that you are not like him = like him, so you don't like him, and people's hearts are very strange.

You are psychologically resistant, and it would be good when the two of you go through something together.

Tell him what you think, maybe he can change it, needless to say I told him, but he. You have to treat him with a good attitude! Maybe he's not that nasty.

Looking at the opening point, everyone will have shortcomings. After all, no one is perfect, he is your brother, so be considerate and considerate of him, maybe he also has difficulties.

Wow!!! You have two older brothers, so happy, do you like your eldest brother to have this kind of envy and jealousy???

Maybe your eldest brother doesn't know how to communicate with others, but it doesn't mean that he is bad, so why not try to understand him?

Everyone is different Everyone has a different personality and a different style of doing things.

It's not the mentality, it's the personality is different.

There is no mistake . But also to maintain a good relationship with the big brother.

Reading too many books, that's all.

I can't help you, there is someone who can help you, in fact, it is a book to read through lifeBritish humanist James Brown. Allen's works, he can correct your mentality and change your life. Xinhua Bookstore has.

Adjust well, you can relax first, and then invest People don't always maintain a full energy and positive attitude There will always be times when you feel low and feel that everything is boring At this time you should find something for yourself to do Do something meaningful For example, I don't want to do anything these days So now I'm going to answer the questions Take every answer very seriously I think it's very helpful to me I hope it can help you.

Well, study hard and make progress every day.

It's normal to have a wrong mentality, people always have times when they can't figure it out, in fact, sometimes many people will inexplicably get into the tip of the horns, for example, some people, many things can be endured, and if they can't bear it, they will leave, this world is not alive in **, right?

I don't know if I can help you, hehe, sometimes divert your attention, maybe it will get better!

Look at the questions you ask, and you know that you have a psychological problem. Go to the doctor, we're not doctors.

Then think about it on the bright side, but if it doesn't work, don't think about it at all.

See a psychiatrist, or do something you enjoy.

If you reflect on it, you will definitely find the reason.

In fact, a positive attitude is necessary for a person's healthy life. The country and the family need to be built, the survival needs to work, the society needs harmony, the family needs warmth, the friends need to be tolerant, and the good mood and behavior need to be cultivated and cultivated. You can do this:

Find joy in study and work, family joy in life, friends get together in communication, help others in ordinary times, and be content and happy in life. Let's find the joy of life in happiness. May all unhappiness go away with the wind like a cloud that has dissipated.

So if you want to keep up with the pace of others, then you have to work harder than others, and when you are resting, seize the time to charge yourself to fill the yardstick, so that you can be full, and you must be diligent in your mouth, hands, and thinking, so that you will make great progress, don't be afraid of mistakes, but don't always make the same mistakes

It's not a problem of your mentality, it's a problem of society.

University is a buffer zone for entering society, in fact, everyone knows that many problems are right and wrong, but they will follow the big trend, and slowly the wrong has become normal.

Your idea is right, but if you just blindly resist, then your strength alone is unreliable, unless you are strong enough.

These are the problems you find that you try to avoid at least in what you do, don't you? If more people are like you, then at least there will be a difference when you deal with these issues. Stick to yourself, but you also have to adapt to society, and it's good to grasp the degree.

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If you go to the society, you will know that the situation in the society is worse than this, which means that your experience has always made you a very simple person, no way, you can only adapt, whether it is a good person or a bad person, you can only do what you want to do after getting power, it is useless not to be short and have a good heart, but if you want to get power, you have to use some bad means, society is like this, we are very helpless to live, adapt to it.

Feel the same way, stay away from the student union, cherish life, and do your best!

You can't blame you for this social climate, you have to adapt to the development of this society in this society, but don't develop this bad habit, you can use it moderately.

Ideological struggle is an inevitable process of growth, but what kind of growth will depend on what kind of way, method, and mentality you choose to deal with.

If the teacher teaches well and has good morals, it is okay to send something to show it. If you send something just to gain the teacher's favor and let him be noble during the exam, I admire you if you don't want to send it for this purpose.

It makes sense on the first floor, society is like this, life is varied. There are many righteous and respectable people in history, and there are also many people who are hated when they sound. Which way you choose to go depends on your own every choice.

I don't ask if I can help you anything, I just don't want to wear small shoes.

Hey, the university is the same as the small society, the school is like this, not to mention the society.

In fact, you don't need to think so much, you write like this to prove that you are a warm-hearted person, you care about others, willing to help others, guide others, in fact, there is nothing wrong with this in itself, you live a general life, don't be too inferior, just work hard, adjust your mentality, think simply, be happy!

Something is wrong with your mentality.

Why is there something wrong with your mentality?

Is there anything you can't figure out?

Mentality if something goes wrong.

You're definitely not going to be in a good mood.

Mindset changes yours, mood.

Good mentality, everything is fine.

There is a problem, it is against morality. It is someone else's business to cheat, as long as you don't cheat.

To tell you the truth, I despise you, it's not okay to do big things, you don't want to show that you are still a good person, I play games to know a few people, I admire them very much, because they have a good character, you are not a problem with your mentality, you are a good person, I hope you don't deceive people!

I didn't think you'd do it wrong, ah,. I feel that although you are bitter, but there is, love one, very, praise oh one!!

People are like this, hard-mouthed, obviously they are super bad, obviously super sad, in the eyes of others, they seem to be an angel pulling them to the light.

Sometimes you have some problems when you interact with others, not all of them are your problems, it is a good thing to reflect on yourself, but don't find the reason for everything in yourself.

Paying less attention to the friend's affairs and respecting the friend's choice leaves room for friendship to grow. Don't care about other people's things and look at other people's lives from afar, so that everyone can have a different personality. Don't worry about the affairs of your relatives, only when you are intimate can the family be truly harmonious.

Everyone has enough space for each other to stay in the most comfortable state. It's better to worry about other people's idle things, than to do a practical thing for yourself. Read more ancient books to open your eyes and be less nosy and nourish your spirit.

This is the great wisdom of the world!

Establish a correct personality and do not be led astray by the social atmosphere.

No, it shouldn't, if you can ask such a question, it means that you are still sober and your mind is still normal.

It is normal to have a problem with your mentality, and you can adjust your mentality in time.

It is fundamental to eliminate confusion and irritability, relieve psychological pressure, establish a life path, and establish good living habits and attitudes.

1. Life is only a hundred years, it is still easier to be a man--- don't be in a hurry, don't be burdened by trivial things, take a step back and open the sky.

2. Maintain inner peace to feel relaxed--- content, indifferent to fame and fortune, tolerant of others, and learn to be calm.

3. Be kind to yourself, you will feel more relaxed--- accept yourself, applaud yourself more, learn to rest, and vent the troubles in life.

4. To be a relaxed person, you need to learn to enjoy life.

In life, it is inevitable to encounter some unpleasant things, but sometimes you just need to look at the problem from a different angle and face it optimistically, and there will be a scene of "another village in front of you", which requires discovering and creating the beauty of life and learning to enjoy life.

Dear, everyone's mindset is not always right. It's just right relative to yourself.