I broke up with my boyfriend, do you want him to return the appliances he bought for me? 60

Updated on psychology 2024-04-30
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you've ever given him some gifts, you don't have to pay them back.

    And if you give it back to him, and he still likes you, he's going to be more interested in looking at those things.

    If he doesn't like you anymore, he may pass it on to a friend or his next girlfriend, and he may even be a little happy.

    No matter which of the above two is still good, since they have broken up, don't have anything to do with each other, you won't become friends, you think you can use it for yourself, and if you don't use it, throw it away, and give it back to others will make people think that you are still looking for an excuse to ask him, I don't think it's necessary to pay it back, unless it's too valuable. But I think that returning all the gifts to him after the breakup will make the guy feel very embarrassed and shameless, as if he can't afford to pay the money. Even if you give it back to him, what can he do with these gifts?

    Isn't it possible to keep it for your next girlfriend? This is clearly unrealistic. I think some of the people who asked this question were thinking too much and some were naïve.

    Two people must have spent a lot together, and there must have been a lot of gifts for each other, and you were with him, and he bought you a lot of gifts, so I don't believe you didn't buy him any gifts.

    If you really haven't bought him any gifts, then after you break up, you can calculate the summary of the gifts he gave you, and then use the same ** to buy him something, which is a return gift! I think it's more polite than you giving him back his stuff, and I think it's more polite than you giving him back his stuff. Even if you give it back to him, you may think this behavior is cool, but it is more or less a burden for this boy, because it is really useless for him to take these gifts from you, except for throwing them away, he may also think that you are very inexplicable and very high.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Glad to be able to subject this question. Dear, before considering not returning the home appliances, it is more important to solve your breakup problem first. From your description, I have a vague sense that your hand is not very friendly. If it is an amicable breakup, there is no need to block the other party's WeChat.

    If you really find that you no longer love each other, openly and honestly saying your thoughts to your face is actually the last respect for your former lover. What the other person gives you when you are in love, the moment you decide to break up, you should be ready to give up everything. Otherwise, you'll be dragged into the mud and water, and not thorough enough.

    If the other party proposes to break up, as the party who is broken up, do you think the things he gave before can compensate you for your efforts? Don't be stupid, quickly contact him and ask him to take back all the things he sent before, it's his business whether to take it or not, but as you, even if you are broken up, you should have a backbone.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You broke up with your boyfriend, of course, you have to return his things to him, her things are better not to be put here with you, and don't have anything to do with him, block all her ways, things related to him, if she wants it, return it to him, he doesn't want it, throw it all away.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you break up with your boyfriend, you should give him back the appliances he bought for you, after all, they are very valuable. In fact, when you fall in love, it is no problem to simply receive a small red envelope, and if you want to buy expensive gifts, you must pay it back. The premise is that the other party wants it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you feel the need to return it, you can send him a text message to see if he will take it back, and if not, take it as a souvenir.

    Let the past pass, it doesn't have to be so clear, after all, they have been together. It's good to gather and disperse.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I broke up with my boyfriend. If he gives you money. You have to give it back to him. If it's a home appliance he bought for you. It's best to give it back to him, there will be no disputes in the future, if he insists on not wanting you to stay, or sell it to the collector of household appliances, it's up to you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It is best to return it to him, because after all, the two of you are going to break up, don't leave any traces, and don't leave any financial disputes, so that people look down on you, and if you want to break up, break up completely.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's up to you, if you don't want to go, just give him the money to buy the appliance, don't give him back that kind of appliance, and he has nowhere to put it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Of course, if you break up, you can return what you don't want the other party to give, so that you can not owe each other. If he doesn't want it, don't force it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If he took the initiative to buy it for you, you don't have to pay it back, if you want him to buy it, you should pay it back. Giving and asking are two different things

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's better to pay it back, it's better not to owe each other, if you don't pay it back, you can convert it into cash to him, but if your ex-boyfriend doesn't care or he doesn't want it, then you can keep it for yourself.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Don't give it back—unless he asks you for it.

    Because we have loved, we respect each other!

    Don't measure each other's indebtedness by material things.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hello, I don't think it's very important in this house, so there's no need to return it to him, it's already broken up, so it's better not to leave contact.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you want to have no entanglement, it's best to return it to him, and if he insists on not wanting it, keep it for himself or sell it to home appliances**.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Normally, no, after all, you have been in love before, there is no need to be so stiff, if your boyfriend has asked you, then it's okay, otherwise, don't do it too much.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It depends on whether you want to pay it back or not, and if your boyfriend doesn't ask for it, it's okay.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's up to you, what he gives you is yours, and you have the right not to pay it back.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If it is not very valuable, you can not return it, and the other party will give it if you ask for it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I broke up with my boyfriend, so I should have given him back the home appliances he bought for me.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Looking at your boyfriend's personality, I don't think it's necessary for him to be accountable.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Whether you can get back should first define the legal significance of the woman's act of giving the man electrical appliances during the relationship, which is called a gift in civil law, and can also be called a gift contract. The gift contract is a practical contract, that is, although the woman verbally says that she can repudiate it before giving it away, she cannot renege it once it is sent, and the gift contract is considered to have been fulfilled. Of course, electrical appliances are movable property, subject to delivery to the man, such as real estate or special movable property such as vehicles that need to be registered, the completion of transfer registration is deemed to be completed.

    After the electrical appliances are delivered, the gift contract is fulfilled.

    There are only two ways for the woman to go back, the first is to claim that the gift contract is invalid; The second is to assert that the gift contract is attached to the obligation, with the obligation that the man should maintain a normal romantic relationship with the woman, and now the man dissolves the relationship without reason, violating this obligation, so the man has the right to revoke the gift contract.

    The first way is to claim that the gift contract is invalid according to Article 143 of the Civil Code, unless there are extremely special circumstances, such as the woman has sufficient evidence to prove that the man is only trying to defraud money, and in addition to the woman being deceived, there are many other women who have been deceived, etc., and the road of claiming the invalidity of the gift contract is almost impossible.

    The second way is to assert that the gift is an obligation, and the woman has the right to revoke the gift contract because the man has violated the obligation to maintain a normal relationship. For example, during the relationship, there was a large amount of real estate gifts of tens of millions or millions, and the court may find that the purpose of the woman giving away such valuable property is for the purpose of the two parties to marry and live together, and the man also agreed to this condition, but now that the two parties break up and end the relationship, it is obvious that they will not get married and live together, so they will return all or part of the donated property depending on the specific circumstances of the case, such as the time of the relationship, the reason for the breakup, and whether there is fault. As for small amounts of property, it will be determined whether the man in the gift contract has the obligation to maintain a normal romantic relationship when accepting the gift, so as to determine whether the man should return it or partially return it according to the time and extent of the relationship between the parties, the emotional basis of the two parties, the reasons for the breakup of the parties, and the specific circumstances of the woman's gift.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Of course, you can ask for it if you want, this is your right and freedom, but you need to negotiate with your boyfriend, as long as your boyfriend agrees to return the electrical appliances you bought for him, then you can want it back.

    If it's something you gave to your boyfriend and he doesn't want to give it back to you, it's understandable, and you need to discuss it with two people.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    After breaking up with your boyfriend, you can ask him for the electrical appliances you gave your boyfriend. If he doesn't give it to you, there's nothing you can do.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If it is given, the other party is willing to do it.

    The cost of premarital love is recovered after a breakup, which is not explicitly supported by the law, so it is good to be financially independent before marriage.

    Of course, if you feel that there is a loss, you can ask for compensation appropriately and negotiate a solution.

    The valuables were still returned. I am most afraid that I will be unwilling to break up and make things difficult. Communicate well and handle it properly

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Answer: It depends on the quality of your boyfriend, if it's good, you can come back, if it's bad, you can't come, but if you don't come back, don't be angry, cheer yourself up in the future, you must live better than him, let him regret it!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If this happens, the electrical appliances you bought for your boyfriend will be able to get them back, so that the two of you can completely cut off and find your own intimate lover as soon as possible.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I broke up with my boyfriend, can I get the electrical appliances I bought for my boyfriend back? Now that we've broken up, what's the point of coming back? After breaking up, don't have anything to do with it, otherwise the other party will look down on you and think that you can't live without him, so there's no need to ask for this thing, it's not worth much, it's useless if you want it, so it's best to stay away from him and be thorough, this is what you should do.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Don't ask for it, you will be purified of what you once loved, so give it to him.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I feel like it's okay to say it's okay, but it also depends on how the other party is.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I think there are many factors to consider whether to break up or not. If it's just you buying it for your boyfriend and he never gives you a gift, then you should break up. But if the two people are in a "courtesy" relationship, they should communicate well, and take a look at the gap between the two people, and it is best not to break up.

    If your boyfriend also gives you gifts regularly, then it means that he loves you. Boys are not good at expressing their love for their girlfriends in details, so they can only switch from the material, after all, willing to spend money for you is the most straightforward way for boys to express.

    If you're embarrassed, you can pay before him next time you eat. If he's surprised, tease him, and you're paying for it every time, worrying that you're hungry when you're alone.

    As for gifts, you can talk to him in advance. For example, every month or anniversary, pick a small gift together. In this way, the gift is not for you, but for your common commemoration.

    But if it's awkward, you still have to communicate well. So in that case, it is understandable to buy him some electronic accessories.

    Speaking of which, I think about it, when I fell in love in college, I was embarrassed to let my boyfriend spend money, I would take the initiative AA, take the money to him when I ate, let him go to the checkout, how much is the value of the things he sent, I will also buy about the same and send it back, and the two of them will also take out some money as love funds, I was also doing micro-business at the time, in addition to living expenses and making money, his living expenses are similar to mine, but he is also generous, but basically the money I earned was spent, and then he graduated first and had a salary, Slowly, he spent a lot more on his relationship than I did.

    In the end, I can only say that you can spend as much as you have, your boyfriend always asks you to buy him electronic accessories is not a reason to break up, you should consider whether to break up with him from the perspective of whether he loves you, if your desire to love him defeats your desire to break up, then don't have the idea of breaking up, everyone is the same, it is not easy to meet love, we should cherish it. If electronic accessories become the fuse between the two of you, then it must be a pity to look back on your breakup.

    It's hard to fall in love, and tolerance is the cornerstone of long-term development.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Should. I think a guy who always asks a girl to buy him something, his love for you may be based on material things, not really love you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    No, your boyfriend wants you to buy him electronic accessories, which is equivalent to asking your boyfriend to buy you cosmetics, it's all a concept.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Let's break up! Such a boyfriend always forces you to buy him electronic accessories without asking you if you want to, which is really too difficult.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Why break up with your boyfriend. He's just asking you to buy something for him, isn't that excessive?

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I don't think it should be, he always asks you to buy it for him probably because you really don't buy him very often, and it's okay to spend some money on your boyfriend.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    If you can't afford it anymore, then I suggest you choose to break up, because it won't do you any good.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If you don't buy it, just tell him that you don't want to buy it, it's not serious enough to break up, don't be so extreme.

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