What should I pay attention to in interpersonal communication?

Meditate and think about your own mistakes, and don't talk about others. No matter what the reason is, it is not good to talk about others behind their backs, and there is no impermeable wall in the world, which will reach the ears of the person concerned sooner or later. At the same time, it can also cause disgust.

Interpersonal communication should pay attention to respect, words, do not take evil as small, do not take good as small, prevent people from having the heart to do it, and harm people must not do it.

To be a man, we must have a moral bottom line of being a man, and we must not lose the foundation of being a man and be morally corrupt because of some undeserved benefits. Only self-esteem can be respected by others, and people must first learn to respect, respect others, respect nature, and respect all related people and things.

We must understand that people-to-people exchanges and interactions should be based on equality. Don't lower your status and pander to anyone. Not only will this not be recognized by others, but it will make your efforts cheap in the long run.

Your kindness to others will only be seen as a plea to please, and even bring pressure and disgust to others. Put yourself in the right position, and use the charm of personality and the height of your thoughts to attract the appreciation of others. Your image has changed in the eyes of others, and your actions will naturally be evaluated differently.

People must first be self-confident. Only self-confidence can have the courage to face all aspects of life, bloom on the stage of life, and be comfortable in interpersonal communication. Self-confidence is the premise of communication, the foundation of life, and the foundation of success.

Don't overdo it, whether it's talking or doing things. I still remember when I was at home before, every time I went out, my mother had to tell me a thousand times, don't forget this, don't forget that, don't do this, don't do that. I knew that my mother cared about me, but I felt that it was very troublesome, and I am really ashamed to think about it now.

This just proves the importance of mastery. Excessive will only add to the other party's annoyance and pressure, which is also an important reason why many people who are obviously well-intentioned but do not understand it. Proper practice will not lead to wrong results.

Describe your new discovery by saying, "You've got a new hairstyle!" Colleagues may be happier because people always like to be noticed, and undesirable compliments are counterproductive.

Whether we are doing things or thinking about problems, we tend to prefer our own preferences based on experience and personal experience. That's why we often ignore other people's feelings and make decisions for others. Then, they expect others to be grateful to themselves.

I don't think it's what you think, and it's not what he thinks. Empathize and think more from the perspective of others. Don't disturb other people's actions and thoughts.

Only those who love themselves will love others, those who love themselves can laugh at life, and those who love themselves will live happily. Self-love is an attitude in life, learn self-love and be kind to others. With love in your heart, the world is beautiful.

A few days ago, I watched "Chinese Restaurant" and was deeply impressed by Zhao Wei's emotional intelligence. I have to admire, the way she communicates with people is really at the master level At that time, Wang Junkai prepared the dish and brought it to Zhao Wei to try the dish. She tasted it, thought about it, and said with a smile, "This tastes good, it's well done" and "It would be even better if you added more salt."

How perfect, to praise and at the same time to speak of shortcomings, this may be the unattractive language. Sometimes it's just that the inappropriate way of expression is enough to turn a person's good intentions into bad intentions. Try to use euphemistic, more acceptable words.

Self-confidence is the source of success, and with self-confidence, there is strength. A person who is full of self-confidence, everyone will be happy to associate with him. But don't go too far, too much self-confidence, and it will become conceit, and everyone will avoid it.

People with too sweet mouths, don't get too close to him!