I broke up on August 15, and now it s painful, so please help enlighten me with experience

In fact, I feel that if he doesn't pay really to you, and doesn't care too much about your feelings, such a person, leaving early, may not be a good thing, besides, in this world, there are many people who are a thousand times better than him, ten thousand times, and this is still your first love, I believe you should adjust it well, to meet the new feelings, forget that the best way for individuals in the future is to start the next relationship, believe that you are a good girl, will get the happiness you deserve, he is to you, is his loss.

All you need is time, keep yourself busy, don't think about it so much, it won't hurt so much, and slowly you will find that there is really nothing. You're still good alone Women should be arrogant, don't wronged yourself, you will meet the best.

Would love to give you a hug ......

Falling out of love is an opportunity to grow

He is not worthy of your attachment because he is not sincere in his devotion to you

Your sadness, your unwillingness, find a way to vent it

Crying, talking to sisters, climbing to the top of the mountain and shouting ......Let yourself say a formal goodbye to this relationship, and then start your new life and slowly let go of ......

Late is not as good as early, and you don't know much about him, it's only 7 months, which is very short. It's not so difficult to find one, and I want to open it. No big deal.

Girl, you're stupid, you two. Maybe when I fall in love with you, there's another one next to me. Forget about him, in a period of truth.

Let me first state that I have not been in a relationship, just to give my opinion, I hope you don't mind! I think that sometimes it's not that you don't love when you separate, it's just that you continue to love in another way, what do you think? Many times you can't let go of anything but an idea that you have been imposing on yourself, and when you really let go, you will feel that letting go is actually very simple, and it is not a difficult thing!

It's just a hurdle in my heart, and it's easy to look back when I get past it! Another thing I hope you don't get angry when I say it, you keep saying that you can't let go because you don't want to let go? Reluctant to put it down?

Still don't dare to put it down? Are you afraid that you will let go and declare your failure? There is a song called courage, love needs courage, but why not let go of courage?

Sometimes letting go is the process of closing your eyes and opening them again! Smile and smile at yourself often, even if it's reluctant at first, and slowly get used to it, and you will feel cheerful! I hope my words can help you a little, I can't sleep in the middle of the night and casually look at your questions and feel it!

I was the same as you when I first broke up, take your time, stay up slowly, rely on time. Time can dilute everything.

Maybe letting go was the last thing I could do for him.

Give you a few articles, and don't deliberately forget the good things that once belonged to you.

I want to open some How can I lose love and friendship You still have friends You think it's worth it Just chase it back If it's not worth it, give it up Find another true love Slowly forget it I hope you don't wronged yourself Why bother with yourself I hope you cherish your feelings Reflect on yourself.

Do you still have a nostalgia for him?

If you do, you can find a way to make yourself better and make you get back together!

I can really see that you are in a lot of pain right now, and your thinking is so chaotic that you are incoherent, which is embodied in (excerpt from your account):

1. Hey, I really love her, and I know that we are completely out of play, she betrayed me, and it will be difficult for me to forgive her even if she comes back.

2. I still love her and always want her to change her mind.

Through the above two sentences, it can be seen that you are indeed very entangled and painful now, in fact, deep in your heart, you hope that she will change her mind, if she changes her mind, you will also forgive her! People will experience a lot of pain in their lives, and they will forget a lot of things with the passage of time, but the first love is something that a person can never forget for a lifetime, since you love her, then you should put down all dignity to pursue her, after all, you used to have an emotional foundation! If you work hard, you won't regret it, no matter what the result is!

Also, I see from the description (what she said):

1. She said how good her boyfriend was to her, especially when she called her, and she said that she was out on a date with her boyfriend.

2、.She also said that I can't meet her in material life in the future, and she wants to find a family with good conditions, Now the man calls her every day until late at night, and she says they talk very much.

There are several meanings that can be felt from these few sentences:

1. She is still young and may not be deeply involved in the world.

2. She is a little deliberately angry with you.

If the first article is correct, then the second article I am talking about may not be accurate! If the first one is wrong, then I feel that the second one is very likely, that is, she is deliberately angry with you and wants you to go to her!

The emotional thing is that no one can teach you or make you how to do it, all you can give is advice. First love is like this, I thought it was a lifetime, so the love was the deepest and the most painful. Now that this is already the case, you will not be with her again, she will not be with you again, what else can you do.

Don't dwell on it anymore, it's only herself who hurts, she won't see it, and even if she does, it won't be anything. Falling out of love, there is no best way, the only thing that can heal you is time. The old way is to distract yourself, keep yourself busy, and be full, so that you can get out faster.

The melancholy is long, the thoughts are wishful, and there is nothing. In order to start over. So private. Shinobi, ninja spirit. In the past, it was caused by emotional intelligence.

Time and a new girlfriend can cure you.

Such a person is not worth it, you also find one, and forget about her.

Or just chase it back.

In other words, let yourself relax for a while to travel (it's better not to be alone, and don't go to places you've been to before, go with three or two buddies), and then come back and work hard (study). I'm more in favor of doing this, so that I can not only live a better life, but also forget the pain of the past, and kill two birds with one stone.

If you want to open up, you usually think less about her, and don't think about those things over and over again. That's torturing yourself. Actually, it's just a matter of time, and once the time passes, everything doesn't hurt so much in retrospect.

Dude, let's open some.

There is no grass at the end of the world, why bother looking for it in one place, the quantity is not much, not to mention the quality is not good.

Be brave. Reject the pain.

Time goes by, and you don't think so.

Let's take a look!

Don't be deliberate.

The more deliberate, the more memorable.

Don't sink and fall for the loss of love, love has no result, let alone lose the revenge of reason, because, in all this process, the pain has been continuing, besides, sinking, falling, revenge, whatever, everything can't go back. I can't deny the existence of true love from now on. Maybe we can't let everything go that easily, but we can at least be able to leave ourselves a little respectful!

So if he or she asks you to break up, don't ask so much why, don't expect anything to be recovered, know that it's impossible, breaking up doesn't mean that happiness and happiness are far away from you, maybe the next stop is really your happiness and happiness! Don't think that you have failed, and not knowing how to cherish you is his (her) biggest loss! (I hope everyone answers the questions according to their own ideas!)

Despise plagiarizing my own answers! )

I hope you can find the reason.,If it's really not for you and not other objective reasons, then be chic.,Emotional things are the most difficult to force.,But you're lucky to have experienced this relationship.,It will make you mature.、Steady.,You'll also become a person with a story.。。。

You can look at the broken love from another angle, as people often say, she loses you is her loss, and you just lose someone who doesn't love you, you don't have a loss, compared to her loss is greater, because she lost a person who loves her very much!

Concentrating on the graduate school entrance examination is an excuse It's true that I don't feel for you, this kind of person, it's okay to divide Don't think too much, just divide it, if she really likes you, she will look for you!

What is this I am sad about, I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for three years, I have been wearing a green hat for two years and I don't know, I have been uncomfortable for many days, but think about it God is very good to me, let me experience this taste in advance, I am now like Do my own first, make yourself better, take money and love lightly, don't let yourself surpass anyone but make yourself closer to perfection.

Don't take it too seriously.

Brother woman.

Clothes only. No matter how beautiful and favorite the clothes.

I'll change it after a long time.

Don't hang yourself from a tree.

But you've got a big forest.

There is a saying that people often say, this woman should be yours is yours, and it is useless to keep it if it is not yours. She said that it was just an excuse for the premise of breaking up for the graduate school entrance examination. The reason why I told you later that I didn't feel good about you was because I wanted you to have a time to accept the facts, and I was afraid to tell you directly that I was afraid that you wouldn't be able to accept it.

Take a look at "The Little Thing of First Love". It seems to be enlightening.

Love is mutual understanding and tolerance, when forbearance is a habit, when tolerance is lost, there is no meaning to continue! If she understands, loves you, and tolerates each other, she'll come back!

What are you afraid of, tell her that you are going to find another one soon.

There are times in life when you have to have it, and there are times in life when you don't want it.

Actually, don't think too much, if he is also sad and he loves you, then he will not feel good.

Well, such a man is easy to get the love of girls, you have to know one thing, women say that nine sentences of ten breakups are fake, and men say that breakups are true, especially if he is such a cold person, this kind of man takes love just as a child's play, I don't think he has thought about what it will be like to be with you in the future, and love vanity, you can't bear such a character in the future, I don't know what point he will make you love him so much, but love does not necessarily have to come to the end, love is a run-in period, After a long run-in, there is a long-term foundation, I have just fallen out of love, this week has been constantly healing myself, and now it is almost good, the heart will hurt very much in the first few days, and it will get better slowly, you must know that he is not the only man in the world, she also blacked me, but I also go to her space now to see her mood, people's hearts are flesh and blood, and people who really don't love will not appear again if they are blacked, I also want to criticize you, two people together are more understanding and tolerant, girls love to be coquettish, good men will coax, Instead of losing his temper with you, you are jealous, suspecting that it proves that you care too much about him, love him, he should be happy, instead of hiding secrets with you, losing his temper, even his girlfriend has secrets that he dare not say, enough to prove that he has ulterior secrets, finally, if you want to reconcile, you can really talk about it, if not, it is recommended that you don't insist, some men give you happiness is only temporary, not long-lasting, love and marriage are not the same, you belong to the sheep, only 22 is still young, if the heart knot can not be opened, you can also find me, I'll enlighten you, because it's only been about 10 days since I fell out of love, and I can understand your pain.

If it's like you're adding a question, if you can put it down, if you can't put it down, after you're okay, one day if there is a quarrel, he will go to her.

Be ruthless with your ex:.

Who hasn't been harassed by their ex? Since he didn't get off at your stop, what else is there to worry about? How clean you break off with your ex, how happy your future will be. Just to the people who have chased you in those years, gently, gently, and the past is like smoke, spit out one word: Get out.

Don't get entangled in it, let's disperse, it's not that I look at it lightly, it's that you look too seriously.

This kind of man doesn't want it, even if you want a marriage, you won't be happy, although I am also a man, but I hate such a man, capricious, shirk responsibility, will not tolerate, the most important thing is not to love your girlfriend, if you walk with him, your end must be very miserable, even if you love him very much, but he has changed his mind, is no longer worthy of your affection, you don't ask other reasonable people, you yourself must first learn to be rational, know that what you are doing now will have a great impact on the future, You don't want to say that you want to take revenge on him, an infatuated girl like you will not succeed in scheming, all you have to do now is to leave him, force yourself to forget him, and then pursue someone who really loves you and loves you. Learn to give and take, poor girl, and may there be no sad ending.........Leave him.

Impulsive punishment, you can't keep it like this, forget it after playing, you can start again, don't dwell on the past, let it drift away with the wind, it's already two boats.

Let it be, change people, it's obviously like this.

I advise you to give up, long pain is better than short pain!

I think he loves you, I can see that he really has you in his heart, just because of one reason or another, he really wants to calm down, want to escape, and face his heart bravely! Maybe there is a deep misunderstanding between you, and it would be good to solve it! Go for it!