I live at my boyfriend s house, is it okay for my boyfriend to live in my house?

Updated on society 2024-05-20
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Think about what money can't buy, as long as you treat her well in the future, isn't it? You don't have to replace everything with money, right? Work hard now, strive to find a better job, and then honor her old man when she has the ability.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Money is not a problem, it is enough to have this mind, you can discuss it with your boyfriend, buy something that your future mother-in-law likes to eat, or something, and show a little affection.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Help them with household chores, and also, be able to get by.

    If you really like them, get married early, grandchildren are the best gift for them.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Spend more time with her, but I think it's best to buy something she likes, not too expensive, she'll be happy...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hehe... Your parents value you as a person, and you are very happy!

    Don't put too much psychological pressure on you, and be careful is a little bit of a truth.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    As long as you have a good heart, your parents-in-law will be better for you in the future, please rest assured, the older often only ask for this.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    First of all, it's good that you have such a problem.

    In your case, don't pay too much attention to material things.

    A little heart, she will be happy for the elderly.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Actually, as long as you're good to her! Don't care about that!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The idea is to work more for the family.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Take her for a walk when you have time. Chat with her more.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Buy some gifts for the holidays.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Buy some gifts for the holidays.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When men and women fall in love, it is not good for boys to live in girls' homes.

    Expose shortcomings

    If you live in a girl's house, it means that you not only have to get along with girls, but also face the girl's parents, in this long-term state of getting along, then many of your shortcomings will be exposed to seepage to sell, such as your stinky socks are placed randomly, shoes are not placed neatly, do not eat breakfast, etcThese seemingly inconsequential little things to us seem to be teasing, maybe in the eyes of the girl's parents, your informality is evidence that you can't take good care of their daughter in the future, but if you restrain yourself and go their way, then you yourself will be very tiredI'm already tired from work, and I can't relax when I get home, so why bother?

    Affect the reputation of girls

    Before getting married, there is a lot of uncertainty in the future, you may smoothly enter the palace of marriage together, and you may also be separated because of some trivial matters on the way. In some traditional concepts, boys and girls live together, which is cohabitation, and in the eyes of the world, people will look at girls in a different wayIf you really like that girl, then do you have to think more about her?

    Based on the above situation, I think that whether it is for the sake of girls or boys, boys are not suitable to live in girls' homes, so the final decision must be carefully considered.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    That's a really bad question! In modern society, any kind of behavior can be accepted by everyone, let alone living at your boyfriend's house! Listen to what you mean, his family can accept you to live in now, and it seems that you are quite welcome, but from your family's point of view:

    Not very good, after all, unmarried. Maybe your family doesn't know it now! And even if you live in his house, your behavior seems to have a problem with returning to the side:

    Why don't you work, don't you feel bored to stay together every day? After all, you are very young, the road is long, and you want to live outside, and I personally feel that your boyfriend does not seem to take good care of your thoughts, and to put it seriously, he does not respect you enough. And are you sure you're going to have a result?

    If you're not sure, if you break up, then the ending of your world Sakura doesn't seem to be a good one. Love someone, it is not necessary to guard each other at all times; It's the saying: make each other happy, and it's for a lifetime.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This can be based on your local customs, or you can ask your boyfriend directly if you need to be a son-in-law. If it weren't for the potato, let him live for another two or three months. If you stay for two or three months and don't leave.

    Then be a son-in-law. There is no answer to this, as long as the happiness and happiness of the hall branches.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It can be said bluntly, if he can because of work, if he is idle, then I advise you to divide early.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    To be honest, this is the bitter fruit of doing oneself too early.

    Women, don't give up your defense easily, otherwise, you will be looked down upon.

    Living together so early, as we all know, is equivalent to entrusting yourself to someone else easily.

    Now that you have lost all your initiative, and others have already taken you, you are just earning a cheap labor force, and you are not pleased.

    The matter has come to this point, the wood is already in the boat, what else can be done? You can only use your diligence and perseverance to slowly boil out your dignity.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I feel that I am starting to dislike you, and I want you to learn to cook, because I think you know how to eat ready-made every day, and if you don't cook it yourself, his parents are not satisfied with you. Your boyfriend goes out on a trip by himself and doesn't take you, and asks you to go home to say that he wants to drive you home, and you go home just like this, so don't live together before you get married, and it's with his parents, and I also admire your courage, you are not good there, they will always find a reason to kick you at a glance, it's different when you get married, you can't kick yourself, you have to change, some things can be done by yourself.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    My feeling is that your boyfriend doesn't love you anymore, and his parents are starting to dislike you. Therefore, if you live with your boyfriend before you get married, you will lose yourself.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Maybe I don't like you very much after thinking about it for a long time, and there may be one that I feel that you are not diligent enough, or that you don't work, and ordinary families generally don't like it very much.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's best not to live in the man's house before marriage, secondly, his family is not very good, and he picks and chooses before a few doors, and third, their family doesn't like you and wants you to go. Do you feel that they are good to you, or hurry home, otherwise it will be too late to regret it later, as for marriage, look at his family's performance, please adopt if you are satisfied, thank you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In a situation where machismo is still prevalent and patriarchal is prevalent, cohabitation means that women are overdrawing the happiness of their marriage, and once pregnant, they are very passive. I am now the mother of a dragon and phoenix fetus, and I will be a grandmother and mother-in-law in the future. I do not allow my daughter to live with someone else unmarried, and I do not accept my daughter-in-law to become pregnant out of wedlock.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Why are you living together without getting married, and living with your parents, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, you are experiencing it in advance, it's good now, your boyfriend won't take you to travel, so girls don't live together casually, and you will hurt yourself in the end.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I feel that it is not good to live together at my boyfriend's house before I get married, especially if I live with my parents, it will make the man's parents look down on you, and they will think that you are upside down so they will instruct you to do this and that, if the relationship between two people is good, there is no problem with living alone. Your boyfriend's attitude is also problematic, and it is recommended that you stop your losses in time. Wishing you happiness!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I don't know how long you've been dating, it's best not to live together if you're not married, even if you're living together, don't live together in the man's house, if it's appropriate, get married as soon as possible, and live together in the name of justice!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Then get along! In the future, it will definitely be a good thing to live together in advance, adapt to it in advance, and do more housework to let your partner and his parents know that you have a lot of advantages, but you are getting married and having children, I wish you a hundred years of happiness!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Now you must have plans to get married, or you will all be the same. Do your parents know that your boyfriend is living together? You should tell your parents about this situation so that they are prepared.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    First of all, I want to ask you, do you have an independent economy**? Do you work on your own? Do you know how to do housework?

    How long have you been in love since you lived together? Are you planning to get married? Since living in the man's house and living with the elderly, many problems will inevitably be understood, every man marries a wife and has children, it is necessary to be carefully considered, and taking a good wife and mother is the most expected by men and parents, so you measure yourself according to the actual situation, whether you meet the requirements of the elderly.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Maybe your boyfriend has someone else he likes and wants to abandon you. His parents may know that maybe he's just going on a trip with someone he likes, and then calling you back to his own home, ready to break up at any time. Maybe his parents heard that the unmarried woman living together is not good, and the people in the neighborhood are discussing you, and his parents have also told your boyfriend, so their attitude towards you is so strange, and your boyfriend is afraid that you will have a conflict with his parents when you are not there, so he tells you to go home and stay first, and then he will come back and pick you up.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think your boyfriend's family dislikes you, so if you are not married, you will do this and that, you are not a good man, and he will not take you when he travels, and he wants you to go home. Obviously trying to abandon you. Do you believe your boyfriend traveled alone?

    So the fault is your own fault, you live together without getting married, and when you step into his house, you lose yourself, you lose your chastity, and you harm yourself.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    So why do you have to live together before you get married? It's still the girls who suffer, and if it's a more conservative family, they will look down on you and think you're casual. There is also living with your boyfriend, living in his house, what shortcomings do you have to get along so day and night, they will see it clearly, and there is a chance to find fault with you, you dare to live with a family, it's really bold, and now the signs are to drive you away, so girls still have to focus on themselves, you can do it yourself.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I don't think your boyfriend's family likes you, you are unmarried, you shouldn't live together, and the man will think that you are very casual and not self-respecting. Girls should be reserved, steady, gentle and generous, self-chaste, self-loving and self-respecting, you should learn to protect yourself, and discuss with your parents if you have something to do, they will always love you and will always protect you.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Now it's suffering, right? If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you. How did your parents teach you? I lived in someone else's house before I got married. It's too late to cry.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I advise you to love yourself before you get married, it's not the same thing to live in someone's house every day, don't let you look down on you.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If it's not time to talk about marriage, it's not good to live together, it's always women who are hurt, and your boyfriend won't take you with you on a trip, which is very telling and this kind of thing should be considered.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Sometimes financial independence is more important, and after a long time, when you see that you are busier and you are more leisurely, there will be a little gap in your heart.

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