How can I get out of lovelorn, how can I completely forget her

Updated on psychology 2024-05-12
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Don't be sad Now that the fate is over, let it pass, stretch out your arms and embrace the breeze to feel the spring, summer, autumn and winter.

    Cheer up and welcome a new day, you just don't have a chance with her on the road of life, there will be people who are destined for you to walk through the road of life with you. Believe it.

    Take a break for a while. Make the most of this time and do what you want. If you think it's right, do it.

    If you talk to your close friends, you will naturally feel better. Usually, you should often decompress yourself, and when you have troubles, don't drill the horns of the bull and think about the benefits. Slowly, the knots in my heart melted.

    Laughing at life, but also to cultivate an optimistic and open-minded healthy psychology. Lift your spirits, look to the future, and don't dwell on the love setbacks in front of you.

    Don't deliberately forget, since you want to forget her, it means that the traces she has left in your heart should be relatively deep, deliberately forget, will remember deeper, let everything tend to be dull, what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, you will slowly forget.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Use time, time is the best** Easier said than done, you have to experience a to understand.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    1. When love is not there, please say blessings to him, after all, he once loved.

    2. After it's over, don't tell him I hate you, love is a matter of two people, and everyone is responsible if you miss it.

    3. After leaving, what comes to mind must be a lonely picture, please forget it, you must always have a new beginning alone, don't let the past tie you to the palace of sorrow.

    4. Don't say who you love the most, life is still very long, no one can predict tomorrow, maybe your true love is still waiting for you in the next second.

    5. Don't make noise when you break up, after all, he will be sad when the two are together for so long, but he is more sensible, he doesn't want to bind you or his tomorrow is good to get together and disperse, and they will still be friends in the future, everyone has their own helplessness, don't talk about sadness, everyone has their own story, and living is not to miss yesterday, but to wait for hope.

    Let everyone see that you are strong and you can live well without him.

    7. After leaving, tell him out loud that I love you, that it is your right to have no love for you, and to say everything you want to say.

    Remember your past calmly and cry.

    After crying, leave everything for yesterday and never touch it.

    8. When you think about him, think about his goodness, his smile, remember that you once loved someone, don't care who started the betrayal in the end, just be happy.

    9. When you break up, be yourself.

    A person's world also has the moon rising and the moon setting, and there are also beautiful moments, so let's classify him as a memory!

    10. One man's world always needs another person as a foil.

    He's gone, that's because he can't stand you.

    Believe that you will have a better tomorrow.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think the easiest way is to block all the information of the ta, find a period of relaxation and catharsis, you can go out to travel with friends, family and girlfriends, find your own fun and hobbies such as fitness, learn dance, practice yoga, etc., if you can't do it, you are looking for a suitable ta, completely forget about the ex.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    How can I get out of a broken love? I think that after falling out of love, it is really traumatic to people. But you have to accept this reality and find things you like to do, such as traveling, going to other places to see the scenery. Hang out with friends.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't think about him or her, confide in someone, or find a new boyfriend or girlfriend.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Time will tell.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't know if you'll see my answer, it's insignificant, but I hope it helps.

    I just hope you don't have to take it too seriously, but it's impossible not to take it to heart, because we have feelings, we really love, we have been together, and we have feelings in our hearts, and we want to bury them in our hearts immediately, not revealing them, and not many people have done it, but after all, it is a fact now, none of us can change our past, but through our efforts we will change our future, right, you know better than me, right?

    Time can only make people forget, not forget, since this is a fact that cannot be changed, why do we still try to torture ourselves? Plus after all, this is also a beautiful memory of you together, there have been sadness, happiness, happiness, but reality is reality, I have worked hard, there are many in the world No matter how hard you work and how much you pay, but there is still no result you want, there are countless people like this, not to mention love? There may not be a return on pay, but I am sure that there must be experience, these experiences are the growth proof that accompany us on the road of life, and if you can't forget it, bury it in the depths of your heart, and one day to recall, it may be a happy thing, right, you know better than me, right?

    The situation of the matter has been decided, I can only help you how to get out, I write with my heart, you read with my heart, when you read this, I think I can give you a good answer in your heart.

    After falling out of love, it will become embarrassing memories and leave a wound in your heart, but you are still young, even if you leave embarrassing memories, it is better than nothing! Life experience will grow, maybe some pain, maybe some experience, in the present you can't bear it, or now you don't think at all, such a thing will happen to you, but society is like this, the heart is too painful, please use your hands to protect it, I said, maybe it can't make up for your soul at all, one percent of your spiritual trauma, but who is smooth sailing in life?

    A child's life is just a short dozens of spring and autumn, there is no afterlife in this life, love please love deeply! If you don't love it, please let it go! No matter what the result is, it doesn't matter, the important thing is that you have used your sincerity for this love, right?!

    And if you don't know please come to my space, you will find the answers you need.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When it's time to study, you should study well ... I also have a hard lesson. I'm a hundred times sadder than you!

    Your feelings like this are not deep. Although it is also painful ... But slowly get used to it.

    Don't deliberately push yourself to do something. Do whatever you want and be kind to yourself...

    When the heartache is numb, I will naturally forget it!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Is there anything else that interests you besides love? If you have one, put your heart and soul into it. If not, find something you enjoy doing. Shifting attention is the best way to forget about the pain.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It seems that you are still a student, study hard, and if you spend your energy elsewhere, you won't think about it. The bitter lesson tells us that less than a few percent of campus love success or marriage are successful. My wife and I were classmates, but we didn't fall in love in college, and we didn't get in touch until about two years after graduation.

    It's because you can't run, it's not that you can't catch it. Let it be!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You may not be a loser She may not be a winner Why tell yourself that you are in a broken love There is no need to deliberately forget After a long time, it will naturally fade I also had a good friend I used to care very much After a long time, I forgot it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's good after a long time.

    Don't forget him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's yours and yours forever, it's not yours, it's not yours, change your attention to other handsome guys.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Personally, I think that falling out of love is first of all a blessing, and then a misfortune.

    Falling out of love proves that you are truly in love. If not, it doesn't matter if you fall out of love. You must know that in this world, there are many people who have never really loved each other in their lives.

    Compared to these people, we have earned an enviable point in life. Although later lost. But our lives have been enriched by this.

    The feelings became deep. The temperament has become mature from this time. Falling in love is a completed choice, and falling out of love is faced with an upcoming choice.

    In the days to come, there is only one person who can connect with your heart. We can go back and say, "Thank you, I'm glad I fell out of love."

    Don't be so sad, maybe the person who really gives us happiness is waiting in the near future. The best way to deal with a broken relationship is to smile, to smile, to yourself, to others, to each other, and it's good for everyone. I don't approve of those who scream and scold themselves and feel that they are the most helpless people in the world; I also don't appreciate those who abuse each other after falling out of love, saying that the other person is an imbecile without eyes.

    These are unwise and mindless people, you know, falling out of love is the same blow to both parties, it only increases the unnecessary pain of yourself and the other person, and it does not solve anything at all. See yourself clearly, understand others, go your own way, and don't be discouraged; Good luck to the other person and don't be resentful. Don't be a bear, be a real person!

    The best way to deal with a broken relationship is to forget. Forget the joy and happiness in love, forget the loss and pain in love. But don't force yourself to forget, the more you do it, the easier it is to remember.

    When you don't think about him anymore, you won't have any feelings like falling out of love. At that time, you will face it calmly, and when you think of her: You will sigh

    Oh, so I used to love her. ”

    Falling out of love proves that she is not the person you really want to be with in this life, try to make yourself want to open some! What is not always something will always be without. Sometimes you can't chase something because it doesn't belong to you.

    On the contrary, sometimes a good and good thing will naturally come to you, because that's what you are!

    Either way, I'm convinced! Breaking up with the girl you love is the most painful thing for a man, because falling out of love means that all the love investments become at a loss and meaningless at this moment. And you can't imagine how you're going to live without her.

    But real men don't look at it that way. Because the pain of falling out of love is when the other party doesn't even think about whether you can accept it, then there will be no broken love, because in exclusive love, when you are no longer willing to invest in your own love, then any material giving becomes meaningless.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Alas! In fact, I am in the same situation as you now, maybe I am not qualified to teach you how to get out of lovelorn, but we all know that it is impossible to forget a person who has loved deeply, no matter how long it is. That person is like a mark on the heart, time can only heal the pain, but that mark will never disappear.

    It's better to persuade yourself to want to open some, since the two parties are not suitable for being together, they will not be happy if they are reluctant to each other. People's lives are very short, don't worry about it, there is a fate to meet thousands of miles, but there is no chance to not know each other. Live every day now, don't let those who care about you worry about you, at least you still have family and friendship, don't you?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When it's time to think about it, think about it as a habit, and then one day you realize that you just miss a beautiful memory, and nothing else. I've always felt that even if you fall out of love, there was a beautiful process, don't forget it with a stick, everything that has passed away is beautiful, because it can no longer be experienced.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The best way is to keep yourself busy first, study and work hard, busy every day so that you don't have time to think about him, and then find a suitable one for yourself, in fact, falling out of love is not terrible, it just represents another beginning, time is the best carver will make you forget everything, you need time, come on!!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Impossible. I'm also out of love, and if it's not good, I'm dumped, and the day before it was fine. Split up with me the next day, I don't even know why now, and now I'm still thinking about her, but what's the use, people don't love you anymore, don't think about it deliberately, slowly.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The other party doesn't love you anymore,,, what's there to regret??? The other party didn't deceive you and said that he didn't love you anymore, it's much better than cheating you and taking advantage of you... She (he) honestly tells you that she doesn't love you anymore and gives you a chance to regain your happiness.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Hurry up and find a new one, otherwise you will be depressed for a long time...

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Time solves everything.

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