How can I get out of the divorce, I am very confused and have no vision for the future?

How can I get out of a divorce? Very confused, no vision of the future, if you have just divorced, it is normal to be very confused, because all of a sudden you may not adjust and can't accept the reality of this divorce, but you can find your good friends or family members to communicate more, and slowly you will come out of this shadow.

Learn to let go, go out and find a job, get distracted when you are busy, slowly forget about it, and start a new life.

Hello! Here's what you can answer.

1.Find a job, work overtime every day, and get busy by yourself, so you won't be cranky.

2.Go on a tour. Ask a few people to go on a tour together.

3.After finding the next partner to marry, you can get out of the divorce.

You're already divorced, so don't think about it anymore, right? Hurry up and let yourself out, crazy work, traveling, playing ball, swimming and exercising, shopping, chatting with someone, etc., anyway, don't let yourself be idle, after a long time, you will naturally get out of this relationship.

Find a job first, you won't be confused after you have a job, and after work, find a suitable partner and start a new relationship, so you won't lose confidence in the future.

Then take this opportunity to take a vacation for yourself, go to the place you want to go but haven't been to relax, adjust your mood, and come back and start over.

If you want to get out of the divorce, think more about the other party's badness, so that you can get out of the divorce.

Men should be self-reliant. Unable to maintain a good marriage. Instructions are also a failure. Or find out the reason from the personal side. Corrections.

Hello, friend who is emotionally lost. I carefully read a few of your questions, personal opinions, and share them with you.

First of all, it is not the divorce that causes harm to the children, but the bad family atmosphere caused by marital disharmony. Therefore, for children, there is no time when there is minimal harm, if adults can look at marriage rationally, no matter how they choose, they can let children grow up in a loving environment. Too many people magnify the misfortune of children who grow up in divorced and single-parent families, but they don't know that there are still many divorced and single-parent children who develop very well, because they are missing a part of it, just because they have less negative influence.

Secondly, personal life goals must be set by yourself, and no one can help you. Just like the learning goals at a young age, if they are set by parents and teachers, there is a high probability that children will be passive and slack off. We adults are the same, only we will spend time and energy pursuing goals that we truly recognize.

If you don't have a goal yet, there's an easy way to help you find your answer, you can find a piece of paper, list the person you admire the most, preferably the same sex, and then bury yourself to see what the common trait they have, if you can find it, maybe this trait is your goal, if not, it doesn't matter. It is possible to continue to explore, we all want to have the life we want, can we assume what the life we want to look like, and if so, what else do we want? If so, maybe this is the answer you want to find.

In the end, there is no one who can occupy the hot search for a long time. In today's age of pluralistic information, it can be difficult to be in the spotlight. As long as you don't shy away from the issue of marriage, no matter how you choose, when others talk about it, honestly tell the other person about your status, and soon their focus will shift to other people.

What the public wants to snoop on is privacy, and when we don't regard the choice of marriage as privacy, there is no need for snooping.

Many people say that the best way to forget a relationship is to start a new one. However, I disagree.

Divorce will definitely fall into a period of low tide, which is inevitable, but if you fall into this mood for a long time, then your future life will inevitably be very tormented, and you may even fall into a cycle of self-loathing, so try to shorten your low ebb period and cheer yourself up as soon as possible.

First, you have to admit your emotions, because the end of any relationship will leave some damage to some extent.

After ending this relationship, the most important thing is to learn to calm yourself down and let go of this relationship completely, such as chatting with family and friends, practicing yoga, traveling alone, and even participating in some study classes, until you have hope for life again.

Second, we must have the courage to self-analyze, learn lessons from this failed relationship, and sum up experience.

Third, we must endure loneliness and break out of the cocoon into a butterfly in order to have beautiful happiness.

After a divorce, it is not wise not to rush into another relationship because of revenge or because of loneliness.

When you are alone, you must survive the lonely period, improve yourself more, make yourself better, and become more independent in your relationship. Only by making yourself beautiful will you have beautiful happiness.

You have been hurt, when you face feelings again, you may become hesitant, become cringe, face love, no longer dare to let go, because you are afraid of hurt, so you dare not love again, but you have to understand that you are no longer the same person you used to be, if you meet the person who makes your heart pound, be brave to love.

At this time, we still have to open our hearts, we have not only marriage in our lives, but also our parents and friends, and what we need to do, because if we lose our marriage, we feel that the sky is falling, look at all this a little bit, and face the next with a positive attitude.

You should try to look forward, find one thing to do, and don't let the shadow of divorce affect your life.

Then go do something you love, do something, make your life fuller, and move on with it.

It's still very hard to get through this time, and the most important thing is to find your friends to communicate with, or to shift your attention to other things.

At this time, you should try to calm your heart down, there is no need to find someone to cry, because there is no real empathy in the world, when you talk will be more lonely, the sage said that courage is actually said that no matter whether it is obedient or disobedient, it will not change its nature, do not change its feelings, let alone sink here, keep the three views, can not lower the requirements for yourself!

You should tell yourself to be strong, and only when you become strong can you get through these painful days and welcome new sunshine.

Because of coming out of a familiar family environment, without familiar people around you, you will have a certain loss in your heart, and many things have to start from scratch, and the mental pressure will make people feel lost.

Because a failed marriage shatters the illusion that marriage is beautiful in their hearts, and at the same time loses the goal and motivation to work hard, they will feel lost and overwhelmed.

After the divorce, from living with two people to one person, the change in lifestyle will be unexpected, just adapt slowly!

Now that you're gone, let's go forward boldly.

Maybe you still think about the past, but don't let that stop you. Enrich yourself with your busy life, find your own path, and walk out of your own world.

Maybe you relied on him a lot before, and your life revolved around others, but now it's time to live for yourself.

After a short period of grief, slowly cheer up, the road always has to be taken to take a step. Let's create a new life of your own.

Reorient your life, accept the reality of divorce, and do something practical!

Although you are divorced, you have to open a little, forget everything, and start over, you can't be like this, you are always confused, and finding a new one has feelings, and feelings are slowly cultivated.

The best way is to start a new relationship, time is the best medicine for pain, have hope, live well, let the past pass, don't remember the past, don't be afraid of the future.