In love, are you the one who is tempted but doesn t give up?

In fact, I think it is often not so clear who needs to be active and who needs to be passive in love. Just because of each other's different personalities and temperaments, one party will be active and one will be passive. In practice, some people are the ones who are the first to move but die easily, and some people are the ones who act later but it is difficult to die.

For me, I think these two kinds of people are real, so today I will talk about you in love, are you the one who is moved but does not give up?

I don't think I'm a person who is excited but doesn't give up. First of all, for example, who is the first to be moved and who is the second to be moved, I think this still depends on the fate of the two people. Some people have a different personality, but when he likes someone, he will choose to take the initiative to confess.

It seems that he was moved first, and it may be that she also felt that the relationship between the two people had reached the time to confess. Maybe the other party has already hinted to him that the two people have the possibility of being together. The reverse is also true, and of course there will be cases where the heart is excited at the same time.

The second is who dies first, or who gives up first. I think it should be based on the trend and development trend of this relationship. If I feel that I still have a chance in this relationship that is worth remembering and holding on, then I will definitely give up.

If in the current situation, I can no longer see the future of this relationship, and even the relationship between the two people has fallen to the freezing point. Then I don't think there's any need to force the relationship to stay and maintain this relationship, after all, they will not end up being happy. Although I don't think I'm a person who is tempted but doesn't give up, it depends on the situation, and if I meet someone I like very much and suits me very well, I may be the one who is the first to be tempted.

Then love is your own problem, so you still need to make the right choice according to your own choices or ideas. Of course, whether you take the initiative or not, you want to have a happy love of your own. May there be lovers in the world who will eventually become married.

Yes. Because when I first started falling in love, I was reluctant for some reasons. But in the process of falling in love, they fell in love with each other deeply.

No, my partner is a person who is tempted but does not give up, because I chased him, and I also touched his heart, but I feel that it is not suitable now, and he does not give up, and now he is stalking and does not want to let go.

I am indeed such a person, because in love, girls are generally slow to heat, but when they are tempted, the other party betrays them, and they still don't give up.

In love, I am indeed the one who is tempted but does not give up, because my own personality is relatively slow.

The biggest dead heart, the most able to make people die should be the three words "I love you!" ”

Speaking of this, everyone must be surprised. Aren't "I love you" the three most beautiful words?

No, I'll let you make up another scene: it's raining heavily, the dim roadside lights are standing quietly, and a woman rushes out of the door crying, and a man catches up behind and grabs her hand. "I love you!

The man cried out heartbreakingly, but the woman slapped the man in the face with a reflexive turn, "But I'm already dead to you!" The woman said sadly, shook off the man's hand, and disappeared into the rain.

When love is full of lies, when some people are deeply hurt again and again, "I love you" becomes ironic!

Make it for you based on common emotional experience. In a relationship, there can be many moments that make people feel lost and sad, such as:

1.The other person does not respect your feelings and needs, and often makes you feel unvalued;

2.The other party does not have common goals and values for their career, life, family and other aspects of planning and pursuit;

3.The other person abandons you at an important moment, such as when you need his support and companionship and he or she is not around;

4.The other party's words and deeds are inconsistent, and many times what they say and do are different, making you feel untrustworthy and dependent;

5.The way and how often the other person communicates with you makes you feel bothered and distant.

Of course, everyone's feelings and reactions are different, and these are just some of the situations that can cause people to feel lost and sad. In a relationship, if a situation arises that makes you feel uncomfortable, it is best to communicate with the other person in time to find a solution to the problem.

When you feel that your own feelings have been deceived, when you feel that the other party is not single-minded towards you, there is a high probability that you will die.

After the yang, the boyfriend didn't care.

Breaking up doesn't require too many rituals, just a turn.

Remember a sentence: The so-called fate does not need too luxurious scenery, life and death are fate, Pingshui is fate, and forgetting each other in the rivers and lakes is not?

After graduation, I chased him to his hometown, and I didn't want to give up the relationship between four years together.

However, none of us have a suitable job yet, and we are all anxious about work and employment, and we are working hard at the same time.

My parents tried to get me back, and they had already arranged a decent job for me, but I was stubborn and they couldn't help it.

The persistence of love is not as easy as it seems.

His family is a very ordinary rural family, and the whole family is working hard for his employment. His parents treated me well, and they didn't need me to do anything every day, and they entertained me with good food and food. I asked him privately: Do your parents like me?

My heart suddenly felt cold like falling into an ice cellar.

I tried my best to help his mother do things, and in a small talk with her alone, she said to me: You are a good boy, but unfortunately your home is too far away, so far away, do your parents miss you?

I clearly felt the chill of being thousands of miles away, but I still responded with a smile: Auntie, don't worry, I will go back to see them often.

She sighed: It's so far, it's not easy to go back.

Later our chat was a little awkward.

He was finally admitted to a local financial institution, and his job was a destination that everyone was looking forward to. I also applied for a job at a local company through my own efforts and became a small clerk, although I was not very satisfied, but I thought that I would have the opportunity to change jobs again in the future.

The work is settled, and the busy life begins.

Her parents' attitude towards us together has always been a stalk in my heart, and the relationship has become more and more lukewarm and even more polite since then.

I overheard a conversation between his mother and him, my job is very average, the income is not high, and there is no formal establishment, so it is not suitable for girls to do it, etc. I noticed that he didn't say a word at the time.

During a deep conversation, I asked him: I know that your parents don't accept me, what should we do?

Then I burst into tears, and he wept: I'm really not sure if we'll be together in the future, but I really just like you.

It's all! I have traveled thousands of miles to you, but I have always been in an uncertain position in your heart.

I said calmly: It's been so long since I've been out, it's time for me to go home.

He was stunned: It's okay, I'll accompany you back when I have time.

But I knew he wouldn't have time. Moreover, I will not come back after leaving this time.

It's just a period of youthful years. It's just a plausible cliché. What man or woman doesn't have such a story?

As long as I want to be in love, I will die every time. I don't know if it's my fault. I admit that there are very few moments when I want to fall in love, so I hope that the other party can do the same as me, and even if we are together, it will change for the better, not that I want to be in love so find someone to partner with casually.

Unless it's someone I love very much, I definitely won't fall in love because I'm in love. I think it's just that everyone's view of love is different, not that it's a problem with love itself. However, it is really not my intention to make love look dead.

But if you die heart, then you will die Save yourself from going back and forth and crushing your little heart in the emotional area, which is not very fragile but really can't withstand the wind and waves. In short, whether it's love or falling in love, it's just the starting point of the heart, and it's just that you can't warm each other, but if you step on it repeatedly, it's not worth it.

I believe that there are also many people who uphold the love concept of "love can only be the icing on the cake, not charcoal in the snow", because, for a long time, I have taken this sentence as a guideline. As my understanding deepens and I react instinctively to human sorrows and joys, I feel that this is not only too harsh on me, but also unfriendly to the other person. There's a saying that says it now, and I think it makes more sense now:

You don't accompany you through thick and thin, who are you in glory and wealth. Some people may question that this is too realistic, but I think this is the feeling of being down-to-earth and looking up at the stars. Think about it, if the history of struggle in life is full of legends of two people supporting each other, rising up, and sharing, so that the feelings experienced together will have an emotional foundation and emotional significance.

On the other hand, if a person comes for money, status, and social status other than you, then who can say that such feelings are pure? Of course, special feelings are a different matter, after all, in this world, in addition to men and women, there are special people in everyone's heart.

Therefore, if I start from the perspective of my latest emotional outlook, my dead heart for love should lie in "purposeful love". Everything must be meaningful, every sentence must be detoured, and the wrong answer will be punished like a brain teaser. This kind of love on the line should be the most abrasive.

Maybe I also have the occupational disease of "going on the line", so in love, sometimes I can't be comfortable between life and work, which leads to the emergence of a state of over-the-top, now think about it, maybe love died at that time. Besides, my own psychological state is not rigid, and if my feelings are too laborious, it is easy to engage in a zero-sum game.

So, sometimes, I may also be dead to myself at a certain stage. I prefer to be alone, and many friends around me say that I should have a boyfriend, but I don't care about being single. For a long time, I took a serious look at my state and came to the conclusion that I wish I was still alone.

I think, in the final analysis, I'm dead to the self who is in love, like "this dead girl doesn't have much hope of falling in love", like this.

When I walked into the Civil Affairs Bureau to get the marriage certificate, I was dead set on falling in love.

With this book, I realized that love was a thing of the past. Now he has shouldered the responsibilities of a husband. In the future, it is likely that there will be no casualness and romance when you are in love, and there will be no wind and snow. With that comes the trifles of the family and the pressure to work for the future of the family.

It doesn't have to be a sad experience to give up on love. The active disappearance of love is also one.

The most desperate moment I've ever experienced was when we had a cold war for about 10 days, and I felt like our love was definitely over.

The real departure is quiet. What seems like a small thing can be the end of your relationship. The moment I died. Maybe it's because he changed the password of his phone and didn't want to tell me at that moment.

I had an experience and lent money to my ex-boyfriend who couldn't let go of my heart. I hoped that the relationship could continue, but it backfired, not only did he not thank me, but also said something insulting to me. From now on, I'm dead set on love.

Hiding from his parents and living with him, one night I went to the toilet in the middle of the night, saw a big cockroach, screamed in fright, ran back to the room and asked him to help me eliminate it, he woke up from his deep sleep, and waved my hand impatiently: You better go home and forget it. I didn't say anything, lay down and shed tears all night, then packed my bags the next day and went home.

Two people have nothing to talk about together, they are a little annoyed to see each other, they are going to quarrel when they say that they want to talk to you, they want to talk to you, he plays games by himself, he doesn't send you back by himself when you go back, you don't contact him, he doesn't contact him, he plays games every day, and he doesn't have time to accompany you. You want someone to care about it, you don't have to be around when you need him, and you feel that having a boyfriend is the same as not having a boyfriend, and your heart will naturally die.

When I came back early from a business trip to see her, I was still excited to take the gift, wanting to surprise her, but I didn't expect it to frighten me, I saw her with another man. At that moment, I was dying of love. Now that I think about it, I didn't find out until I got married, the pain will pass, and the days ahead will be more exciting.

I've been through a lot, and by the time I reach this age, I'm already dead. The so-called once Canghai is just a manifestation of the spirit of Ah Q who comforts himself.

Love is a very fragile thing, no matter how many vows and alliances have been, how earth-shattering, but it can't withstand the vicissitudes of the years, can't withstand the impact of some trivial things, and can't withstand the occasional carelessness!

Of course, death will only be dead if it has been hurt, but it is just a death heart for a relationship, and no one will know what will happen in the future. There are so many scumbags and scumbags in the world, it's just that we met the wrong person at the wrong time, and we have to believe that we will meet the right person at the right time.