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Because the competition is too fierce now, there are more and more children who follow the crowd, We often see a sentence on Weibo that it is clear that it is said that it is okay not to review, but you scored 100 points after the exam, which is also some caution between the children, in order to confuse the opponent's thoughts, pretend not to work hard and then take the exam very well, which is also a blow to the opponent, and a little vanity is at work. <>
There are also too many college students who don't study now, and even many college students are proud of having fun and not studying, and always feel that those children who study hard have brain problems, and they can cheat when they can do things, why do they spend so much time studying? If you don't fit in, you'll be isolated, which is what many college students pretend not to study.
There is another point, which may be the reason of the parentsIf parents are particularly prone to expecting too much from their children, and if they fail to meet the consequences, the children will choose to hide the process of their efforts, to avoid efforts not to achieve the receipt of the goods, parents will say, you see you work so hard, it is not nothing, so slowly the child will not show their hard work, compared to the hard work after not succeeding, the risk of being scolded is better than pretending not to work hard, after all, even if you fail, you will not be said to have achieved nothing. <>
In fact, there is no need to add so many people to yourself, hard work is hard work, no hard work is not hard work, even if you study hard, no one will laugh at you,We study hard for our own future and future, not for showmanship and for others to see, what will happen to us in the future? Those who laugh at us have nothing to do with them, we just need to be ourselves, there is no need to pretend to study, get together again, study hard, this is actually quite tiring, and the efficiency of learning is not good, it is better to study openly and work hard.
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I don't want others to see how hard I work, so I will feel more relaxed when I make achievements.
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Because students are under a lot of pressure nowadays, they don't want others to feel that they have compromised with life, and they want to be chic.
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I want others to feel that I am born so smart, pretend not to work hard, but secretly work hard after parting, I want to surprise others with my achievements, and make others think that I am so powerful.
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In order to pave the way for not working hard in the future, many students can't achieve good results even if they work hard, so they pretend not to work hard, so as not to be laughed at when they really don't work hard in the future.
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I don't want others to know that I am working hard, because in this way, if I succeed, I will be a blockbuster, and if I fail, I will have a reason to fail, so I will not be very faceless.
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Because there is too much competition pressure on college students now. If you work hard, other people will also be stressed, and the environment will affect a person, so today's college students like to work hard in private, and what they show in front of others is that they don't work hard.
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Preface: Hard work is a must, but if you pretend not to work hard, you can still get good grades, you can indirectly prove that you are smart and have a high IQ, and vanity is at work. Hard work may not lead to success, but if you don't work hard, you will definitely not succeed.
And some people pretend not to work hard because they are afraid that if they don't succeed, they will be gossiped about by others and their self-esteem will be frustrated. <>
People are compared as soon as they are born, compared to their grades when they are young, and compared to their jobs when they grow up. And when you praise one, you will do the other harm. And that person pretends not to care, just to keep his self-esteem.
This is the case in real life, you are afraid that others will look down on you, and you are afraid that after you work hard but there is no result, you will be easily surpassed by others, and your heart is quite unconfident, so that your whole person becomes unconfident. Pretending not to work hard means that you are not confident, and many people's progress may not be able to be seen, but if you really learn what you want, you will make progress if you persist in working hard. <>
Don't be afraid to be surpassed by others, because everyone has different characteristics. Those difficult lives will always end, and before I know it, I have survived a lot of hardships, and I know that I am working hard, but I keep saying that I don't work hard. And this kind of person generally has several mentalities, the low one is very cautious, always know to leave a way back for themselves, and the second is very scheming, so it can reduce the psychological defense of competitors.
The third is screening, which can be used to filter out the innocent people around you with this simple lie. The fourth type is kindness and does not want to put pressure on others. <>
No matter which method it is, this kind of person who pretends not to work hard has a very high emotional intelligence, some people just say that they don't work hard, but they have been working secretly behind their backs, and I hope that your efforts can amaze everyone. Even if we are ridiculed by others, we should not take it to heart, we must believe that as long as we give, there will be a reward. And there is no shortage of smart people in this world, and there is no shortage of hard-working people.
If you want to succeed, don't be afraid of failure, and don't care about other people's opinions.
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I think there are two kinds of people in this kind, one is that they don't want others to know that they are working hard, and then suddenly they become a blockbuster. Another is that you don't want others to know what you have done, but want others to feel that it is easy to accomplish something.
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There used to be a comic, "His and Her Story", which tells the story of how a top student forces himself to become a first-class top student. In front of people, they are always elegant and leisurely, but in private, they will stay up all night and study hard, and stay up all night for the difference of one point.
One reason for such a person comes from self-demand, the desire to get ahead, the desire to be superior, but they don't want others to think that they are nerds who study hard (looking down on nerds in school is also a regular pattern), and if you can get good grades without being a nerd, isn't that a "genius"? That's a lot more advanced.
Secondly, pretending not to work hard is also conducive to building good interpersonal relationships around you. After all, the people in the circle who study diligently are only a small group of people, and if you are too diligent, either you look down on others, or others look down on you.
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Because pretending not to work hard can allow you to integrate into the group around you and keep yourself from being envied by other people.
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Because in this way, others will take it lightly, and this person will not have a lot of pressure, so they will do this, these people are very scheming.
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Why do some people always pretend to be polite, and flaunt themselves even when they are bargaining!
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Efforts or non-efforts to determine that the respondent has the qualifications, and considers that they meet the requirements.
Cultural quality, technical skills, talent functions, special and special, must have a match, counterpart content, show his talent and wisdom.
Only by making a range of efforts but not trying to reach a conclusion can we reach the entry point.
Therefore, it is known as an outsider in the circle, and an outsider in the industry.
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As follows:
1. The people around him are not working hard, he does not want to follow the crowd, has his own persistence, and wants (or needs) to integrate into the people around him, and does not want to make himself seem out of place, if this kind of person has high emotional intelligence, or he is not confident enough in himself, and needs to be consistent with others or recognized by others.
2. It may be relatively dark, and the work behind it is light, and the wind in front of people is light to show their awesomeness.
Introduce. People love to hear stories about the defeat of the weak over the strong, the strong to crush, and the effortless victory over the step-by-step camp.
Many people will feel that it is normal to work hard to achieve success, and if you work hard and do not succeed, you will be ridiculed, so many people tend to weaken their hard work, and if you succeed, you will be envied by more people, but if you fail, others will not say anything, because it is normal for you to fail because you did not work hard.
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A pseudo-diligent illustrated guide for college students.
I usually go to class, and I definitely don't listen.
Hear the point and pick up your phone.
Take a photo projection and don't take notes.
After class, chase and intercept the teacher.
Make a copy of the ppt
It seems that if you get the courseware, you will get the high-score treasure book, martial arts cheats.
Who doesn't know. If you copy the courseware back, it will just lie in your USB flash drive.
**When you take a picture, it's just taken as garbage.
Extracurricular life is abundant.
The registration form for the student union and club has been handed in not twenty, but also twelve.
But after you hand in the registration form, everything will be fine.
You're going to the event!
You are also very single-minded, regularly participated, the only club activity.
It's just sign-up. Only for this activity will you be happy.
About self-study. Either on the way to self-study, or on the way to self-study.
However to the classrooms came the library.
The materials in the schoolbag, as soon as the table is spread, the attention is completely focused on the mobile phone.
Excuse me. Are you looking for a quiet, undisturbed place to play on your phone (?)
For the fourth and sixth levels.
I bought one word book after another, but I flipped through the records but stayed, and the first page of Abandon real questions was one set after another, and the temporary assault began on the eve of the exam.
The fourth- and sixth-level exams are all based on a flash of inspiration and a high school foundation.
It's just that you don't move those word books and exam questions.
Is it to graduate from the flea market and sell a brand new?
Final exams are approaching.
Drink the most expensive coffee and brush the latest night.
In front of the desk in the dead of night, with dim lighting, carefully organize the desk for half an hour.
Take one of the ten photos and refine them for another half an hour.
Check-in moments: Have you ever seen a campus at 4 a.m.?
To show that they fought all night and worked diligently.
You're struggling to get a passing grade, but you're pretending to be the hardest working in the world?
Study. There is a diligent path in the book mountain, tirelessly, and the hand does not release the volume.
You've read 95 books this semester.
Looking at the neatly arranged knowledge on the shelves, you smile with satisfaction.
Open Jingdong, and then place an order for 5 copies angrily, and complete the 100 books!
As everyone knows, the essence of reading is.
Reading – Comprehension – Memorization – Application.
Philatelic reading satisfies only the ever-expanding vanity of knowledge.
You spend a lot of time repeating the easiest part.
I also think that I am well-informed and knowledgeable.
Fitness**. You get a gym card, buy a gym bag, choose sneakers, and a set of fitness equipment.
Passionate and ambitious.
Three days later, he had back pain and was haggard.
On the fourth day, you came to take a few photos, posted them on Moments, and went straight to the shower.
You think, the worst is to get a bath card.
Ten days later, you don't even bother to take a shower.
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Yes, some people also go to the library every day, and they also brush up on questions every day, as if they know a lot, but the final grade is not ideal, maybe he is just comforting himself. I don't listen to lectures in college, I chase dramas when I go back to the dormitory, I copy my homework casually, and I go to the library when I change exams, but I just play with my mobile phone in the library, it seems that everyone looks at him and works hard, but when he fails the course again and again, he can't pass the exam again and again, and when he feels that he works hard but it's useless, he knows if he's really working hard. When our medical students went to do an internship at that time, many people had to take the postgraduate entrance examination, but only those one or two were admitted in the end, why?
Maybe some people lose to the busyness of the internship, maybe some people forget that they want to go to graduate school on the way to the internship, no matter what it is, you only have to put in how much effort you can receive. There is a good saying that "the result often will not accompany you to act" we just work hard, don't look at other people's attitudes, don't worry too much, maybe you don't have results for the time being after your efforts, but don't be discouraged, at least in college you are the most relaxed, you don't have to think about anything, you just work hard, try to reach your own height and what you want. So there's never anything wrong with hard work, hard work is an attitude, it's an attitude you have towards your life, you have to work hard in college!
Ducks for college.
The Moon of the University.
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I'm currently a sophomore and have seen a lot of people pretending to study. Let me list them all.
First of all, one of my roommates is in a state of fake study, of course, I believe he is not a fake study for a show, because he is really hard-working, and since his sophomore year, we basically have no classes in the morning, so the other three people in our dormitory, including me, basically sleep until about 10 o'clock before getting up, but he gets up at 7 o'clock in the morning every morning to read on the balcony, why is it said that he is fake studying? He sometimes memorizes English, because the words are sequential, once I heard him memorizing bounce, but I only heard him memorizing the countryside in a week, and he took the fourth level twice to pass, I asked him this question in a casual conversation, and he told me that every time he memorized, he felt like his brain was empty, he felt that only his mouth was moving, and he felt that his whole body was not his own.
There is also a fake study classmate is a student I added on the confession wall to share computer level information, I often see him open the learning situation in the circle of friends, and with a piece of motivational copywriting, maybe it is the circle of friends for seven days I don't know how many times he sent it, in short, I saw it no less than a hundred times, I thought he was a great god of learning, but by chance, I saw the list of our college make-up exams, and the two disciplines have his name, I think this should be a show learning.
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