The post 90s relationship problem is urgent, and the answer is good, and the additional 50 is added!

Mommy. I've finally understood your story, and it's a bit of a mixed feeling.

How to say it, I'm also 90, you guys are so tangled.

This kind of sub-division and harmony is not yet a movie to write **.

Everyone wants to pursue ordinary little happiness, and I think you must be too.

You've been together, you've been together, have you ever wondered why you broke up last June?

There must be a reason why you're no longer suitable, but you still have love in your heart, so you can't let go.

Did you know that love and life are not the same, and having love does not mean that you are suitable to be together.

Otherwise, if there are so many people in the world who love each other but can't stay together, there must be a certain truth to it.

Do you think he loves you, and it seems to me that he doesn't love you at all, and he doesn't deserve your love.

If he loves you, why don't you just take action to get you back to him.

If he loves you, why did he bring his cousin to see you, why didn't he stay with you when you were drunk.

If he loves you, why is he still ambiguous with you after you have a new boyfriend.

If he loves you, why does he just pay lip service to be responsible, but in reality, he doesn't pay anything.

If he loves you, why is he hesitant to be in a relationship with another woman?

If he loves you, why can't he bear to watch you because he fell out with his family?

If he loves you, why can he watch you sad and sad waiting for him and run away from the problem.

Are you sure you want to stay with this man Are you going to force him to break up with someone else Or do you have to wait stupidly all the time It's really not worth it For such a man It's not worth it You're still young You'll meet better people in the future Don't get entangled in this relationship Even if the beauty has already passed It leaves you with nothing but pain and tears It's been half a year They haven't broken up yet, aren't you still giving up? Go out and walk more This world is still very beautiful Love is not all about life At your age There are still many things that can be done.

Even if he finally breaks up with that girl, you must not look back, you must move on.

If you say he's a very capable person, then you're proving to everyone that you're also very good, and that you have to live your life to the fullest without him, and tell the world that without him, I'm still the proudest princess.

Sister, I'm much older than you.

Just want to tell you that this man doesn't love you.

Zodiac signs have nothing to do with love, just like the eight characters are the same as love. Why are you all so blind?

Capable, girl, every girl loves capable men, and hopes that her boyfriend is as outstanding as possible, but girl, how much ability do you have?

Evaluate his ability by a score, and then your ability by a score, and see if there is a big difference?

How can people who are not from the same world live together?

You're still young, study hard. When looking for a partner, don't pick the excellent or capable, but choose the one that suits you.

Although BMW is good, we can't control it, fuel-consuming parts are expensive, and if there is an accident, we have to lose our soldiers.

Polo may be very average, but it is energy efficient, the accessories are good, and it suits you. Even if there is any problem, it will not be too bad.

Got it?

I'm very patient to read your story to the end.

Feels like you shouldn't have waited any longer!

You should be the same age as me now.

How can you be so sure that you won't meet a better one in the future?

Is it that you don't want to forget him?

If he really likes you. Why divide it?

I've been there. It's the same with my girlfriend. We just have different roles.

It took 2 years to let go.

The process is painful! But resolutely.

Now life starts anew.

The key is to see what he thinks! See how he solves his relationship with his partner! If he doesn't leave, then you leave! Don't take a man's word for it. You have to know how to protect yourself.

I think we post-90s are easy to be coaxed by some sweet words, I suggest you... Don't be together anymore. In the future, there will be many things about good men, and he will be separated and combined with his object, maybe the words he said to you will not be true to his object, don't be stupid, he is still young, the road in the future is still long,,, why bother?

I believe that there will be someone who loves you more in the future, and there is, drink less, alcohol hurts your body, and don't give others the opportunity to enter!!

I think he wants to be girlfriends and both of them are good to him, so that he can choose the best for him to get married in the future. He is a selfish, unprincipled man. You still say he's good.

Doing things is done only after they are done. No one knows if you don't do it, it's just what you think you are. That's it, don't wait.

Otherwise, you will definitely get hurt in the future.

Die, it's impossible, even if it's possible, don't want it, because you're too infatuated, so you can't control him, and finally you're unlucky, be realistic, friends!

Speechless, your relationship is still more complicated than our post-80s love, hey.

Study hard and make progress every day.

Distance will inevitably cause great damage to marriage, but this sentence is not absolute.

If each other is willing to exchange hearts and minds peacefully, then many problems will be solved Marriage is maintained by two people, and unilateral avoidance will cause unpredictable damage to it.

But the biggest enemy of marriage may not be distance, or it may originate from a small suspicion, and the futile way to hurt others and oneself is to think about whether the other party will betray you.

Instead of swaying, it is better to put everything on the table and everyone should talk about it as a heart-to-heart.

1. Look at the foundation of your relationship with each other.

2. Look at age--- you have to accept the challenge.

3. Look at each other's respective experiences --- separation, and see what each of you will encounter. It's hard to predict.

4. Looking at their respective personalities and interpretations of feelings--- love is beautiful, and it is also based on the firm recognition of both parties...

5. It depends on the time you have established a relationship from acquaintance to familiarity to relationship, and if your part of the time is only a few months, it may not be solid... How long have you been there?

As a post-90s generation, if you still have plans to start a family, it is recommended not to separate, this is not a good start, at least it is not suitable for you. Don't talk to me about why you separated, you have the right to control all stages of your life, including your love, but you are responsible for yourself and your choices. Hand hit.

There will definitely be some problems with a long separation, after all, they are all young people.

It will definitely be with caution.

I would like to make it clear to you that I have personally experienced a long-distance relationship

The post-90s generation is the smartest, most rational, and most self-interested generation I have ever seen, not the decadent generation I saw on the Internet before, the terrifying generation with strong learning ability, and the generation with the extreme use of egoism.

Do you have to think about it yourself? Find a lot of them on the Internet!

1.Ah It's okay, it's just that when Qingming went to the grave, I suddenly remembered you, why are so many people dead, but you are not dead?

2.Playing with feelings? I'm going to make you cry very rhythmically.

3 I am the passerby you who turned around and forgot, why should I accompany you to the end of the world?

4 .A fuel-efficient lamp is never a good lamp!

5 When I don't know if I love someone or not, I assume that I love someone, and then I make the fake come true, and in this way, I become a Buddha and love all living beings.

Love, hate, is love. After going through them, I got love.

- I won't even believe punctuation when you say it.

Sister is not a dream of Lisa. Won't smile at everyone.

No, we are not only from the last century, we are still from the last millennium, and those little kids may not see two centuries of sunshine in their lifetime, and it is impossible to see the moon for two thousand years, just like the game, we have upgraded to a second-order brush boss, and they are still fighting mobs to make copper coins!

As long as you truly love each other, age is not a problem.

Have children ever thought about their parents?

We have crossed the century, what have they crossed?

My opinion:

First of all, what I want to talk about is that you have too little experience, you are called: easy to come do not cherish, difficult to find I want to fight for (this kind of psychology, many people have such a problem, always understand these truths after the fact), what is the purpose of choosing the object, is to live, whether the life is good, depends on how much the other party loves you and how much you love each other. You are still young, you can listen to your parents (maybe you can't listen to me now), I didn't listen to my parents before, after more than a dozen things, none of them were not my fault.

I changed it myself, I should be many years older than you, and to this day, when it comes to things that are difficult to decide, I still go to listen to the advice of my parents, because my parents are the only ones who care about you the most, because my parents have many years of experience.

Second, no matter how much he loves you or whether you love him or not, don't get married when you're not ready to get married. Since you have talked to him, you should tell him what you think, people, honesty is power, that is the true self, and you will have no worries. You're tired of being like this now.

Thirdly, in this world, no matter who you are, I think you must learn to empathize, to know how to experience and understand the feelings of others, including parents, friends, strangers... This is the standard of being a good person, and life will be meaningful.

Fourth, the experience I learned from my growth is that finding someone who loves you is a hundred times stronger than finding someone you love, and the happiness index will be a hundred times stronger.

I hope that people who are confused will understand that they don't wait for something to happen before they understand a truth. Be thankful for what you have now. With a grateful heart, there will be all the beauty in the eyes.

I've talked about some macro truths, and I don't know if you can see it. Finally, I will answer you from a microscopic perspective: your psychology is normal, it belongs to the psychology of the post-90s, and most of the post-90s will think that it is normal.

In the eyes of mature people, in the eyes of people who have experienced it, you are abnormal. I think you have to afford it, and you should cherish it. The psychology that leads you to this is because you have never opened the door of your own love, and of course you can't accept the love of others (you have closed yourself).

In the text, you talk about treating emotion as emotion. There are also people downstairs who say that women are easy to be moved - I don't disagree with this sentence, but there is a very important premise, there is something worth touching to be moved, not casually. Where there is moving, there must be touching things.

Touched is not equal to feelings, but there must be touching in feelings, and if there is no emotion, there will be no feelings.

I wish you happiness.

Maybe everyone will have this stage, but the severity is different.

But like you, it's really a question mark whether this relationship can go on.

I always feel that when two people get along, they can't choose someone who is not certain to be together for the sake of someone's anger, feelings are not child's play, engagement is not child's play, and it's not too late to ask your heart what to decide.

If you don't love him, explain to him as soon as possible, procrastination hurts two people, if you love him, then open your heart and communicate with him well, in fact, try to do it, and you will feel that it is not as difficult as you thought at the beginning.

No matter what happens, communication is the most effective medicine for two people to maintain their love.

There is love, there is affection, there may be no marriage, there is no love in marriage, otherwise God's tricks will not appear, life is not perfect, the more you pursue, the more you lose.

True love is only once in life, maybe you have already paid, people who have had true love are happy, whether you have marriage or not, some people have not had a lifetime, so there are some things they have never experienced in their lives, and they will not understand.

There is no need for people to force themselves, although some people say that there is no need to care too much about living together for a lifetime in a short life, this is mostly the life of our predecessors, and we don't need to follow what they have walked and go down the road we don't like to take.

You yourself have not yet come out of the shadows, time will heal the wounds, and only those who can change yourself are worth it.

Take your time and wait for someone to change you.

Mountains and rivers are easy to change, and their nature is difficult to change.

Friends who don't know each other, sing slowly, and disagree.

Your question is whether you should get married, marriage is not just about the feelings of two people, not to mention that you have not had any relationship, so it is understandable that you are not active.

You have to find someone to marry, as long as you think he can be a good husband. There are some things that you don't know to cherish when you have them, and you don't know how to regret them when you lose them.

Now the key is that you have to find the right person to marry, like-minded and like-minded? Is there a conflict of values in outlook on life? Is it okay to be financially conditioned?

Does he love you? Is he a responsible person? Feelings,It's either better or worse.,If you don't have the next action, the colder it will be.,Feelings need to be cultivated.,Cultivation needs to be learned and acted.。。

A marriage without feelings may be terrible, but feelings without marriage are just as scary and confusing. 、