Painful relationship problems! Seek help!

Try to convince your parents and relatives that happiness is your own, you have to grasp it, she loves you so much, you have to make sacrifices when necessary, whether you look good or not is not the most important thing, you are kind-hearted, know that you love you and love you, and help you put it first, that is really beautiful. If you are separated from her, you find one who is as beautiful as a fairy, but it is not good for you, will not care about you, etc., at that time, you are really in a dilemma, now you are just in a dilemma, insist on your own ideas, she entrusted this life to you, you also have to take good care of her, the emotional road is not smooth sailing, only through the wind and rain will taste the sweetness of love, I personally think to live a good life with her, try to convince parents, if it really doesn't work, if I want you, I will not hesitate, Will insist on holding hands with her to grow old, if you leave her for this, say something you don't like to hear, you are not a man, your own woman is like this for you, but you are hesitating and retreating, don't say much, I wish you a happy wedding and a harmonious family, thank you!!

Yes? That's a hard question! At least for me, I don't know about anyone else.

If you feel that it is unfilial to be alone with your lover and leave your parents, and you want to be a filial son, then you can only break up. But let me tell you that I have a cousin who used to be the same as you, his girlfriend and his mother didn't like it at all, it was completely, and on the contrary, it was very, very annoying, I said that this is not an exaggeration, at that time my cousin's mother scolded and chased my cousin's girlfriend, very directly, and the scolding was very ugly and poisonous. Oh my cousin!

But I can't say that I have suffering every day, and I can only cry in my grandmother, and my grandmother has no right to speak. But my cousin is resolute, every time she goes home, she takes her back, she is very obedient and patient in front of my cousin's parents. She is industrious by nature, and does all the housework in the house, and my cousin's mother is angry and can't vent.

Even my cousin let my girlfriend stay with her parents for a few weeks, and then he went back to work outside and let his girlfriend go to serve his parents, no matter how unwilling and disliked by his parents, they couldn't kick her out of the streets or whatever! At most, it is abuse, scolding and beating. My cousin's girlfriend is amazing, no complaints, no dissatisfaction and resistance, you bully me, I just treat you well.

And whenever my girlfriend is wronged and unhappy, I comfort her and return to her, my cousin is the same low voice in front of his parents, but he is absolutely strong. In the end, my cousin chose her, and their wedding was only done outside of work (my cousin is also a boss, although it is not very big), and we only found out later. But they haven't left their parents, and now they have children, and a family is slowly warming up.

What a blessing I am now!

Remember, feelings are not easy to come by, they are not called feelings, feelings need to be cultivated. If you really love her and want to be with her, then you might as well be anti-parents like my cousin, this does not mean that you are not filial, you have the right to choose your life. (But I'm just giving you an opinion, I didn't teach you to be unfilial!)

Tell your girlfriend to cooperate with you well, ask her to cooperate with your parents well, and do a good job of showing them, so that your parents will eventually have nothing to say.

The 6-year itch 6 years is a hurdle Love each other and have the confidence to work together for a better life in the future Let's get married If you don't have confidence in the future, break up Otherwise, it will be more harmful to you and her As for the family, which parent in the world can twist their children Parents just hope that you can be happy If you live a good life and live happily You may not understand it at first As time increases, you will understand You I wish you happiness People who love themselves are really happy.

Yes, it's so difficult to deal with, I think you have to drink your parents to communicate, if they love you, they will not be so difficult for you, if they insist on letting you go the way they say, they don't think about you too much, after all, you are not a child, and you are already like that, don't hurt her, parents can communicate, not so absolute, you do your parents' ideological work. Because there is no better choice for your lifelong happiness!

Hehe, if your parents really love you, they will respect your choice. Or you can also come to the first cut and then play, and get married to your son. But I advise you, you can't have it both ways.