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It's really common in life to think about someone you've never met, and that's how I do it a lot. I think it's pretty obvious.
First of all, a person who can make you think about it must be a person with excellent qualities, and this quality is in line with your appetite and appreciation, and this person has never met you to make you think, it must be very in line with the perfect image in your mind. Maybe it's because you lack friends in your life, lack of objects, so you have hope for a person you know but have never met, thinking that he is your favorite person living and reliable friends, people's ideas are very simple, that is, they want to find a person who fits their hearts and can understand themselves, and they have common interests and outlook on life, and a person who has never met is often not very familiar with people, will make people have infinite reverie, and constantly improve the unknown side of that person in their hearts, so as to become the perfect person in their hearts.
But no one is perfect, which is another reason, because of the friends, lovers, business partners, and general friends we meet in life, many of them are driven by rights and interests, so that we find the shortcomings of the people around us from time to time, and even betrayal, we are tired of seeing the ugliness in our eyes, trying to seek better comfort, at this time a person we have never met has laid a very perfect image in our hearts, because our hearts are too eager to meet the kind of people who are good for themselves and not blinded by interests. For those unknown personalities and attitudes of people we have never met, we will unconsciously fill in with positive thoughts, and most of the people we have never met must be positive, because after all, they will not show so distinct advantages and disadvantages like the people we have met, so we have the impression that the people we have never met are a little bit and are the ideal partners we pursue.
However, everyone has shortcomings in life, and our thoughts are just a form of blinding ourselves, so we still have to get along with the people around us more.
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However, it is precisely because it is too difficult to meet a good person that there will be online dating. How can you not be moved by a person you have never met who has the same interests, talks about topics that you are interested in, and shares your views on issues. There are so many people around, and you have never met someone who talks like this, you can't help but imagine the scene of the other party appearing in front of you, even if you don't necessarily give each other this opportunity, but your heart will still yearn for it.
This feeling should be the same as listening to other people's mouths discussing a certain talented person, or a certain hero, or a certain talented woman in ancient times, or even more profound. Because you feel connected with him mentally, these are likes that transcend appearances, how can you not be impressed.
No matter how sane people are, they may have this situation, and they will never forget to remember someone they have never met. Even Andy in "Ode to Joy" is no exception. In fact, sometimes when you meet, this feeling may disappear in an instant, because you are in love with the other person you imagined.
The more out of reach, the more you like it, and the more you can't get it, the more you can't stop it. This is the norm in everyone's heart. Maybe you can try to see if the other party doesn't have a p picture**, which will calm your mind down a lot.
Because there are still very few people who don't care about appearance and behavior habits. If he has long been out of the trajectory of your life, it is not impossible to keep this longing in your heart as a good memory. May the years be kind to you and leave no traces on you, and may your life be good.
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