It is said that it is not good to marry far away, how bad is it?

Financial problems, go back to your parents' home troublesome distance, you are in pregnancy and give birth to a child when the special trouble, every time you go home, the distance is far away, it is inconvenient, you want to go back to your mother's home to a big idea, this also has to live in a hotel, transportation costs, anyway, will take your life, because of some small things, trivial things cause unpleasantness.

Personally, I feel that it is not good to marry far away, but it should be determined according to the actual situation of the individual. Because of everyone's personal ability and economic situation, as well as the husband's family and parents' personality. There are some differences in life and customs in each place, if the economic conditions are good and your husband loves you, you can go to your mother's house to buy a house if you are not happy or unaccustomed there.

If the economy is average, the in-laws are unreasonable, and the husband is a little more cowardly, then there will be suffering.

Truth or dare not marry far away, there is no one to complain when you are tired, there is no place to go, there is loneliness, helplessness, it takes time and money to go back to your mother's house, you are still thin and tired after a long time in the car, and it is better to marry a man who understands you,. I am just marrying far away, and I advise the little sisters not to marry far away

The most regrettable thing is to marry far away, marry all kinds of water and soil adaptation, different living habits, different food tastes, different dialects, strangers you don't recognize, all strangers, only the husband is intimate....If your in-laws treat you badly, your husband is a mother's treasure, and you will deal with you alone with your in-laws, then life is really worse than death, depressed every day, you can divorce if you don't have children, and you will be sad if you don't divorce if you have children.

I don't dare to say if I am wronged, I have nowhere to go if I want to run away from home, there, I am not familiar with life, except for my husband and children, there is no one else and things, and every time I go back to my parents' house, I come and go in a hurry. ‍‍

I now regret marrying far away, blaming myself for having no brains, and I met a straight man, machismo, every time I quarreled, I secretly cried, and I didn't dare to tell my family, my parents couldn't be filial piety when they were old, and I felt very sorry for my parents.

Girls who have not yet married must think carefully and understand more when they marry far away!

It's hard to go back to your parents' home once, every time you get together, it's short-lived, and your parents suddenly find out what your parents are doing. ‍‍

I myself am married far away, I think it is not good to marry far away, I sincerely advise you, if you don't want the original vision, a person is too far away from his own relatives and parents, and it is difficult to go back to his parents' home once. ‍‍

I'm also far away from marrying, although it is a neighboring city, just a few days ago the wedding, originally according to the custom is three days to go back to the door, because far away from the car trouble, so did not go back to the door, and then every time I go out with him, there is a feeling of not being able to integrate into the environment, everything is unfamiliar to you, streets, people, dialects, fortunately my mother-in-law and father-in-law can still be. ‍‍

My sister-in-law is married far away, and she comes back once a year on average, and her mother-in-law reads it all day long, and she is worried that she will not eat well, she is not used to it, and she is afraid that she will be wronged, and the New Year holiday will be more serious. ‍‍

I like the way of communication, especially in the field of living habits and language traffic communication are different, there is an old saying that marry a chicken with a chicken, marry a dog with a dog, this sentence means that you want to follow whoever you want to follow, you have to follow the customs, to learn her customs, courage and exercise, some communication behaviors. ‍‍

If the parents-in-law are better, maybe the life is better, if the in-laws are not good, and then meet a mother-in-law husband, that day is quite sad. ‍‍

Women should not marry far away, unless the man is very rich and willing to give you the money after marriage, otherwise do not marry far away, which will make her parents very miserable.

When you are wronged, you can't go back to your dearest parents right away, you have to swallow your own tears, and you have to endure a lot of suffering. ‍‍

When I was with him, his salary was only 2,800 a month. We live in our own rented house and have a pregnancy test every month. Sometimes I don't have enough money to save money, and sometimes my husband has to look at her face when she gets dozens of dollars for her mother, and even the words are very ugly.

What impressed me the most was that we had no money that month, and the silver model friend took 700 yuan for his mother's pregnancy test, but he was scolded, and asked me to pay her back immediately next month's salary.

When we got married, his parents bought me a necklace and a ring for 3,000 yuan, a red envelope of 60 yuan, and nothing else. And my parents gave me and my husband a red envelope of 1314 per person, and they also bought us a computer washing machine. Even so, my husband doesn't think about my family's good, he just thinks his parents are the best.

Later, I opened a small shop, we all lived together, and the run-in period became more and more depressing for me, and I endured it for more than a year. It broke out that night and my son had a high fever at three o'clock in the middle of the night. We didn't have any cash on us, but his parents opened snacks in Sha County, and they had cash income every day.

I told his mother, "My child will go to the doctor and pay her back after she is paid." "The immediately said with a black face

No, but she still has a lot of money in her hand, and she's counting it. ”

And my husband was silent on the side, I said that I was talking for a long time, and then I got 400, and then I called to the hospital, my husband did not follow, I held the child in the hospital for intravenous drips, and saw that other children were accompanied by their fathers, and I couldn't help crying bitterly.

Thinking about the days I have spent in his house all these years, I regret the decision I made, if I could do it again, I would definitely not choose to marry far away, marry this irresponsible man, but look at the baby in my arms. I had to endure it.

If I am not sure, I do not support long-distance marriage. Because I don't dare to gamble with my life.

It's really lucky to be able to meet someone you like in other regions, but if you don't think it through, luck will turn into misfortune.

During the period from falling in love to just entering into marriage, of course, there is only sweetness left in our hearts.

This sweetness will overwhelm us and make us minimize the problems we encounter in the future. But marriage is not only sweet and loving, it is more of a challenging life. And long-distance marriage will make this difficulty even more difficult.

I have a friend who is married far away and hasn't been home again for a few years.

Every time we asked her how she was doing, she told us she was doing well. Even when her parents asked her, she always said that she was doing well, and didn't talk much about other details.

But every time we asked her to send a small ** to share her recent life, she shirked it for various reasons. Either it's time to cook, or the phone is in the child's hand. So much so that after so many years of marriage, we and her family don't know what her life is really like.

Once, she borrowed money from some of our friends and told us not to tell her parents.

I asked the reason for borrowing money at the time, but she said that her parents-in-law had been hospitalized for a while, and the family was a little short of money, so there was nothing else important. I didn't ask again, but is that really the reason?

When she wanted to marry before, her parents did not agree, but at that time, the two of them loved each other deeply, and the friend made up his mind to follow the man to the man's city. She didn't know her life well, she didn't find a job that suited her, and because she soon had a child, she stayed at home to take care of the child.

The life after marrying far away is so blurry that we can't see the outline clearly. Because of the distant marriage, it can be said that only my husband is our closest person.

If my husband is completely different after marriage and before marriage, and our mother's family can't help us in time, we can only cry without tears in those days.

Because nothing is eternal now, and we dare not be 100% sure of people's hearts, then we should not gamble with our future lives. Instead of worrying about whether you will regret it in the future, it is better to be brave enough to let go and find him who can make you truly down-to-earth.

Of course, there may also be happiness in marrying far away.

It's just that so far, I haven't really encountered it, probably a problem with my small circle. I have seen more people who regret marrying far away, those who describe to me all kinds of hardships after marrying far away, and those who faithfully warn others not to marry away after marrying far away.

It can only be said that life has always been full of tests, if you are really determined to prepare for marrying far away, then please don't imagine the life after marriage so beautiful, so as not to have all kinds of small problems and small contradictions in the future, I am afraid that there will be a gap and I will not be able to accept it for a while.

Of course, if you are full of happiness and pampering in the future, it will be even better, it means that it is different from what you imagined before, and at this time you will be more confident to manage your married life well!

There are many girls who are in love, they will find a boyfriend in a different place, because they are young and have not considered what problems will be brought by distant marriage, just a momentary impulse, love each other, coupled with the development of transportation and communication, regardless of the opposition of their parents, between true love and distant marriage, choose true love, and then choose to marry to a different place without hesitation, but after getting married, they found that there is a big problem in marrying far away, regretting that they chose to marry far away, and finally the two ended in divorce because of family problems. I didn't understand it when I was young, and I regretted it when I got married. In fact, there are many such cases around me, getting married and finding a long-distance husband, and then because of the distant marriage, not adapting to the local customs, and having no place to cry after the quarrel, I feel very lonely, and my parents are not around, and I can't feel a trace of warmth, etc., which leads to the final breakup and divorce.

What kind of impact will distant marriage have on us women?

Personally, I think that the first thing to bring about is isolation, parents all over the world feel sorry for their children, when the daughter-in-law and son have a conflict, the father-in-law and mother-in-law will be towards their son, but as a woman who marries far away, there is no one to help when parents and friends are not around, and the only husband who can rely on is not able to rely on it, and women will feel like losing their wings on one side and feeling isolated.

Secondly, if you have a child, the child can only be taken by your parents-in-law, and sometimes when your parents-in-law have other things to do, and when you are busy, Fengxin has no one to help you at all. Especially when you encounter a person who is in the field and has no parents-in-law, you can only rely on yourself, once the husband is not good, the girl will often be on the verge of collapse.

There is also the fact that after girls marry in other places, they have a lot of living habits, and folk customs will be very different from where they grew up. It's okay if you can quickly adapt to accept this way, but if Yin Huilun can't accept it or the other party's family has requirements for her daughter-in-law, this woman will live a very difficult life, and over time she will have conflicts with her husband, and if there are many quarrels, the relationship between the two people will naturally fade, and finally they will choose to divorce.

Therefore, long-distance marriage needs to be carefully considered, and without a certain economic foundation and conditions, it is best not to choose long-distance marriage. Parents are here, not far away. It is best for parents to be close to their parents, so that they can take care of each other, which can not only help parents reduce their burden, but also help themselves to reduce their burden, and they will live a happier life and have a longer marriage.

I can't accept marrying far away, what's wrong with marrying far away as a celebrity? Three reasons to tell you.

1. I can't often go to my father's mother's side.

Many parents hope that their daughters can find happiness, or their future can be better developed, so they support their development from afar, but when they really leave home, what their parents want is to hope that women can be more, come home to see, once a girl, because of a man and marry far away, can not often return to their parents, if the parents have any pain, can not come back to a **, always have to go through several twists and turns, so in the eyes of parents, It is very sad for the parents to see their daughter marrying far away, and they can't see their daughter often, and in addition, they can't be contacted often.

2. Abandon the familiar living environment.

To start a new life in another place, then the people who live in the original environment will gradually break off contact, and their life track is not much intersecting, a woman's life center will be completely dominated by the man's living environment and the people around him, and once there is a child, the woman will be more rooted there, at this time he has a deep friendship with the original person Yan Xiao, and will gradually go farther and farther away because of the future development direction and life communication differences. will lose yourself, once a very good friend, and cut off a family member with whom you have a good relationship.

3. I don't know what the future holds, and I don't have anything to rely on.

As the saying goes, no matter what, a place with a maiden home is home, but it is not easy for a girl to return to her maiden home after marrying far away. At this time, he can only bear the grievances he suffers, after all, it is the road he has chosen, even if there is more unhappiness in his heart, no matter how sad he is by his in-laws, he can only swallow it in his stomach, at this time in this strange city, except for his husband, there is no reliance, so once a girl decides to follow you to your hometown to design the environment in which he originally lived, then it means that she has made a lot of determination, and has made great concessions, giving up a lot of things, no matter what? You must love her well and give her enough support, she has nothing but you.