What do you think of love in the age of fast food?

First of all, I think that in the era of fast love, there will also be real love. No matter what era it is, since there is fast love, there will also be real love. Just like not all love can be called true love.

If you're referring to fast food love, of course. Personally, I don't like it. Because in the college days, there was a lot of fast love.

quickly entered a state of love, and soon broke up. The reason for this is that they hastily choose to enter a relationship when they do not understand each other's temperament and temperament. It ended in a breakup.

I'm not rejecting or absolutely saying that fast love has no good results, but because of its characteristics, there is a high chance of falling in love. After all, two people don't get to know each other and make serious decisions to fall in love. If you want to ask me what kind of relationship I want to choose, I want to choose for myself.

Of course, I still recommend that you go to the relationship with a good understanding of each other, rather than entering a relationship so hastily.

Fast means that it is easy to make mistakes, just like saying that there will be more mistakes, doing too fast, people who are more anxious usually have a greater probability of making mistakes. I think that no matter how people around you fall in love, don't think that it might be right just because most people do it. There should be a scale in your heart to weigh right and wrong.

Falling in love is followed by marriage. If many people think more about falling in love for the sake of falling in love, falling in love in order not to be lonely, and falling in love in order to show off that they are not single, then choose a fast love that they don't like, but is beautiful, or has a good personality, and other reasons, it is difficult to look at the ending of this relationship further. If you want to get married after falling in love, you will consider it more carefully.

Two people are not suitable. To put it bluntly, the choice of fast love is that the irresponsible parties made an irresponsible decision and are not responsible for the result.

Fast food, instant has become one of its advantages. However, in love, will fast food really bring benefits to two people?

Walking into a fast food restaurant, browsing through the menus and quickly making your own choice, a hamburger, a pack of fries, a pack of chicken, a glass of carbonated drink, this seems to be a really good choice, because you don't have time to wait, you feel like you're wasting your time just to eat a meal, it's a loss-making business for you. Just like love, in your opinion, spending time, spending money, and finally just getting an ethereal emotion with no expiration date, maybe a day, a week, a month, a year, all of this is not worth it. So, you choose a quick fast food love.

Existence is reasonable, and of course fast food love certainly has the necessity of its existence. From the moment we are born, if we follow the track of the cycle of life step by step, we will not graduate from college until we are twenty-three years old, and we will have the opportunity to choose our other half independently. When we first stepped into society, we didn't have more time and energy to choose a love, so we opened the fast love and let us spend this lonely day temporarily.

Actually, I think the result of fast love is just the current flash marriage.

We ate the hamburger in our hands and decided to have another one, so we chose to renew the contract, so we chose marriage. But after the second serving, you are tired of it, and of course you can choose to leave at this time. I understand the existence of fast love, which gives us more options and allows us to reach out to more people in a limited time to find out which one is more suitable for us.

So, I understand the mentality of people who choose "fast food", but this does not prevent me from still believing in the love of the world.

It's just a disagreement between you and someone else about love, and you have to know that you will meet another person who believes in the love of the heavens and the earth to spend the rest of your life with you. Love comes suddenly, maybe in the next second, your mind is changed.

Love is not eternal, it doesn't mean that it has changed because of different times, love depends on people, some people just can't keep love for everyone like that, but there are still people who move us with love.

It's really hard to fall in love now.

I don't know when to start three minutes of love more and more, add a WeChat to each other before I have a brief letter I am in a hurry to determine the relationship, I don't understand three minutes have not understood how the other party on the screen has love, is it the spark of love that has been rubbed by the cavity wisdom radio waves? Fast food has become a regular pattern of love in this era.

To be honest, I think the probability of falling in love at first sight is very low, even if the time and place are favorable, if you lack a little understanding and feeling, you can't be tempted. When two people can be together, it feels very important, it is important to talk, and the trajectory of life is very important. And these are things that take time to understand a little bit, not that a meal has been exposed, in fact, there is always a hidden danger for the aftermath of a half-understanding, which has planted a time bomb for love.

I miss the time when I used to be in junior high school and high school, I used a summer to like you, an autumn to pluck up courage, and then choose a special day in the winter, put flowers and candles, and under the encouragement of friends, solemnly say "I like you" to the person I like, and even take away a trace of caution and uncertainty.

I used to think it was cheesy to put flowers and candles, but now I think it's precious. Most people nowadays say they like you, but if you don't agree to them right away, they will like others and even slander you behind your back. It's as if you've never liked you, only dislike.

I don't know what kind of person I will meet in the future, and I hope that he will retain his illusions of love as much as I do. We are not in a hurry to determine the relationship, we are willing to take the time to get to know each other and love seriously.

Fast food love refers to eating fast food, mixing all the spices together, and then soaking it in boiling water, which is fragrant but not delicious. Love is like eating fast food, seeking pleasure, but not loving with heart.

Now they are all "is not rigorous, there are many but not all of the people who eat fast love, and people who pursue fast love have the following psychology;

First: mistaken for love;

For example, seeing the throbbing of the opposite sex who is very good, and being moved by the care of the opposite sex is often considered love. It doesn't take time to confirm if it's love. Hurry to start.

the second: spare tire;

To put it mildly, love is also an evenly matched competition, many people are riding donkeys to find horses, because they need to find a guarantee in the early stage, and then find a better one.

The third type: the growth rate does not match;

In the beginning, the two were evenly matched, and in the current era, there will be a huge difference in the speed of growth, and if one side can't keep up, they will be left behind.

Fourth: fast love is a change of concept;

There is no pursuit of the idea of starting from the beginning, there is no idea of preferring to lack rather than indiscriminate, and there is also a change in the status and concept of women. Today's strong women are financially independent and open-minded. It's easier to separate.

Because people are materialistic nowadays, and they will be more impetuous, so they have little patience.

Because life is fast-paced, everyone has little patience.

I think there will still be true love, because in this era of fast love, everyone chooses the other half with the idea that there is no way out, and many times they meet the most suitable partner for themselves by mistake. Nowadays, many young people rely on blind dates to find their partners, and most campus relationships end in breakups, because there are too many uncertain factors, and they can't see the future in each other. <>

If two people succeed in a blind date, there is not much contradiction and they are particularly quick to enter the marriage hall, the advantage of blind date is that you don't need to understand each other's family conditions and character, and there will naturally be an intermediate matchmaker to help you ask clearly, and you will avoid embarrassing situations for each other. Many people don't like this method, they think that blind date is a way to buy and sell with a clear price, which is a bit unacceptable. But in my opinion, blind dates are a way to quickly help them get out of their singles.

They don't have to go around and around to understand each other's income and parents' attitudes, but they are gradually accepted by most people. <>

After understanding the family conditions of both parties enough, all they have to do is for the two young people to run in and get along with each other, so getting along very well will also allow them to find their true love. So fast love can also help many people get the married life they want. But there are also a lot of disadvantages, which will make them quarrel with each other because they don't understand each other well and have inconsistent views.

Therefore, in order to adapt to the development of this society and the current blind date method that everyone admires, you must confirm the other party's personality and whether it is suitable for you before making a conclusion. <>

Take myself as an example, I quickly decided to get married, because although the process of getting along is not long, both parties are very sincere and use their truest state to get along with each other. So in such a situation, the two have similar interests, so they quickly entered the marriage hall, and now it seems that life is quite happy. So everything is not particularly absolute, as long as everyone has a particularly sincere attitude to interact with each other, I believe that true love can still be found in this era of fast love.

Yes, I have a couple who were high school classmates, and then they were admitted to the same university, and they ended up together, and they served each other's dishes while eating.

I think there is true love, because there are many people who have met it, so you can't give up, you must learn to love, you must have the ability to love others, and you can't close yourself off.

In this era of fast love, there is still true love, but true love is hard to find, and you have to find it slowly.

In modern society, people's feelings are getting cheaper and cheaper, and the shelf life of feelings is very short. People treat feelings more and more casually, and it is difficult to give sincerity and manage a relationship well. I believe that there are not a few such people, either who have suffered losses in their relationships, or who are born prodigal.

There are more and more fast food love in modern society, do you still believe in true love? I don't believe in true love, mainly for the following reasons. First of all, in the relationship, treat each other with sincerity, and what you get will always be betrayal and boredom.

One: Giving sincerity is generally not cherished.

In a relationship, treat each other with sincerity, and what you get will always be betrayal and boredom. People like the new and hate the old, and after two people have been together for a long time, they will only slowly have nothing to say.

Two: More and more people choose fast love.

Fast love is an inevitable trend in society, everyone is usually very busy, there is no time and energy to maintain a relationship, and a person is more free. Those who have been in love for a long time, few of them are as sweet as ever, and what they see is just the appearance.

Three: True love will not appear, people like the new and hate the old.

True love will only exist in TV dramas, true perfect lovers do not exist, and there is no harm without comparison. Therefore, we usually have to watch less romantic idol dramas, accept the cruel reality, and recognize the essence of feelings.

Because age is over there, the best youth is dedicated to a person, breaking up at an embarrassing age, and the family is urging again, in the case of looking pleasing to the eye and the conditions are okay, "fast love" is the best choice.

Fast love is ideal for people nowadays, because everyone is an adult, and it is easy to get together and disperse feelings. If it's suitable, stay together, and leave if it's not.

Because young people nowadays don't have time to fall in love, and they don't have much time to socialize, they can be together if they feel suitable.

Personally, I think that many people choose fast love now because they choose this kind of love at the same time, in fact, it is to make up for the damage suffered by their last love.

These people have been hurt in love and don't want to experience a deep relationship again, so they will irresponsibly choose fast love.

Because they don't have enough patience to make their hearts full, and when they are lonely in their hearts, they will definitely choose fast love.

Because the current work pressure is very tense, and the society is developing very rapidly. People also want to do it at a fast pace.