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Okay, in that city, I'm in Guiyang.

My male is in Guiyang, looking for like-minded people to celebrate the New Year together in 2018.

We can buy groceries and cook together, take a walk together on a sunny afternoon, read a book, or watch the rain and play duckweed in the hazy drizzle, under the oil-paper umbrella, on the bank of the Nanming River. You can also travel together, watch the spring and snow, and watch the grass grow and the warbler fly!

Life is short, add more fun to life, meet strange you, and get to know a different me.

I like mountain climbing, photography, swimming, playing chess, ancient poetry, the character of northerners, the faces of southerners, easy-going, generous, disadvantages: there is obsessive-compulsive disorder, the same thing will move in one place for 10 years!

What about you? Whether they have the same hobbies, or are they completely different.

Perhaps, I came to this city over the mountains just to meet you, in the vast sea of people, your click may achieve a sincere friendship, or give each other an unexpected future!

Take advantage of the sunshine.

Take advantage of the breeze to silence the noise.

Before the flowers bloom, they are in full bloom.

While I am still young, I can still walk a long, long way, and I can still tell a deep, deep longing.

When we meet on strange roads, I hope we will not just pass by, one day we will hold hands and look at each other, have this red dust dream, or do not enter each other's lives, just a pure friendship worth remembering!

I think the Chinese New Year should be with the family, and being with the family means that the family is reunited together, and the family is together to celebrate the New Year. Although the Spring Festival is set on the first day of the first lunar month, the activities of the Spring Festival do not stop at the first day of the first month. From the end of the year, people start to "busy the year":

Sacrificing stoves, sweeping dust, purchasing New Year's goods, pasting New Year's red, washing hair and bathing, putting up lanterns, etc., these activities have a common theme, that is, "saying goodbye to the old and welcoming the new".

All these activities are meaningful when they are carried out together with the family, and the Spring Festival is a joyful and peaceful festival for family reunions, as well as a carnival and eternal spiritual pillar for people to express their yearning for happiness and freedom. The Spring Festival is also a day to worship ancestors and pray for the New Year. Sacrifice is a kind of religious activity, which is a belief activity created by human beings in ancient times to live in harmony with the nature of heaven and earth.

Being together with your family during the Chinese New Year can prepare the things you need for these activities together, which can enhance the relationship of the family on the one hand, and make the festive atmosphere of the New Year more intense on the other hand.

Celebrating the New Year together as a family will make the New Year's flavor more intense, and it will also make missing your relatives no longer have the pain of missing people. The older generation is still more traditional, no matter how far away they are away during the New Year, they should go home to celebrate the New Year with their families, just want the family to be reunited and lively during the New Year. Celebrate the New Year with your family, you can take advantage of the Spring Festival to chat and chat with your family, so that your family can get to know each other better.

The family should cherish the opportunity to reunite together during the New Year, and take advantage of the Spring Festival to go to the homes of relatives and friends who have not seen each other for a long time, so as to increase the opportunities for affection and communication with relatives at home. In fact, during the year, only during the New Year can relatives and friends gather together and enhance each other's feelings, so it is still necessary to be with family during the New Year.

Do we have to spend the Spring Festival with our family? Maybe this question was put three years ago, and the answer was yes, but in recent years, because every time the festival is approaching, the new crown virus will come out to "make up the heat", and many "migrant workers" who go out to work can't go home for the Spring Festival as they wish as in previous years.

Is it really so important to celebrate the Spring Festival with your family?

"Go home for the New Year" is our Chinese's unique "obsession" for the Spring Festival, even if the "epidemic" has raged in recent years, it has not stopped us from going home for the New Year. The tide of the "Spring Festival" is still "turbulent".

I don't know what other people think about going home for the New Year, but I think my heart is the same as the group of people who are obsessed with going home for the New Year. I have to "go home for the New Year" every Spring Festival.

I am an extremely "linked" person, and in my heart in Russia, the Spring Festival has a different meaning from other ordinary festivals.

Last year's epidemic, I was unfortunately isolated and couldn't go home for the New Year, I originally thought it was nothing, but now the communication is developed, and I will send more ** to my family during the New Year, and I can be regarded as meeting my family in **, isn't it the same when I go home? I just met the relatives I wanted to see. Until it really came to the day of the Spring Festival, I was burned inside, watching others reunite with my family, my heart tasted different, and I called ** to my family over and over again, but found that I could not solve the slightest "lovesickness".

My heart was in turmoil, that Spring Festival, I was absent-minded, I couldn't eat, and even I tossed and turned when I slept, as if I had lost my soul.

A few days later, I heard that the bus back to Xiang was open, and I couldn't wait to book a ticket home. As soon as I entered the door, I was like a child who had been greatly wronged, crying bitterly. Regrettably, I missed the Chinese New Year with my family that year.

In the heart of a "family-lover" person, the Spring Festival must be spent with his family, and if he can't be with his family, his heart seems to be missing something. I can't describe the emotion "" clearly. But if you don't let me go home and spend the New Year with my loved ones, it will be torturing me.

If you have money or not, go home for the New Year"! Celebrating the New Year with your family is called the real New Year!

I think it should. The family works hard outside all year round, and finally looks forward to having a reunion dinner together for the Chinese New Year. So you should spend time with your family!

Needless to say, that's how you can be happy?

It's saying how parents want to be reunited.

Coming home is a taste of longing for me. Because there are people I miss there, and there is a warmth that belongs to me forever.

The meaning of going home is to see the people you love and care about. Home is a safe haven for anyone, it can carry your inner anxiety and hesitation, and will dissolve the endless panic in your heart. What about children? I don't have it now, and I don't know.

But I know that the child is the center of the family, and he balances two people who love each other. In other words, he should represent the future of the two people who love each other. Although it is very hard to raise children, we think about it, if our parents felt that we were a burden and would add a burden to the family, why didn't they give up raising us because of hard work.

Raising a child is difficult, it is a big journey, when the child grows up, understands everything in the world, can take on everything, at that moment, you are already old, then you will understand, what is the meaning of the child to you.

Parents are the roots, and hometown is the roots. The roots are there, and even if there are thousands of mountains and rivers, they are also blocking the way for them to find their roots.

Home, the direction in which we will never get lost. Returning to the future, home is the place where we can sleep peacefully.

But now, with the development of society, the pure meaning of going home has gradually blurred. People go home to avoid the pressures of reality; Those who go home with frustration; There are those who are looking for a peace of mind and go home. Socialization has diversified the meaning of going home, and going home has gradually become stereotyped.

Because at that time, everyone was on holiday, and there were too few holidays together!

1. Barbecue. Barbecue is a popular way to get together nowadays. It's just that everyone is barbecing together. The purpose is to add to the atmosphere. At the same time, you can also feel a kind of New Year's atmosphere.

2. Let's watch a movie together.

With the development of our national films. More and more Chinese New Year films with very good appeal are broadcast. During the Chinese New Year, we can watch the New Year film after watching the Spring Festival Gala. In this way, it not only increases the program, but also conforms to the trend of the times.

3. Hold some activities.

Holding an event within the home is relatively difficult. For example, some activities such as mountain climbing and playing ball. It is also an opportunity to relax for those who have been working outside for a long time. At the same time, it also strengthens the unity within the family.

Fourth, make delicious food together.

There is an old saying that "the people live on food". We can make zongzi, dumplings, fried oil horns and so on together. Whether it was in the past or now, we have a lot of food for the New Year, and we are not sloppy.

5. Set off fireworks.

In the past, when we celebrated the New Year, there was no fireworks, which was not called the New Year, and only with fireworks could we reflect the fun of the New Year. So you can buy some fireworks during the Chinese New Year. If it's in the city, don't want it.

Sixth, put **.

The so-called ** is not to put the current popular ** but the old songs of the past, and at the same time to have the current pop **. Through **oldies and pop**, the oldies are not out of touch with the times while creating the atmosphere of the New Year.

7. Prepare a list of New Year's goods, and let children participate in the process of writing a list and buying New Year's goods. Take the child to go shopping and let him choose his favorite clothes as new clothes for the New Year.

Finally, we have always insisted on having Chinese New Year's Eve dinner at home, and we have never gone out to book a restaurant for so many years. The family is at home, busy for a few hours, Heng quietly may only need 1 hour to eat, and after the meal, he has to clean and wash the dishes. However, this process of preparing at home can give a sense of participation and harvest that cannot be felt at a restaurant for Chinese New Year's Eve.

Yes, but once the two of them are determined, they must communicate first.

It depends on the reason.

Although the Chinese New Year is a traditional festival of reunion and festivity, many couples cannot get together during the Chinese New Year. It may be that one party sticks to work, the other party goes home to accompany his parents, or it may be that he goes back to his own home and finds his mother, and the husband and wife are hungry and considerate of each other's last resort Since they have made the decision to separate for the New Year, they must be considerate of each other, do not be resentful, and affect the feelings between husband and wife.

It is also a thorny issue if the couple's place of residence is far from both families. Due to the lack of time for the Spring Festival holiday, coupled with the regional differences in limb and celestial, it takes a lot of time on the road, so you can only choose to go back to one party's family for the New Year. If the husband and wife do not agree on their ideas, then they can only go back to their own homes and find their own mothers.

It has been suggested that it is indeed a good idea to take the elderly of both parties to the couple's home for the New Year, but it is necessary to consider whether the old person's body can adapt to the long journey.

The parents of the couple do not like each other.

The relationship between the in-laws may not be harmonious due to various reasons. For example, feeling that the other party can't be a person, feeling that his daughter has been wronged, feeling that the other party is calculating, etc., these reasons will make the husband and wife caught in the middle, and they are not people inside and out. If you get them all together, it can be a very embarrassing scene, and it is better to go home separately and have a good year.

The marriage is happy, and the life after marriage is full of happiness and sweetness. ......However, after getting married, there will also be some problems, such as the question of whose house to go to for the New Year, which annoys many couples. Some couples choose to go back to their respective homes for the New Year, and I don't think it's appropriate to celebrate the New Year.

The reason why I think this is because the way they go back to their respective homes for the New Year prevents the family from reuniting, is not conducive to the relationship between the husband and wife, and leaves regrets for both parents.

1. The way of returning to their respective homes for the New Year makes it impossible for families to reunite, so it is not appropriate.

One of the most important things in the Chinese New Year is the reunion of relatives. As children after marriage, the husband and wife both go home for the New Year and the family is reunited, which is the happiest thing. ......If both husband and wife go back to their respective homes for the New Year, it will make the family unable to reunite, which is inappropriate for both the in-laws and the mother's family.

Therefore, this way of celebrating the New Year is not an ideal way to celebrate the New Year, and couples should choose a better way to celebrate the New Year.

2. Husbands and wives go back to their respective homes for the New Year, which will have an adverse impact on the relationship between husband and wife.

The most important thing between husband and wife is the relationship between each other. ......For couples, being together during the Chinese New Year can make each other's feelings deeper, and luck is the best state for both husband and wife. ......However, if the husband and wife go back to their respective homes during the Chinese New Year, the separation of the two people from each other will have a detrimental effect on the relationship.

That's why I won't choose this way to celebrate the New Year.

3. Both husband and wife will leave regrets to their parents when they go back to their respective homes for the New Year.

For both parents, it is a loss to see their children start a family, and they will feel very gratified in their hearts. If children and their loved ones can go home together for the Chinese New Year, the elderly will be happier. ......However, if the child comes back by himself during the New Year, the elderly will feel very regretful, and the New Year will also feel unsatisfactory.

Therefore, the way for couples to go back to their respective homes to celebrate the New Year is not an ideal way to celebrate the New Year. Husbands and wives can choose to alternately go back to their parents' homes and in-laws' homes for the New Year, so that both parents can be satisfied, and the family can be happier, happier and happier during the New Year.