How can you forget a girl? I m in too much pain

I remember reading a story about a man who asked a Zen master for advice and said he was in too much pain. The Zen master didn't say anything, he gave him a cup, and the Zen master took the cup and poured water (hot water) into it, and the water was full, overflowing, and scalding him.

Then he put the cup down. The Zen master asked why he put it down: it hurt too much, so he let it go.

The more obsessed you are about forgetting, the more you keep remembering, putting her in your heart, and after a long time, you will forget. Unless it's you who doesn't let yourself go.

The most correct choice is to raise your head and look forward, people do not live in the past, but live in the present and meet the future. Therefore, the present is the most important, and the future is important. Therefore, we must relax about the past, let go, not forget our feelings, but bravely face tomorrow.

The pain can be forgotten, don't let the pain of the past become a permanent pain.

The best way: go to another woman, don't feel awkward, it may be uncomfortable at first, but you will feel happy again after getting into the state.

Looking back on the past, I smiled indifferently, and it was all over.

Pure hand hitting, looking.

Rush to the road, find a car, hit it, it's best to lose memory, you can forget it even if you die, dare.

It's always sad at first. Will always think about everything. But.

The mentality is always a little better. Look a little away. Maybe it's all nonsense.

But. If you don't comfort yourself. No matter how comforted others are, it is useless.

Live life well. It will always pass.

Try to write your process as **, and then you will slowly feel that it is what it is.

Find a new love again... Or wait for time to dilute.

It's always a good way to empathize and don't fall in love.

You haven't really come out of the relationship yet, and after a while you get used to it, which isn't the case when you meet another girl you like.

Use work to numb yourself.

Emotional setbacks are something that a lot of people face or experience, and I've experienced it.

When I was first frustrated, I even had the urge to commit suicide, but I thought that my parents were not dead.

And I also have a trace of fantasy, always thinking that the other party still loves me, and I still have a chance to redeem her. It's all self-comforting. All you have to do is face it, brother.

Time is a good thing, it can dilute everything. Maybe after 20 days or a month, you won't feel bad. Whenever you think about her, you distract yourself by doing something else, chatting with friends, exercising, and not letting her shadow come to mind.

You can also shift the goal of your pursuit and let the new girlfriend fill your wounded heart and start over.

Good luck with your relationship!

Perhaps, you should try to love another person. Divert your attention, or take more care of your family and warm you with the care they give you.

The easiest way is to let him have common memories, if you and a girl don't have common memories, others won't remember you, this is a very simple reason, so you have to create common memories.

And do it continuously, preferably twice a week, so that he feels your presence and he will gradually associate with you.

Then you have to fight and hear what major things will happen to him in the near future. Life and work events, such as recruitment, birthdays, etc., if you find them, ask them with a good gift.

In this way, I will definitely be very moved, and I will pay attention to you next.

If a girl forgets about you, maybe it's because it's been a long time, so you want him to remember you, then you have to evoke memories through some of the things you have done together.

Since the girl has forgotten about you, it proves that he is not very sad about you in his heart, and wants the other party to remember that you can move around in front of the other party more and contact the other party more, so that you can slowly remember you.

I think if a girl forgets you and wants him to remember you, first of all, you should re-engage with her, let him know how good you are, let you know that you are constantly thinking about her, I think if she realizes your affection for him, he will still reconsider.

If a girl forgets you and wants him to remember you, it is unless you often appear in his sight, or if you have something to do, send him a message to talk to him, so that he will be impressed by you and become a humorous and elegant boy, so he will remember you and he will love you.

I think this is decided according to the place where the two of you work, if he is very close to you and works in a city, then since he forgot about you, and you want him to remember you, you have to find him to make an appointment to talk about things in person, and talk about some of the experiences of the two people in the past, which will evoke her memories, and then there is Yi Rong This girl has not forgotten you, because he doesn't want to associate with you, so he said the reason for forgetting you, this matter is nothing more than these two, then this should be decided according to your own observation and judgment, If you want to evoke her memory, then the best way is to contact more, understand more, care more, love and help him more, so that you can evoke her memory.

If the girl forgets you, if you want him to remember, then unless you leave a deep impression on his heart, he can't think of anything.

If this girl has lost her memory due to some trauma, then you have to talk to him to communicate, help him recall the previous events, and want to tell him the good memories of the two of them together.

Send him a message, contact him, or go out of your way to find him, get closer to her, in short, find various reasons to approach him.

A girl forgot about you. How can you get him to remember you, and the best way to make a lasting impression on him? Communicate with her well for a long time, and he will remember.

, said to use sincerity to influence her! Be sure not to hold the principle that men are not bad and women are not loved! Even then she'll remember you very quickly! But it's also quick to forget about you! Be sure to be a gentleman

If he forgets about you, then you just go to him, tell him who you are, reintroduce him, and get to know him again.

This is not the language that will solve the problem.

It is to rely on one's own sincerity to treat each other.

And it needs to be acted.

Love has to be said out loud.

It pays off with hard work.

If you feel that he has forgotten about you, you can post updates from time to time, and he may think of you when he looks at your recent situation.