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Quarrels also depend on whether they are real or fake, and it is said that there are couples who are more and more affectionate the more noisy. The so-called truth is not clear, and the appropriate quarrel shows that everyone still hopes that the other party can accept themselves, which is better than indifference. However, if it is really noisy, and there is no boundary and proportion, it will seriously hurt the other party, such a quarrel is meaningless, you think about it, even if you take advantage of it?

You won the quarrel and relieved your anger, but have you thought about the consequences? Sooner or later, the other party will hold a grudge and make up for it :) Is this day still passing?

It's normal for two people to quarrel! Don't say anything about breaking up or divorce because of a quarrel, everyone is angry, and when your brain is hot, you will say it directly!

Because I care, because of the desire to occupy, it will lead to a quarrel between 2 people!

Some people don't like to argue with people, but sometimes it makes others feel like they don't care!

Some people may quarrel about everything, and this kind of thing is a bit of a no-brainer!

Hehe, this may be the run-in period of the relationship.

Two people have different ideas.

It's definitely going to be a quarrel.

It is advisable to communicate with the other party more.

Try not to hide from each other.

Love should communicate with trust.

Addendum: The first thing about long-distance relationships is trust.

Since he told you everything he did.

Show that he doesn't hide from you.

He trusts you.

He shows everything about himself in front of you.

When I quarreled, I always felt that I was right, and after the quarrel, I hesitated whether I was too much, whether I was wrong or misunderstood her.

You are too cautious, if you trust him very much, why should you eat this senseless dry vinegar, you can't run.

Learn to be considerate and empathetic.

When you quarrel, you also have to look at what you are arguing about and how you are arguing. You can't judge right and wrong, good or bad, all at once. The quarrel proves that two people understand differently.

In this way, we can find a solution together. The next time you encounter this problem, it will be easier to solve. It's also good to be noisy.

However, noise alone did not serve any purpose and did not solve any problems. On the contrary, there will be more inexplicable contradictions. This kind of noise is inappropriate and hurts the feelings of the other party.

Thinking deeply, the two of them don't even quarrel and you say, how can you Momo. Anyway, you can do whatever you like. I'm too lazy to talk, too lazy to communicate.

Isn't this relationship even more terrifying? However, noisy is noisy. This is not a way to make noise very often.

That's it, I always feel like you're not right anywhere. In the end, there are endless questions. This may prove you unsuitable from start to finish.

If we stay together like this, will the road be more difficult in the future? Everything, it is better to analyze specific problems!

Does the feeling of frequent quarrels mean that it is not appropriate? Is a marriage certificate important? If I gave you everything but marriage, would you be willing?

Is a marriage certificate important? You love each other, you are together. It seems that it doesn't matter if you don't have a marriage certificate.

I saw the news from Ekin Cheng and Meng Jiahui. Said he didn't want to get married, but he got married anyway. Because, only marriage can prove that you are husband and wife.

In the future, many things, if it is not a husband and wife relationship, there will be no relevant qualifications. This is also the biggest difference between getting married and not getting married.

If you can, of course it's better to get married. After all, it's excusable to be together. If you want to have children, you must get a marriage certificate.

In China, premarital pregnancy is not allowed. Well, let's talk about love, except for having children. If you really love this person, why not get married?

Since it doesn't matter if you get married or not, what about getting married? If the person I love can give me love, money, fame, status, why can't I get a marriage certificate? Unless, that is, these two people can't be together.

One of them and the other got a marriage license. Your existence is unreasonable and unlawful. To my understanding, there is only this.

Then love should not be together anymore.

For the feelings of frequent quarrels, it does not mean that it is inappropriate. It may be that they have a habitual quarrel between their husband and wife, so they will keep arguing, but the more they quarrel, the better their relationship will be.

Yes, it is normal to quarrel in a relationship, but frequent quarrels indicate that the two people are incompatible with each other, and at the same time they cannot give warmth to both parties, which will only quickly wear down the relationship between the two people, or make the two more aggressive.

That's not appropriate. If two people quarrel frequently, it means that two people have different ideas in many places, and two people cannot unify their thoughts, and such a relationship will be very tiring and will not go far.

It doesn't mean that it's inappropriate, because all feelings will have some contradictions, as long as two people can solve the problem by quarreling.

No, it means that two people do not see one thing from one direction, and two people have their own ideas about the same thing, and they are not willing to compromise.

Hello, I'm Moon Shadow, a psychological counselor, and I'm honored to answer your questions. Quarrels between couples usually make each other uncomfortable for a while. But here is a case-by-case explanation.

In this way, some couples can understand each other better, but there are also many quarrels who ignore each other, or treat this matter as if nothing happened, in fact, this way is not good, your quarrel will continue, the problem has not been solved, and the relationship will be lost after a long time. Ineffective communication between couples will exhaust each other's negative emotional torment, and eventually end in failure. This is the real culprit.

What is your communication model?

Hello, as a psychological counselor and marriage and family counselor, I am a double certificate holder, and a counselor who has been deeply involved in the field of emotional counseling for many years. Glad to talk to you about this issue.

First of all, it is necessary to make it clear that love is for love and preparation for marriage. Therefore, before entering the marriage, the problems exposed during the love cry must be solved, so that the marriage can be happy.

Secondly, love and marriage are united for happiness, and if they are not happy, then why be together?

Third, quarrels do not necessarily hurt feelings, because some couples or couples just rely on quarrels to communicate problems, as long as both of them agree that there is no problem. Isn't there so much bedside quarrel at the end of the bed?

Therefore, couples quarrel to see if they hurt their feelings. If the feelings are hurt, and you can't find a way to solve the problem of quarrels, you still quarrel, then you won't be happy together, and since you won't be happy, you have to break up. Don't bring problems to your marriage.

You can find out, why do you always quarrel? Whether it is because the three views are inconsistent, or simply because of poor communication, you can find the reason, and then find a solution when the reason is found. If there is no way, it hurts feelings. It is advisable to break up.

Appropriate quarrels in love are conducive to the warming of feelings and judge how much the other party loves them. Quarrels are a form of communication, straight without turning. Don't hide it, don't turn a blind eye and go your own way.

There will always be some contradictions, misunderstandings, disagreements, and disputes in love, and the best solution is to adopt effective communication methods and appropriately argue to express their views, ideas, and attitudes. Empathy, listen to each other's voices, look at the problem from the other party's perspective and position, analyze the problem, so as to solve the crux of the quarrel.

Quarrels resolve dissatisfaction, doubts, and speculations in the heart, and help warm up feelings. Discover life, work, and emotional problems in appropriate quarrels, quickly solve problems, release pressure, and eliminate misunderstandings.

Quarrels are conducive to emotional warming, which is reflected in the following aspects:

1. The most effective way to communicate with each other and understand each other. It turns out that the other party is so concerned about his own feelings and doesn't like it. Love is silent and expressed with details and actions.

2. Find the problem. Quarreling is like getting drunk, telling the truth, having no scruples, venting all the dissatisfaction and thoughts in your heart. Through the feedback and evaluation of the other party, you can know your own shortcomings and the true status in the minds of the other party.

The other person's thoughts, perceptions and attitudes. So as to change themselves willingly.

3. Quarrel with a kind of spice for erotic life. Reconciling after the defeat of the quarrel will also make the couple experience the happiness of the rain and the sunshine after the rain, and the nectar after a long drought.

4. Quarrels can judge whether the other party is truly in love. Take into account your feelings and dislikes, and put down your face to apologize.

5. Quarrels make both parties clearly see each other's bottom line and avoid touching these sensitive issues in the future.

6. Quarrel emotions can be completely vented and released, and the mood is relaxed and happy. Avoid the accumulation of disappointment, and let each other's emotions release appropriately so that they do not accumulate and explode to irreconcilable levels.

7. When couples quarrel with each other, they see each other's shortcomings and remind each other. It is not easy to think of the other party's goodness and praise, and the relationship is further after reconciliation.