What to do if your girlfriend is pestering after a breakup

It seems that you should have used all the methods, it's really no way, but it's up to you, if you want to get rid of her very much, just report the case, sue her for harassment, and seriously affect your life and your family's life, I don't know if you will bear it, but I think her brain is already a little abnormal, and since she can't talk about it well, she can only take extreme methods. Another trick is that you find a girlfriend, but this matter is not in a hurry, you must watch it, don't repeat the mistakes of the past, but this estimate will take a long time, not as fast as the first one. Another trick is that you cut off all the ways she might find you, such as moving or something, but I think you must have thought of this method, is it because it is inconvenient and also causes you trouble, so you didn't take it.

Come to think of it, the first one is better, although you may find it more cruel.

The best thing to do is to be silent and avoid all the occasions that can avoid her

Ignore it, or show it more unscrupulously that she couldn't stand you the most when you were with her before

A woman who is carried away by love is stupid, talk to her good friend or family member, help you persuade her, it is useless to make trouble like this, they are still young, and everything can start again. Why hang yourself from a tree.

No matter how you do it.

Always remember: you are a man.

She loves you so much...

Now there are fewer such girls!!

If you don't have the idea of getting back together, you have to be firm in your attitude, don't drag the mud, don't verbally humiliate or physically violent, and don't give the other person the illusion that you will be from it after a while.

What is the psychology of people who are still entangled after a breakup?

The entanglement after a breakup mostly stems from the psychological defense mechanism of the self, in order to temporarily escape the fact of the breakup in exchange for temporary comfort in the heart.

Psychological defense mechanism is a behavior that naturally arises in order to protect our hearts. This kind of behavior can distort one's cognition to a certain extent, allowing oneself to temporarily avoid the harm caused by the real situation.

After a breakup, the constant entanglement is generally due to the following psychological defense mechanisms, each of which has different manifestations and psychological activities.

1. Negative: Don't admit that you have been broken up.

2. Regression: turn back into a child, make jokes, or be wronged to please you.

3. Self-rationalization: I contacted him to find him, not to reconcile, but to be friends.

4. Ritual offset: good morning and good night, punch in and chat.

5. Projection: I love you, so you must love me too.

What should I do if I encounter entanglement?

1. Direct communication that can communicate should let him know that there is no point in doing anything. Don't shy away, don't think that the trouble will disappear automatically after you change the ** move.

2. Collect evidence, find someone who can take charge of her family, and ask them to help you persuade.

If necessary, you should also explain the situation to your family so that they are mentally prepared so that they do not become overwhelmed without knowing it, and you can also get support from your family.

3. If you still can't communicate after communication, then call the police for help. Don't think that calling the police is doing something or pushing things in a worse direction, and don't think that calling the police is a sign of incompetence - it's a shame, and calling the police is the smartest way to protect yourself.

Hope mine can help you!

1.Ignore her, she treats you like a spare tire. When she meets a good one, she'll leave you to dry, and then when she finds you're better, she'll come back to you.

Be sure to stop all emotional releases. If the other person contacts you unilaterally, don't give him any feedback. Silence is the best way to go.

It doesn't make sense to let him know what to do. Tell the other person that after the breakup, don't contact me again, live your own life, and bless the other person. Don't blame yourself for being shameless.

It is also a responsibility for oneself and others. Don't acquiesce to ambiguity. Keep yourself clean and don't have any interaction in your life.

If the other party is desperately entangled, if necessary, collect evidence, tell your family, or ask a friend around you to deal with it.

2.In fact, even if you are an ex-girlfriend, you can't have a relationship with each other. The relationship that should be sorted out, the problems that should be solved, should be solved when you break up, so there will be no such thing as an ex-girlfriend threatening you.

But if you can't control yourself and have some intimacy with your ex-girlfriend when she finds you and pesters you again, it shouldn't be too hard for your ex-girlfriend to blackmail you or lead you by the nose. So remember, be yourself, don't be hot-headed, and don't leave anything to chance. Not everyone likes someone who is entangled with someone else.

Even if they like it, some people will just choose to stay away. Don't let their feelings get too complicated.

3.Don't give him any hope, he'll give up. The former ** who is willing to put down his self-esteem and come back to pester us is often very determined.

I really don't want to lose it because I don't want to do too much and some even ignore it. In the face of such a person, whenever we give him a little hope, he will feel that he has a chance. We still have feelings for him, and we are willing to return to him and get back together with him.

He really doesn't think that we are just soft-hearted, just taking care of old feelings, and just can't bear to treat him badly. And once we make him think he still has hope, in the days that follow, he's really going to start to work harder, launch a harder offensive and feel more confident.

After a breakup, it is actually not advisable to continue to entangle. But sometimes, some people are just not willing, they just want to continue to entangle. This is actually an ordeal for another person.

Many people will be very depressed when they encounter such a thing. And there is no suitable solution, and sometimes it breeds unnecessary trouble. But since the matter exists, it cannot be ignored, and it is still necessary to find a way to solve it.

Reader A Liang has similar troubles right now. Let's take a look at his specifics first.

Hello teacher: My main worry now is: after breaking up with my girlfriend, she continues to pester, what should I do?

Let's start with my specific situation. My girlfriend and I have been in love for 2 years, and when we first got together, we thought it was pretty good. In the past six months, we have often quarreled with each other, and I found that she is a more sensitive person, a woman who wants to control others.

I don't like such a woman, she sometimes doesn't know how to tolerate and understand me. Always very grumpy, and as soon as I got angry, she immediately admitted her mistakes. It made me laugh and cry.

Actually, I don't know what to do with her. But I also feel very annoyed with her like this.

Therefore, in the end, I decisively chose to break up. I don't want to get entangled with a woman like that. To be honest, I still have some feelings for her in my heart, but I don't have such deep feelings.

She always said that she loved me very much, but everything she did seemed to me to be selfish. She actually just wants to feel like "having me". She may also really love me, but we don't fit together. It's her business that she loves me, and I don't love her that much.

If you break up with your lover, but the other party is still entangled, then in this case, I personally think that you should still communicate and exchange with this woman, be sure to clarify your attitude, don't let the other party have any illusions about this relationship, many times when you choose to break up, but find that you have never been able to achieve this goal, mainly because of your soft-heartedness, or your own ambiguous attitude towards this relationship, Another important reason is that many men obviously want to break up with their women, but they can't be ruthless because of the face factor, which also causes them to be more passive in this relationship.

Introduce her to a better one, and it won't pester you.

Hurt her a few more times, you can't afford to hide!