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Ay!! Every girl has a lot to say.

A lot of ideas, a lot of thinking. Me too.

I'm like you, and often when it's quiet, the air gets cold...

My friends are gone, and it's become lonely to talk...

Hopefully I can talk to you

That day I saw a 12-year-old girl looking for her brother in a place, oh Today's children are only children at home, sometimes they feel very lonely, sometimes, there are things I don't want to tell my parents, and I really don't understand them, I really want to find someone who can speak psychologically, I hope to have love from others, I have a sense of loneliness, I don't mind asking, how old are you.

Because of my own psychological problems, I have been interested in psychology for a long time and have read several professional books on the subject.

It is recommended that you also read some books on this subject, and some newspapers and periodicals are also good, such as the "Youth**" column of "China Youth Daily". This is the most convenient, effective and basically free solution.

If you feel that you have a problem, go for counseling.

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1. Trustworthiness is, of course, the first thing, and the person you confide in needs to be able to keep it confidential for you, and will not spread your pain as a joke with Wu Peiyi.

2. He can provide you with an inclusive environment, no matter what you think, he can accept and understand, which will give you a sense of envy and security, and you can freely express your thoughts, which is conducive to you to re-examine things.

3. Brother Tariff has the ability to provide new perspectives. Freemasonry and mass suicide occur precisely because the chosen confidant is not only incapable of providing a new point of view to the person to whom he is confiding, but instead reinforces the negative point of view. And a person who has the ability to provide a new perspective will inspire the confidant to look at the painful experience from a new perspective, and to grow and transcend it.

Heart Splitting Rational Analysis: You and I are a teacher Keyang who focuses on career planning Through your description, I can see a down-to-earth, trustworthy, and well-liked man. However, he looks very strong, and in fact, he also longs for a trustworthy friend to confide in his emotions.

First of all, this need is quite normal! We all have a need to be understood, to be included. And the question you have now is:

You don't find a person to talk to. We can look at this problem from two sides. The purpose of your confiding is to find an audience to vent your emotions?

Or do you need someone who can give you a reasonable opinion after listening to the problem? If it's the former, as long as the other party is trustworthy and has a tight mouth, this is not difficult to find. In the latter, you have higher requirements for the listener.

Since you have also worked in professional psychological counseling**, you must know that professional counselors generally do not bring their own experience and ethics to talk to you, they will analyze the problem from your perspective through professional skills or empathy. Therefore, when there is no suitable person to talk to, the safest thing to do is to talk to a counselor. Although it costs some money, there is relatively no risk of misbooting.

If the problem is not serious enough to require a counsellor, you can also "talk to yourself", which is probably the most unrestricted and inexpensive solution. The method of self-confiding is called the [emotional ABC] method, which analyzes the irrational beliefs behind the emotions generated by oneself, so as to adjust the beliefs to obtain positive emotions. For specific operation methods, please refer to my [What should I do if I am very unconfident, very weak, and can't balance my mind to gain mental peace?]

With a certain level of practice, you too can become your own "confidant"!! Try it and you'll find out!