Should I save our relationship, I don t give up, I can t let go

In principle, I don't support your question, because when one party proposes to break up, he has no love, and even if he recovers, he can't go back to the beginning.

Love is two-sided, and since he has proposed it, bless him and let him go...

As long as it is not because of a misunderstanding, the end of any love represents rebirth.

To put it mildly, you will always be his sweet burden when you are in love.

If you don't love anymore, you can only remember happiness.

It would be better for a beautiful woman to be a man under her, don't feel the end of the world...

Let go of him, and let go of yourself.

You know? There are not a few four-year years in life, and you have lived happily in the past four years, but you have not stood the test of time.

Believe me, there is nothing worth your humble wait.

Well, it seems that you can't bring your boyfriend the vanity and happiness of love.

Maybe it's your personality problem, you don't take the initiative to get close to your boyfriend, love is mutual, you have to pay each other to blossom and bear fruit, he broke up with you because he didn't feel that there was interaction between you, he couldn't clearly grasp your heart, it felt like he was just paying alone, so he felt very hard to break up with you.

It should still be able to be together, after all, once together, there are always feelings. But you have to try to change yourself, give him a ** if you have nothing to do, go out shopping with him, be spoiled to him, etc., etc., etc! Use your feminine gentleness to influence him, and turn the steel into finger twisting!

In the end, the relationship cannot be forced, and everyone will not feel happy when the relationship comes out of the reluctance, so it is better to learn to let go, and then go to find your own cup of tea.

As much as I should have said nice things to comfort you in order to get points, but I don't want to do that, I just want to say: you can't ... You have to learn to be strong!

Once a man decides to give up, the chances of turning back are almost zero... You have to remember that you just fell out of love, you just didn't fit in with a boy, you didn't lose love, you lost your happiness, you lost everything... How many people in this world know and fall in love every day, and how many people lose a relationship, but we still have to live well, isn't it, without him, no one will love us, no, everything is in yourself, first of all, you have to think about it, look open, really, think about it yourself, I wish you happiness.

You can ask him if he still loves you, if he loves you but broke up because of your unilateral reasons, you can change for him, but he feels that you are tired and hard together, then you don't need to change for him!!

It depends on whether he's willing to give you another chance, and if he's willing, you're going to change yourself, so that's fine.

No need ... What you lack is change, and until you have changed the current situation, it is futile to ask!

In order not to regret it, ask and try again.

Show your heart and don't let him misunderstand that you don't feel like he's in a relationship.

Feelings need to be expressed, if you know each other's minds, and you still have to divide after getting along again, then let it be. Maybe it really doesn't fit.

I said that I would let go of the breakup, even if I could get back together, this time it would become an indelible shadow, and the relationship would become more uneasy and suspicious.

In my opinion, men generally say that they want to break up and save some face for each other. So you don't have to ask him anything, so he will only think that you are very cheap, there is no grass at the end of the world, you are so good, why don't you look for someone who cherishes you,

Just ask! If he insists on dividing it, then divide it! Tired, maybe just a reason for him to break up...

If you can't get along, just divide it, there's no need to dwell on it.

Have you ever thought that maybe this is not a reason to break up, but an excuse.

How to let go of an irretrievable but never let go of a relationship? Give yourself some time to settle down your feelings; If we put all our energy into thinking about why we love but can't, you will fall into a vicious circle, so you need to give yourself some space and time to completely break out of this situation. In fact, many times your obsession is just your unwillingness, so you should understand this relationship from a third-person perspective and look at the separation of two people rationally and objectively.

Give yourself some time to try not to think about these things, plan a trip, meet up with good friends for dinner, make new friends, there are many more meaningful things in this world. Learn to shift your gaze and shift your heart that is indulged in feelings to your career and work.

In love, hard work may not be useful, but work is not, as long as you are willing to pay, you can reap the rewards in your work. Since the relationship is a foregone conclusion, no matter how hard you try, no matter how hard you can't think about it, it will only make the relationship more embarrassing, so you might as well spend your limited energy on something meaningful. There's never anything wrong with being strong in yourself, and once you're busy, your attention will be diverted from your feelings, and you'll go home almost every day and fall asleep or stare at silver, and you won't have time to think about right and wrong.

Love is an experience in life for everyone, when you love someone in your heart, it is a feeling that others can't understand, when a heart falls in love with someone, it is a kind of intoxicating attachment, just like all the beauty of the world's feast, all of which are your own, the sweetness of happiness, words can not describe.

Personally, I think that love is a delicate feeling, when faced with an irretrievable relationship, there will be a heart-rending pain in the heart, such pain only you understand, deep love but can not have, that is the regret in life, love can not be together, if you can't put it down, you can only cherish it deeply in your heart, so that the love of deep love, in another way to keep, is also a kind of possession. Deep love is a kind of medicine, that is, the model is not to have, can not be completely forgotten, the only thing to do is to treasure deeply, this is the best face of irretrievability, in the face of deep love, do not deliberately forget, do not deliberately let go, because the more you force yourself, the more you will let the heart love more and more, deep love is like a root rooted in the heart, no matter how hard you try, you can't forget, you can only leave it to time to judge.

You can choose to keep yourself busy or find time to travel, and when your mood is relaxed, you will gradually let go of this relationship.

You should stop thinking about this relationship, and know for yourself that even if you pay a little more for this relationship, it will not work.

Spend time on yourself, do more things you love, go out and relax with friends more, and don't think about him.

You've all broken up, you still miss him, but does he still doubt you, then you don't know, forget to lift the branches, don't add trouble to yourself, be strong and independent, if the other party still loves you, he will take the initiative to contact you.

Don't neglect the communication between each other, many of the problems between you are due to a lack of communication, which leads to the creation and infinite expansion of emotional problems in the process of recovering your ex. So communication can reduce conflict, and unnecessary conflict. Avoid getting emotional and don't let others think you're an uncommunicative and unreasonable person.

This way, you will not have the opportunity to have a good conversation, first learn to communicate, so that you can solve problems little by little in communication. These are what I learned from my mentor in Zhengzhou Yuanlai**. Ha ha.

It should not be reversed. We have broken up, and if we can't let go, we have to let go, if we can't let go, even if we get back together, we will still break up in the future, we should adjust our state as soon as possible and look forward.

Of course, it shouldn't be reversed. Because people always have to look forward, and they can't always recall the past, so they should let go.

Whether the relationship should be redeemed, the most important thing is to see whether it is worth saving. If both parties have each other in their hearts, then I think you must not be stumped by the so-called face and other issues, and boldly pursue your own happiness. If one party has left, it is no longer worth recovering, and what we have to do at this time is to move forward bravely and pursue a better self.

I personally think that the feelings that can't be let go can be recovered, and if you work hard to redeem it, you may get a good result, or you may eventually lose it, but the loss after your efforts will not be forever cared about and regretted. If you don't try to redeem yourself, you will always remember it and regret it later.

It should not be reversed. Because we should never go back at any time, and we must not eat the grass that looks back. There are a lot of excellent people, so you must look forward.

I think that the feelings that I can't let go of can be tried to be redeemed. If it can be redeemed, it can be regarded as not missing true love, but if it can't be recovered, it is also a relief for yourself.

The feelings that can't be let go should be redeemed, but the premise is that the other party can accept you if it can be redeemed, if you can't accept your situation, it is not necessary.

I think the feelings that can't be let go should be redeemed, my view is that there is only one life, and it will not be repeated, if there are regrets, I will be uneasy for the rest of my life, and I don't have regrets.