I m a very nasty woman, what to do

Your friends are not evaporating from the world, but they really feel good to leave you. You also see the factor of your own personality (personality is very stubborn and sensitive), which makes you less considerate of other people's feelings. "I don't like to talk very much, I don't like to communicate with others", which shows that you want others to adapt to you, as if you are a princess who is high up and ignores others.

You have poor ability to live independently, and you don't like to talk, so change yourself. Care more about others, learn to share with others, chat more when there is nothing to do, communicate ideas to reduce misunderstandings (it seems that you and your classmates have a lot of misunderstandings), respect the people around you, and at the same time have your own opinions, not stubborn. (Assertiveness is rational thinking, stubbornness is emotional impulsiveness).

You don't have anything remarkable, so why should someone else accommodate you? Many people who have good interpersonal relationships are people who think more and do more for others, and everyone is easy to get along with.

If you are separated, there will be less natural connection, and the landlord should not mind too much.

I was very popular when I was in school, but now I don't have any contacts for the summer vacation. So now society is a little colder after all. When you're done, new partners will naturally appear.

When the time comes, go shopping together, talk about men, talk about fashion topics. Just get ready to fit in with the new group.

I'm just like you!

In this utilitarian society, there is no longer a gentleman's friendship as light as water!

Learn to be worldly!

Actually, you don't have to think so, it's not that I forgive your heart, college classmates can't make friends to put it bluntly, and now my most iron-clad classmate is my middle school classmate, and you won't make any good friends in college. I also rarely contact my college classmates now, not because I don't want to, but because I'm very busy, or I think you're very inconspicuous when you're in school, which causes many people to think you're insignificant when they see the ** book, so don't mind.

You said that you are a stubborn person, so listen to other people's opinions and don't be too self-centered.

Graduated from college, don't be so much. Find a job first, get a job, and work hard. Slowly, you will have more friends. Yes.

Then why don't you try to change yourself, they don't contact you, you can take the initiative to contact them, hehe, if you feel too embarrassed to hit **, you might as well send some text messages out, just say that old friends haven't been in touch for a long time, how are you doing recently, someone will contact you, don't worry. It's okay, there are no perfect people, those can only be your own thoughts, it's okay, if you want to open a little, you will feel that you are not what you think.

If it's really like what you said, you have to change your personality from the stream Learn what your friends around you like Don't have to be proficient in it You must interject the words Take the initiative to ask your friends who you feel care more about you to join your current colleagues If you don't have the capital to attract others, only from the stream will people see you, I am the latter, but I have a lot of friends, and it's good for me.

To make a change on your own, you need to meet a few conditions. 1.You do need to make changes, for example, some of the things that he hates about you are really bad for you, and it's worth changing Not everybody is worth changing, I'm me, a different fireworks.

The last thing I want to say is that not everything can be solved, you can't make everyone like you, people who really hate you, then don't care, just be yourself and be happy.

I didn't say anything specific about the situation for you, so I don't have any practical ways to help you solve the problem. I can only tell you a few of my thoughts. In fact, it is also necessary to manage friends to get along.

If you know that your good friend hates you a little, you might as well ask him directly why he hates himself and is that he is not good enough. This proves that you want to redeem this friendship, and you are lowering your posture to tell your friends that you don't want to lose this friendship. It's up to him to get back to you.

If he tells you that he thinks you're not good enough, then you can correct it appropriately. If you don't think it's your problem, you have to be calm with him. Because change is a two-person thing, you can't do a lot for him and he doesn't do anything.

All in all, I think you need to talk peacefully. At an appropriate time and place, two people calmly speak their minds and then come up with a way to solve the problem. This is also the way I get along with my friends.

Cold violence and hot quarrels are not advisable, and both people are angry in the end and the status quo has not changed.

Then you have to know what she hates about you.

For the person she likes, even if she does a bad thing, she thinks it's cute. For people who don't like it, I persuaded her to do something flattering, which will only make her more disgusted.

You should first find out what she hates about you, and then reflect on whether you can correct it or explain it to her, so that you can prescribe the right medicine first.

Friendship is something that can't be rushed, and once there is a crack, it will take a long time to slowly heal and repair.

If a girl hates a girl, you must first find out the reason, why she hates you, and then find out the reason and solve it.

Whatever the case, there must be a reason for hating someone, and it's important to know why they hate you. You can approach her through the people around you to help you inquire. Then you know how to get a good relationship between the two.

A personal suggestion is to find friends you both know to help you. Then you can find out where the problem is, and it's best to know what the other party likes and do what they like.

Do not come forward on your own to avoid deepening the misunderstanding.

You should show this girl the best of you, people like to play with their own good people.

People change hearts, you try to be nice to her, don't think about revenge, she will slowly change her attitude towards you.

Think about it so much, be yourself, don't care so much what others think of you, after all, a person has to look at someone unpleasantly, and no matter what you do afterwards, it will be difficult for her not to hate you.

Pandas can't guarantee that people all over the world like it, and if someone hates you, it can only be said that your two personalities are incompatible, and people don't need to make compromises to cater to each other in order to make others not hate you, just be yourself. Some people like you, some people hate you, some people love you, and some people hate you......That's life.

First of all, it is necessary to understand the reason why the other person hates you; Secondly, after understanding what the other party hates, you have to work hard to change; Third, care and help others in your daily work or study, so that they can change their opinion of you.

What are you doing to please others, live your own life, there are more people who hate you, there are more people who hate her, be cold to her, ignore her, naturally she won't hate you. There is no need to live so tired, making yourself better is the fundamental solution to the problem.

It is recommended that you become friends with her good friends first, so that you can slowly get to know each other through her circle of friends, and eventually make you friends.

Then you have to understand why she doesn't like you first, and after finding the reason, you think you can correct it, then you can correct it, but if it's just that she thinks you're good at everything and hates you, I'll forget it.

You don't have to pander to others and change your excellence in all aspects.

First of all, you have to understand the other person's hobbies, and then slowly try to please the other person, so that the other person will have a good impression of you.

Show her your strengths and advantages, or socialize with her more and have emotions.

Don't try to please her, as long as you don't do anything wrong, it doesn't matter if she hates you or likes you.

First of all, you have to get the girl's like, only if the girl likes you, will she have a good impression of you.

Do what you should do, don't deliberately force others to like it, improve yourself, and resolve conflicts with sincerity and generosity.

Look at the reason why she hates you, solve it fundamentally, and change your own reasons after understanding.

Since people don't like you, why should you rush to make people like you, you don't have to care about what others think, just be happy.

Apologize to him, apologize to him for doing something wrong, and he will definitely forgive you.

Try to be yourself and have a clear conscience. Don't care what other people think.

Scold her, but also help her, and after a long time, she will know that you are good.

There are many reasons why a girl hates another girl, most often out of jealousy. You are prettier than her, better than her financially, better than her academic performance, teachers favor you, you are more attractive to boys than her, you have crossed her boyfriend.

Do you have to please her?

Let's find a job that can be self-reliant. Wait until the economy is stable before talking about chasing the girl you like.

Then you have to see that she hates you**, so you can prescribe the right medicine to change, but people don't have to please others.

You don't need to cater to anyone, just be a sunny, kind and gentle girl! The more you stammer her, the more she bullies you!

You are you, you can't let everyone else like you, there must be people who like you and those who don't like you in life.

You shouldn't care about what others do to you, it's best to be kind and cute, and other people's opinions can't affect you.