I m getting married, and he likes me

Updated on psychology 2024-05-05
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Love is not eternal, and marriage is not a game. You can't get the answer you think of from someone else because whoever gives you that answer is not what you want. You alone can help yourself. I just want to ask you, what do you really want?

    On the one hand, you have someone you love, and you think, can the person you love give you happiness? Are the two of you the most suitable, if you get married, will you be able to face the various trials of life, and will you be able to tolerate each other? In other words, how long do you live in real life if you have love?

    On the other hand, you have people who are willing to marry you. Do you have no feelings for this person at all? Is there anything else without love?

    Are you willing to live with him for the rest of your life other than the "other reasons" he can bring you? If you don't even have that, all I can say is that you're selfish and snobbish. Because you are marrying him for your own material reasons.

    This is hurt and deceitful. The victim includes yourself and him.

    I want you to think through before making this decision. That's the kind of decision that's best for you.

    I remember reading an article that said something to the effect of that. When you get married, the person you marry may not be the one who loves you the most, or the person you love the most. You can't be the one he loves the most, but you are the most suitable.

    Because you are suitable, you will get along with each other and grow old. Because you are suitable, you will tolerate and trust each other. I think marriage is sacred, love is holy, and they shouldn't be imposed so much snobbery and selfishness!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You don't regret any choice you made, because regret means denying you who you were at the beginning, that is, denying yourself.

    Since your choice now is for yourself, there is no regret at all. Go the path of your own choosing. Enjoy your own life.

    It's not your fault that you've hurt someone. It's just that they fell in love with you and didn't see you clearly.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You're skeptical about getting married.

    Is there still a knot in this marriage?

    It's better to think about it a little more.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can go abroad to chase him, but this matter is risky, because if he changes his mind, you will not have the face to meet your fiancé, if you are afraid that he will change his mind, and you don't want to see him with other women, you will get married.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Decide for yourself! It takes courage! The other half is the one who just happened to show up sooner rather than later.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Some people get married for money or fame, they may have hardships, before I had a friend who wanted her family to live a good life, to marry someone more than 20 years older than him to see how you choose, if I still choose the one I love the most, whether it is to myself or the one who is about to marry you, I hope you are happy

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you want to go abroad, you can get married, people are so jb reality, but there is a day when you regret it, no matter what, you will regret it, no matter which one you choose!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can't have it both ways.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In fact, you just need to think about how long you can be with him. Or maybe you're really in love, can you break your family and be with him?

    To put it bluntly, you have to think about the consequences of what you do and whether you can bear the consequences.

    But I would like to advise you, from my personal experience of having experienced such things, that it is better to keep this secret, otherwise you will lose too much......

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I've also experienced it, that kind of really painful, instead of telling him, it's better to bury it in my heart, silently take it away with the wind, and watch each other be happy, isn't it also happy? It can also be your best blue face.

    If you really like him, I hope he is happy and happy, and don't embarrass and trouble him because of your confession, otherwise, you will lose a lot of precious things.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't make trouble for others, you can't give her a name, it will only add to the trouble.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Since you like him, you boldly say to him, "I like you!" "

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Dismiss this thought as soon as possible, you are no longer qualified.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Summary. Bright love, you can wait for the other party to divorce together, and secret love silently likes each other.

    I liked him, he liked me, I didn't know he was married at first.

    Good morning, dear, so are you hurt now, or do you feel that the other party has cheated on you?

    For this situation, personal advice, either secret love, or open love, many things seem to have a solution, but in fact there is basically none.

    Bright love, you can wait for the other party to divorce together, and secret love silently likes each other.

    What do you think? We can't be together anymore, if we are together it will only hurt, other people, I know he wanted to confess last night, but I sneaked away, he should have been very angry and disappointed last night, and he didn't reply to the messages he to.

    In that case, my dear, let's cut through the mess quickly.

    If the other party ignores you, ignore it, cut off this encounter, maybe it's better for both of you.

    I don't want to be a junior, I don't want this kind of improper relationship, why is he still like this when he gets married, and he is our store manager, we work together, I guess it's sad every day.

    Dear <>

    <> some people are like that.

    We can't understand it, but it doesn't get in the way of their thoughts.

    Am I still going to leave my job? <>

    Hey, my dear, let's see if there's a chance to transfer to the rest of the store.

    Maybe you don't have to leave your job directly.

    My dear, I don't understand your store manager's behavior, he, as a man, is so blatant.

    Therefore, if you have the opportunity to transfer to other stores, you will try to transfer, and if not, then you should consider leaving.

    It's too embarrassing to look down and not see what you see.

    <>It would be nice if he didn't get married, and the days would be more and more sad in the future, I really like him, but I don't want to hurt another person, I'm going to leave my job.

    Hey, dear, it's really hard.

    It's rare that you like each other, and it's hard for him to get married, this fate is really annoying.

    Leave your job, my dear, and in the future you will meet someone you like more, and you will meet the lucky one again.

    It's a little episode, so forget it.

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