and divorced men with children

I personally feel that the first is to look at your friend's feelings for you, if the feelings are not that good, I feel that you still have to think clearly, because the man's moral character is not good, then it will not be very good in the future, the second is to see how his child treats you, because the child you are good to him, he does not necessarily feel that you are good to him, because you are not his biological mother, if he feels that you drove his mother away, then don't think about it in the future, the third is how his mother treats you, if it is not good, I personally feel that it is okay, It's sad later.

If you are marrying this man just because of the house, then I advise you to forget it.

You have several legal misconceptions.

If you want him to buy a house before marriage, then I tell you that the house he bought before marriage is registered in the name of one party and belongs to personal property, and when you divorce, you can only get a share of the loan repayment, even if it is bought after marriage, and you mentioned earlier that you want his parents to give money, then I tell you that this share is a personal gift to him according to Interpretation III of the Marriage Law. You don't have the right to share.

So, if you don't have the ability to do it yourself and just want to get yourself a house through marriage, then I suggest you don't do it.

Also, this man's family is patriarchal, and the fact that he can't give birth to a son is completely detained on the woman, and people with a little biological common sense know that the woman only has an X chromosome, and the chromosome that determines the sex of the fetus, X'Y is all on the man, so the reason why he can't give birth to a son is also on him.

Why don't you give birth to a girl, which means that you don't take the responsibility of raising it? It can be seen that their legal awareness is weak.

And if you want to keep a house for your children, don't use this way, if you don't have the right to dispose of the property at all, how can you keep a house for your children.

Therefore, I suggest that you correct your view of marriage before deciding whether you should get married or not.

Or think carefully, if the child is very small, you can also consider, the child will be very troublesome in the future, the child is not with you, after all, it is not his own, if he (she) says something to his father behind his back, there will definitely be conflicts between your husband and wife.

Consider your own personality first, is it suitable to be a stepmother to your child? Then consider knowing the character of this man.

Love whoever you want. If you love, you love.

As long as the man's personality is not bad and he cares about his family, then being a stepmother is also a good choice; If the man has a bad personality and is rich, don't approach this kind of man. The most important thing in marriage is to look at the feelings of both parties and the personalities of both parties, not all men with children in second marriage are not good, but it does not mean that it is necessarily good.

Before you want to marry a divorced man with children, the most basic thing is to determine whether the man chooses to marry because of his feelings for himself and his character, after all, a marriage without feelings and a man with a bad personality will only hurt him; If you really have a good personality and true love, being a stepmother is actually not too much of a problem, but it will make you feel that you have grown a lot in this marriage. In the world, there are many choices for women, and before marrying a divorced man with children, you must ask yourself: Do I know him?

Men with children after divorce, the most important thing in their eyes is naturally the child, the purpose of such a man's remarriage is not simple, like you on the one hand, and want to find a person to take care of the child is also on the other, marrying such a man, because of the child in the future, there will definitely be some contradictions. It's not that this kind of man can't get married, but he must think carefully about remarrying.

One is a close relative, and the other is a remarried wife who is not related by blood, and when there is a conflict between the two, the man will naturally choose to stand on the side of the former. Don't try to make a man who has children after a divorce see you as more important than his children, such delusions will only hurt you more. A divorced man with children, even if he likes you in his heart, he will not put you in the first place, people are selfish, there is still a big difference between having blood and not having blood, even if he makes more efforts, men will still put their children first.

For men with children after divorce, women have to consider not only whether the man loves you, but also whether the children can accept you. A divorced man with children will always feel indebted to his children, and it is precisely because of this debt that he will desperately want to make up for it, so the balance in his heart will naturally be biased towards the child's side, and the woman will feel aggrieved because of this.

If you really love each other, then you can overcome all difficulties and always be together well without divorce.

Such marriages will not last. Since you are divorced and still have children, why you are divorced is a very important reason, and in the future, your restructured family will have new children, there will be problems, and you will love your children more.

Such a marriage is likely to be long-lasting. Because everyone has the opportunity to pursue love, such a man also has the possibility of sadness.