Girlfriend is angry now! How not in the beginning She still loves me, I promise.

Hehe, I'm a bit like your girlfriend, and my boyfriend said the same thing some time ago, saying that I'm always angry. Now that it's better, you can try to tell him that you love her very much and don't want her to be angry, because you will be happy when she is happy. And being angry will bring invisible trauma to the relationship, and if you are angry, both parties will feel tired.

Let's just say that you don't want to lose this relationship, if there is something to be done, both parties can say it and then take a solution, don't run away and get angry. If you talk to her calmly like this, I believe it will get better. Girls are really like this sometimes, the more they care, the more they want him to hurt themselves, and play a little temper to prove that the other party loves them very much, but most girls ignore that boys will be tired, and they may give up when they are tired.

Be sincere and sincere.

It depends on what it is, if it's on you, it's a sign that she loves you, and she's spoiling you, and that's what most girls do with their loved ones, or you don't know her yet.

Angry means that it is very hobby, the deeper the love, the more difficult it is to coax, and if you are awkward and not angry, you will soon be separated.

It's the same for girls, you have to learn to coax people.

Hello subject!

Understand your troubles.

Would like to share it with you.

1. Learn to see your own heart and learn to give love, not hurt.

Your anger towards your girlfriend may, to some extent, be your dissatisfaction with yourself.

You run away, but in your heart you may think it's not good, so you have such emotions.

You don't want to go to work, but you may not approve of it yourself.

Slowly find your true thoughts and try to align your actions with your thoughts as much as possible, so that there will be fewer conflicts in our hearts.

2. Learn to grow yourself.

Your upbringing caused you to be depressed. It's really not easy for you all these years.

At the same time, you are lucky to meet a girlfriend who loves you and tolerates you.

This is a rare opportunity to heal yourself.

Because you deserve to be loved.

But when you don't recognize yourself enough and don't love yourself enough in your heart, the love of others may still not give you enough strength to grow.

None of us can change the past experiences, but we can grow up and get to know each other anew.

Focus on how to face the reality of life.

Strive to no longer run away from difficulties.

And this requires us to grow ourselves.

Because life is yours.

No matter how much your girlfriend loves you, if you don't have an affirmation of yourself in your heart, there may still be conflicts.

You seem to be hurting your girlfriend, and in a sense, you are hurting yourself and hurting your intimate relationship.

A better way to do this is to repair our wounded hearts and understand that the love we need is actually in us, to understand that we are born with all the good qualities.

So learn to grow yourself and learn to take responsibility for yourself.

I recommend you two books, "The Courage to Be Hated" and "The Family of Origin", hoping that you can slowly recover your energy.

Each of us is self-sufficient and good enough, but we often forget about ourselves, so that we doubt ourselves and feel that we have no strength.

Bless you! The world and I love you!

Many men have a question, why their girlfriends always love to get angry, and they don't do anything to make her angry, so they get angry unconsciously. Today, I will take a look at why my girlfriends are angry for no reason.

First,Many girls in love are not confident, Is the figure out of shape?** It doesn't seem to be as good as others, maybe it's because I care about my boyfriend, so I care about my appearance.

Second, when in loveWhen there is a dispute, the tolerance of men and women is also different, women are more vulnerable and act more angry.

Third,Men and women have different roles in love. Men play the active side, and the more eager they are in pursuit, the more nervous and restless they become, and the more gentle they appear to be than usual. In love, women will consciously or unconsciously set up some obstacles for their boyfriends to see if they can tolerate themselves, or simply test them with a temper.

Fourth,Society has different requirements for acceptance of men and women, Boys should be calm and generous, generous, and measured. Girls don't have so many requirements, and they can accept any character.

It's normal for a girl to be angry, but you still have to coax her, otherwise she will think a lot, she will think that you don't care about her anymore, and you won't coax her when you're angry, no matter who is right or wrong, the boy's father-in-law and girlfriend are nothing.

Girls need to be coaxed, sometimes it's normal to have a little temper, as a boy is generous, it will be better to coax.

Girlfriend loves to be angry, in the past, you coaxed him, this time he got angry again, you didn't coax him, I believe he will be sad and sad, he will think that you don't love him anymore, so he will coax him.

Girlfriend loves to be angry, you had to coax her in the past, but this time you didn't coax her, the other party should be even more angry, you should coax her, I wish you all a happy life.

Divide things, some things boys can turn a blind eye, some can't, you have to let the other party know, not anything angry to coax you. But many times girls need a step, and at this time, I still hope that the boy will coax it more.

Girls love to be angry, I coax her, this time I'm angry again, I didn't coax, it should be fine, right? I think if you go and coax, after a long time, well, aren't you tired?

There will definitely be something.,Girls are going to be coaxed.,It's good for girls to coax, if you don't coax him, something big will definitely happen.,As a boy, you must protect your girlfriend well.,Don't make him angry.,Go and coax your object.。

Most girls like to be angry, so that the little surname, love to cry and make trouble, men will coax it, as a man, they will be high-spirited, generous, and your girlfriend is angry, you don't coax anyone, do you let others coax? If it's really someone else's coaxing, then what's your share? The people of the knowledge festival are smart people.

She loves to be angry, if you don't coax, she will be even more angry, she will be cranky, a woman's heart, a needle under the sea, the more angry she is, the more she wants you to coax, she thinks that if you coax me a few more times, I won't be angry, who knows that men don't have that patience, when a woman is angry, she says angry words, and she really can't do it.

She is used to you coaxing him, if you don't coax him this time, I'm afraid it won't be reconciled for a while, and if something happens, it depends on whether your relationship is unbreakable and whether you can control the overall situation.

Don't be so entangled, if you like her, you must coax her, don't try your luck, don't regret it after you lose.

In fact, the girl doesn't want you to spend much effort to make her happy, she just wants you to accompany her. Don't go through a lot of trouble to coax, silently accompany her, even if she asks you to go away. It's okay to talk to her, don't have a cold war, or say that if she doesn't look for you, you won't look for her, which will slowly wear out the liking in your heart.

You can't coax every time, you must learn to be anti-customer-oriented, for example, if she says your fault, you have to say that she is wrong.

You may love her more, the person you love is always willing to give everything, and the person who doesn't love always doesn't feel the good of the other party.

It's hard to say, a woman's temper can't be fathomed.

I used to coax it, but this time I won't coax it, there must be something! She will wonder if you don't love her anymore, if you have someone else, if you are tired of her.

Psychoanalysis: Hello, from your description, you can see that your family of origin environment is not so happy, you were not well nurtured when you were young, especially your father is not only physically violent but also emotionally indifferent to you. These all have a huge impact on your mental state and behavior patterns.

Luckily, you have now met a girlfriend who in your description is very good, very capable, very accommodating to you and listens to you for everything. It stands to reason that you should cherish such a girlfriend, but you can't control your temper with her and hurt her.

It is likely that there is something to do with your emotional feelings towards your mother.

In your description, you only mention the divorce of your parents, you mention the condition of your father, but you don't mention your mother at all. I don't know if you have seen your mother after your parents divorced? In the depths of your heart, what kind of emotion does hail believe for your mother?

Your current girlfriend seems to be more of an "ideal mother" character, she loves you very much, never wants to abandon you, is very capable, provides you with material life guarantees, and is very tolerant of you. You project your feelings for your mother onto your girlfriend, but at the same time, your parents are divorced, and it may be your mother who "abandoned" you.

Then there is anger, powerlessness and sadness in your heart for this "abandonment", and you can't express it to your mother, so your girlfriend becomes the person who takes on these feelings.

You lose your temper with her, as if you are saying to your mother, "I hate you for abandoning me back then, ignoring me, and letting my father beat me all the time".

If you don't go out to work, it's like saying to your mother, it's because of you that I've become ...... like this

However, you yourself are also vaguely aware that if this goes on like this, it will not be good for the relationship between you and your girlfriend, and you may both feel pain.

Then it is necessary to make some changes, and I would recommend that you seek the help of professional psychological counseling to heal your childhood trauma, overcome the pain, and grow yourself. At the same time, take back the part of your girlfriend that is the part of the mother's projection and see the real girlfriend herself, so that you can have a real relationship between the sexes. Blessing!