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Anonymous users2024-02-08It is difficult to be a man who has never been poor, and he has not been naïve without being attacked. Young people go through this period called the mushroom principle. Just do your own thing.
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Anonymous users2024-02-0720 is really too young for you. Haven't experienced much yet.
But social experience comes out of society.
Don't be too anxious, you're only 20 years old, after all.
After all, you're an adult, too. Although it is still young, it already has the right to pursue happiness.
And work. It's actually good that you work in a state-owned enterprise. How many people have made progress in the future?
It's not that what you've learned at work now is useless. Not necessarily.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06The idea of your parents is to let you have an iron job bowl, if you look for a job by yourself, your parents are still worried that you will not find a stable and long-term job, and the elders think like this, conservative but for your own good.
20-year-old you just graduated, just entered the society are want to work hard to climb up, learn new things, pursue their own life, if you have a detailed and careful long-term plan, and you have enough ability to fight, you can talk to your parents, after all, parents do not want their children to be depressed every day, although they may not agree with it in their hearts but will support your idea in the end. However, you should tell your parents about your plans and ideas, and don't be impatient and impatient.
The idea you have of a pretty girl is not pathological, it's just a little inferior.
It's like many soap operas say, what poor girl is not worthy of a rich son, and a maid is in love with a young master.
It's just that you think too badly of yourself, maybe that girl doesn't think she is unattainable.
We must strive to be confident, and connotation and sincerity are more important than appearance.
Girls may be impressed by your sincerity.
I still want to tell you some advice, make a plan for your future, don't be blind, learn more knowledge, enrich yourself from the heart and strengthen yourself, really like yourself, everyone has something worthy of others' liking, to see their own advantages, magnify them, correct their shortcomings, shape temperament, connotation and cultivation, work hard, realize their dreams and have a successful career, you may be a high branch that others want to climb in the future. Come on!
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Anonymous users2024-02-051. Do what is in front of you.
If you don't have a clear goal in life for the time being, then doing the job at hand well is the most important thing for graduates to know. Do not seek nothingness on the one hand.
The ethereal goal of life, while making a mess of one's work, will only lead to a waste of water in the end.
If you do the job at hand, you may find a sense of accomplishment in the process of overcoming difficult problems, so as to find the direction you want to pursue in life. Withdraw.
In 10,000 steps, working well will at least keep you from thinking too much and will ensure your survival.
2. Make a life plan.
It's good to keep your head down at work, but outside of working hours, you really need to think about what you want to pursue. You can synthesize your love.
Good, strengths and realities, think about what path you should choose to walk your life. Put all of these ideas on paper.
or make a list of documents on your computer, so that you can see your thoughts more intuitively.
3. Find a role model.
The power of role models is enormous, and the success of many successful people has a lot to do with their pursuit of role models. When your heart.
After you have a role model, you will want to learn from him and get closer, so in the process of chasing the role model, you will gradually become excellent. In addition, the career of a role model may also have a great enlightening effect on your life plan. And when you're losing momentum, role models.
It can also stimulate the motivation in your heart and help you move forward better.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04Just after graduating and looking for a job, you will be a little confused, at this time you need to adjust your mentality appropriately, clarify your ideals, combine with reality, and make a plan. Follow the plan and keep trying, you will definitely find the right job.
First, first of all, you should adjust your mentality, let yourself calm down, you can listen to your favorite songs, talk to teachers or family members, and don't put too much pressure on yourself. Believe in yourself and you will have a great future.
Second, you should combine your ideals and reality and clarify a goal. It can be a graduate school entrance examination, a clear industry, or a clear position, in short, you have to be clear about where you want to start to enter your future time. This is the first step to breaking the confusion.
3. If it is a postgraduate examination, you should pay attention to the application process, clarify the position, and then start preparing for the exam. If you are looking for a job, you should screen out some companies according to your own requirements, screen some departments according to the company, and then submit your resume to the interview, and make a two-way choice in each interview to choose your favorite job.
Everyone has just graduated and entered the society, more or less confused, but when confused, we must also learn to move forward slowly, even if the road ahead is very bumpy, as long as we persist and be optimistic, we will definitely find the path that suits you.
Friends, don't be too confused, how to go on your own path mainly depends on yourself, I don't know what you graduated, but I can tell you, you now calm down and think about what kind of life you want to live in the future, how to achieve the life you want to live, and then slowly work hard, set a goal for yourself, run towards the goal to achieve it, do things with perseverance, perseverance, don't hesitate, work hard! Friends wish you success.
In your own social security account, it will be renewed by the new employer after changing jobs.
Pro, you need to change your attitude towards life, you need to be optimistic, others scold you, you have to get the reason for being scolded, so as to improve yourself, the reason for the low state of mind that causes you to be under great psychological pressure now, who has not been scolded in society, others scold you, there must be a reason, life is like this, if you feel that you are inferior, you will naturally not be self-motivated, everything must know how to be content, this time to be scolded, next time to be praised, it is a kind of progress. Death and survival are just a thin line, and the choice is up to you.
Workplace etiquette is very concerned about people who are new to the workplace, in fact, workplace etiquette is an important "tool" for whether their work can be carried out smoothly. China's history is broad and profound, and the culture has a long history, resulting in a lot of attention in China's workplace, for example, before entering the superior office to the front door (knock three or two, you can learn through observation), go to a department with a separate office to knock on the door, a group of colleagues and colleagues to enter the elevator to be polite, when out of the elevator hand to the elevator door, let colleagues go out first (especially female colleagues), meet a few minutes in advance of the meeting, meet colleagues to say hello, when off work to their superiors and colleagues to say hello. These etiquettes are simple, but they will become the weight of colleagues and superiors to judge whether you are "sensible".
Don't give birth, you are wrong once, don't let the next generation bear your mistakes, as the friend above said, if he is responsible, there will be no such result, at least after the divorce to let you get pregnant. The birth of a child is a lifelong responsibility.