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If you really love your girlfriend, then change for her and give her the best if you love her. Each of us is not born perfect, but we are human beings and always have our own way of life and habits. Because we have lived in a different environment since childhood, when we find the other half, there will be some small sparks when two people collide, which brings a lot of trouble to our lives.

At this time, you have to think about your own problems first, because living a life is not about accommodating and avoiding, but about blending together. If you are silent when you encounter things, and you have to accept it, then you are not far from breaking up, and one day there will be a fuse that will ignite you. You have your own way of life, but for the sake of your girlfriend, you can also integrate her lifestyle into your life, so that the two of you will have a good life.

If you truly love each other and are willing to give to each other, you can also try to convince your girlfriend to re-make a plan between her habits and yours, and there will be no problem for everyone to comply with each other. If your girlfriend loves you, and what you say makes sense, I believe that every girl in love will abide by it, because she also loves you, and she must also make some small sacrifices for you, so that it can be considered perfect.

On the contrary, if your girlfriend doesn't love you and she doesn't accept the questions you ask, then she just wants to find a random spiritual partner to spend time, and it won't last long to live together in the future. A word of advice, break up as soon as possible, what's the point of living with someone who doesn't love you? Because the purpose of a couple's cohabitation is to lay the foundation for marriage, and if the foundation is not solid, no matter how hard you work in the future, there will be flaws.

The personalities of boys and girls are inherently different, and they are attracted to each other because of some differences, so they should be faced with a tolerant heart.

Girls are more nuanced, and there are things that they think are important and you don't think they need to.

Take me and my boyfriend for example, every time I change seasons, I want to change clothes, so I ask him the size of his shoes, what clothes he wants, all kinds of words, but he feels very annoying, he feels bored, he has a dress is enough, why buy it?

Because of the size of the foot, I can quarrel with each other, he thinks I'm annoying, I don't think he pays attention to these things at all, what if it doesn't fit him.

This is the fact that the two people's different concepts have caused such a big consequence, in fact, it is completely unnecessary to think about it later. I'm here to dress appropriately, and he's not going to bother me.

When encountering these things, two people have to understand each other, you have to understand your girlfriend, your differences must exist, it is not easy for two people to be together, just understand each other.

When you encounter something you are not used to, often ask why, which can effectively avoid two people not knowing, obviously for the good of the other party but two people because they do not understand each other, you feel wronged, he feels that he is still wronged. This won't solve the problem at all, and it will also kill the affection of two people for each other.

If you are not together on that day, you may feel that you have no motivation to struggle, and your habits do not match, even if you are a husband and wife, how can you get along well if you are just a couple? I believe that you will be very happy after the tempering.

People say that those who fall in love without the purpose of marriage are hooligans. It's true that you and your girlfriend are already living together, so you must have thought it out and decided to be together, and it doesn't matter if your living habits are too different. The relationship between two people needs to be slowly combined.

We can't be too willful, or we will lose too much to cherish. Why do people say that two people will have husband and wife after being together for a long time?

It's not that the two of them look alike, but that two people will have one or more habits that are the same after they have been together for a long time, whether it is the way they speak or behave. <>

Living together is the first step for you and your girlfriend to take a better marriage, in fact, have you ever thought that your living habits are different now, it's actually very good, it's because it's different, so there will be more things you need to do, just like when two couples first started together, you may have seen a lot of things in common with each other, or he or she has something that attracts you, but after falling in love together, it will come to the second stage of love, That is, you will find that there is a big difference between what you see and feel in each other. You discover each other's shortcomings, and you start to have emotional discord, start arguing, and start a cold war.

But what about after this period? You start to get used to each other's presence, and if you message him and she doesn't reply to you, you'll notice that something is missing. Because you start to rely on each other, living together is like you start living together like you start falling in love, at first because of the novelty, and slowly you will find that each other's habits are too different, but it doesn't matter!

Take it slowly, you will find that you complement each other, and you will also find that there are many things in her that you don't know!

This is normal! It's like when you first go to college and live in a dormitory! Your own living habits are different from the others, and you need to understand and tolerate each other at this time!

After living together, my girlfriend doesn't do housework, her living habits are not good, and she gets tired of seeing each other, what should I do? Many couples will choose to live together after the relationship is stable, but after living together, a lot of shortcomings will be exposed, and at this time, one party will feel inappropriate and don't know what to do, in fact, as long as the following points are done.

1.Find your right character, you're not mom. Do you think that meticulous care, cooking good dishes, doing laundry and doing household chores will improve his well-being? You are too young and naïve. If you do this at first, the guy will think you're a good girl.

If all this becomes a habit for you, unless you create a "surprise" for him every day, he will not appreciate your efforts and will even feel that the sound of your washing dishes annoys him. You are so beautiful and kind that you should learn that you cook occasionally, or deliberately erect and show off your green cooking skills, or you divide up and work together, one-three-five you, two-four-six, and go out for a good meal on the weekend. You don't have to do this and devote all your time to taking care of him, because it's easy to get and usually not cherished.

Sometimes you don't do anything for a year and just knit a scarf for a man, and then that makes him a baby.

2.You don't always tidy up the room. If you always clean the room, you will most likely find something "shady" that will embarrass you and him.

There's also the possibility that if you pick up something you think is useless and throw it away, it could cause him to lose his temper with you because you don't know that a useless old jersey, broken ball skin, mud, tree bark, etc., may be the only thing he thinks about an important experience in a cracked state. You are so beautiful and kind, you should learn that after a while, the room will naturally form "a place belongs to him, and a place belongs to you". If you like to be clean, you can pick up the part that belongs to you, and as for his part, it is almost the same on the surface.

Also, don't think he's sloppy. When he's looking for something, he knows it's in **, and after you clean it up, he can't find it, and then you don't remember.

3.Don't always stick to him, leave some room appropriately. Don't think it's hard for you to be together.

You can stay with him for 24 hours. After a long time, the people who love you can't breathe. Give him some space.

For example, if he wants to play a game, you can give him some time to play it every day. During this time, you can catch up on your favorite plays. The more you oppose his game, the more "rebellious" he becomes.

On the contrary, if you let him play, he will get tired for a long time. You are so beautiful and kind that you should learn to pay special attention. For example, when he is focused, a man ticket may take his job home "overtime".

You think he's tired. You give him oranges and hot milk. At this point, he can't get your attention.

On the contrary, he will find you annoying! Your best thing to do is not to disturb him. When the men's ticket runs out, ask him:

Are you tired? What should I give you next? "In fact, there is not a bowl of instant noodles.

That's it. He would be very grateful.

Personally, I think that if you encounter such a situation, then you should think more from the other person's point of view and learn to understand the other party.

Two people should have a good talk, point out each other's shortcomings, accept each other humbly, and correct them, and maybe there is a possibility to continue.

Then you can only break up, which means that it is not suitable for the two of you to be together, and you will not be able to live together after marriage.

Hello, I'm glad to return to your question, you said that you are not used to living with your girlfriend, what should I do?

Actually, in a sense, it can also be called a trial marriage, because after all, two people with different personalities, different families, and different environmental backgrounds who grew up must have stumbles when they live together.

If you're not used to it, don't be together first, or don't do anything else together, and when you get used to it, you'll be together again, so that you won't be embarrassed.

It's normal to not get used to it at first, but after a long time, it's good to get used to nature slowly.

You will feel that if you are not used to such things, it means that your heart is uncomfortable with her, and you can't force yourself to get used to such things, that is, you should think about it more clearly.

There will always be something you don't like, run in slowly and take a look, if not, you have to think carefully.

What should I do if I'm not used to living with my girlfriend? If you're not used to it, then let me help your girlfriend live together. I'd love to help you with this.

Why not get used to it, let it go.

Then don't live together.

You have a problem, why don't you get used to it?

I think it's normal to have different choices about many details of life between men and women, and to have different choices in many details of life.

After two people are together, they will definitely need to constantly run in the habits of life, and I think there is no such example when two people find that two people have exactly the same habits from the beginning of their lives.

I think it's just that you still have doubts about how two people get along together, and maybe all you need to do is determine your mind.

I think it's because of love that we are together, and then we know our habits. Living habits are different, I think two people can be cultivated well, some things will affect each other after being together, and finally they will be better integrated. Life habits may sometimes get along more and more tacitly.

Everyone is an independent individual, we are different from others, but I really think that slowly we live together, it depends on whether your relationship can withstand the test of this period.

If the living habits of myself and my girlfriend are too different, I can tolerate her, after all, I think everyone is different, in terms of living habits, we come from different families, raised by different people, and get along with different friends along the way, if there are exactly the same living habits, it would be strange. Living habits and the like can definitely be better cultivated, living together, living together, two people together is not grinding together, grinding well means that two people can continue, if there are really a lot of contradictions and life problems because of different habits, I think it is possible. But there are still many differences between two people after they are together, and it may be a little difficult to get along in this way, but I think we can choose to give in to love, and our relationship needs to be treated well.

You need to treat it with your heart.

No matter what it is, there will be difficulties, and all kinds of difficulties in love need to be overcome by yourself. The girlfriend's living habits may be very different from herself, but some things can slowly affect each other after getting along, only the two people are getting more and more alike, and the gap will not get bigger and bigger.

So I think we can find a way to solve our problems, if you love enough, don't think about giving up easily, there will always be various difficulties to solve and overcome. No one is very much alike to anyone, and knowing how to solve it with practical solutions is the right way. If you feel that these habits are affecting your normal life, then there may be more difficulties waiting to be solved between several doors, if you don't want to, if you don't care, it means that you are not very loving, so it depends on what you think.

I think there are some things that can be slowly transformed when two people are together.