What kind of heartbreaking do you think people have to go through to be sensible?

That is to experience life and death, because only this kind of particularly painful big thing can make people really heartbreaking, and then after the real heartbreak, they can really be sensible.

People do have to go through heart-rending things before they can be sensible, because after they go through these things, they will learn something, and you can learn lessons and experience from them, so that you can become more sensible.

A person must have experienced heart-rending things before he can be sensible, because only after experiencing these things will he transform and grow after the experience, let himself understand some truths, and thus make himself sensible.

It is necessary to go through some parting, only to know how to cherish a person to understand, how to be a very sensible person, in fact, when doing things, don't be so hot when you think of what to do, you should think about it before and after, and see what kind of consequences there are in doing this, so that he can be very sensible.

After experiencing some emotional heart-rending pain, you will become mature and know that you should not do to others what you do not want to be done to yourself. Be able to deal with things better when you encounter them in the future.

It is probably that you may have to experience some snacks from relatives, or betrayal from relatives and friends, and this kind of heart-rending thing, before you really understand the meaning of growing up.

When you have experienced life and death, or being greened, you will find that you will really mature a lot after these things, and you will really be sensible.

For example, when men and women experience emotional things, I think they have to experience it very deeply, love someone, and then break up should be sensible.

The boy who has been in love for many years broke up in a few days, and it is impossible.

When you break up, when you break up with your girlfriend, you can be sad for a long time.

When I broke up with my boyfriend, who I had been in love with for many years, my heart really hurt.

After three years of hard study in high school, the college entrance examination was abnormal, and I felt that the whole person was about to collapse.

The boy I've been in love with for six years is finally together, only to find out that he doesn't love me.

After failing the college entrance examination, my life felt blurry at that time.

I failed the college entrance examination that year, and I felt that I didn't deserve to live in this world.

My beloved girlfriend got along with someone else behind my back.

On the day the business failed, all the assets were gone, and I felt that my life had fallen to the bottom.

My girlfriend of seven years chose to give up on me for the sake of her own future.

Unemployed, betrayed, domestic violence, severe depression, and a loved one diagnosed with cancer ......In 2019, I didn't have the courage to continue living!

It really hurt a lot at that time. Vocational high school has been in love for three years, just graduated from vocational high school and rented a house with the woman for two years, she only worked for three months and didn't go to work, I was busy with work, because I didn't have much time to accompany her, she asked for money and generally gave it. Even give her the card.

But she used generosity and always had no money left, and wanted to give her a future, but she said that I always work, and she met someone who could accompany her and would make her happy. Everything was all of a sudden, and I was still thinking that I had saved enough money to go to the wedding photo shoot with her, and that day I realized that there was no money left. After more than two years of separation, I didn't move, I focused all my energy on work, and my salary rose from 5,000 to more than 8,000, and sometimes I earned a little extra money, and I could earn 10,000 yuan a month.

As a result, she suddenly said that she had broken up for 3 months and complained to me, saying that she couldn't let go of me, and heard from friends that I was doing well now and still living where we lived together. I said yes, thank you, if it wasn't for you with me, I wouldn't have worked so hard, if you hadn't left me, I wouldn't have stood outside the rented room, but I didn't have the courage to enter the room and chose to work overtime until the early hours of the morning. If you were here, I wouldn't have drunk with my boss until late at night and wouldn't come home.

I love you and only I love you. I don't need you to accompany me, and I don't want you to come back to me.

When my third sister left, I felt very guilty and guilty.

There was a boy who was willing to take care of me for the rest of my life, but I found the most disgusting excuse to force him to break up, which really hurt him. Because he had a compelling reason, he just hoped that he would be well, but in the wrong way, he was forced to break up, he was very decadent, became numb, and his heart was broken. I'm really sorry, I'm sorry.

caused him to become what he is now. He can only look for it every day...

When I learned that I was betrayed by my beloved, the pain was truly heartbreaking.

That kind of pain makes you feel like your heart is going to be torn apart, and that pain makes you dare not recall, even if you think about it many years later, you will be sad, and you may never forget that feeling for the rest of your life.

Reality made me see the essence of marriage, divorce thought that life would be worse than death, marriage found, and suddenly found that a person can really withstand thousands of troops! There's nothing you can't get over! A person with three children is still alive and well, with direction, motivation, and not confused!

That was when my mother died. Although I had been prepared, I collapsed on the ground when the doctor announced that my mother was dead. When my mother was seriously ill, I fed my mother every day, and every time I finished feeding, my mother touched my head and said:

My silly boy, what are you going to do in the future! "I can't think about this scene, it's heartbreaking to think about. Maybe my mother can have a premonition of something, after she left, my father found three women in a row, and finally found one of the same age as me, I heard that their daily program before dinner was to scold me, because I had expressed my attitude:

If my dad goes out to marry another, I will take my sister, we live independently, and we can't take care of my dad.

Heart-rending pain, maybe it's the news that my father is gone, I felt that the sky was falling, but a few days ago I divorced my husband, I couldn't control my trembling, and I was dizzy when I cried, maybe I was eleven years old when my dad left, and my health was better, and I was 29 years old this year, and my body was worse hahaha.

I can't dance with my father anymore.

The moment he mentioned the breakup, he saw the news and really felt like five thunderbolts in his heart, and he obviously heard a bang in his heart, and suddenly he couldn't stand up, and the tears couldn't be stopped.

It is not easy to conceive physique, accidental fracture CT, on the third day after using a lot of medicine, I accidentally detected that I had a baby, consulted a lot of doctors, and finally had to give up, that kind of pain, it was really heartbreaking, I felt that I really couldn't live, I had insomnia and tears all night, I lost ten pounds a month, I was seriously depressed, and I would be uncomfortable until now, I dreamed that my baby asked me why I was so careless, why I didn't protect her well.

My mother died, and I cried for three days except for ...... sleep

This spring, I was at work. Received my younger brother**, and my father had a heart attack. I hurriedly drove home, a three-hour drive. By the time I got home, my father had left me and hadn't been able to see my last ......Now that I think about it, it's all like a knife.

Looking back now, I have tasted almost all the pain in the world in my life, and I once thought that every pain would make people heartbreaking, but in fact, not really, for me, the real heartbreaking is when I woke up to the moment, and I was shocked to realize that I had a very wrong understanding of the definition of "love" due to my past experience, resulting in my 51 years old not knowing what "love" is! I have been deceiving myself and thinking that "beating is love, scolding is kissing", thinking that love is pinning my "love" on others, thinking that the traditional idea of "marrying a chicken and a dog" is a virtue, and thinking that the people around me rely on me to "love" me! No!

None of these are any! True love is not mixed with any selfish desires in it, love is not to reciprocate giving, love is not to care, not to depend, love is to give, love is love

When my grandfather died, I had just graduated from college and worked, I was in other provinces, I got the news and immediately rushed back, but I still couldn't see the last one, he has always been an existence like my father, he was brought up by my grandparents since he was a child, and his feelings are very deep, and he is also the person I respect the most in my life. I remember kneeling on the train and crying in the direction of home, which alarmed many people in the carriage, it has been almost ten years, but I have never been able to forgive myself in my heart, how good it would be if I could go back a day earlier, how good it would be if I didn't go to work in other places, how good it would be if I could spend more money to buy a plane ticket, how good it would be if my grandfather was still there.

When the child has convulsions and convulsions, that feeling of helplessness.