What is it that you feel like you ve grown up a lot after going through it?

Experienced pregnancy, engagement. I think what the adults said makes sense. I am from Jiujiang and my boyfriend is from Ganzhou.

The family has always disagreed, feeling that the family is far away and poor, and it is absolutely difficult to marry in the past. I didn't believe it at the time, and I swore that my boyfriend would be good to me. But later I learned that falling in love is not the same as getting married, and marriage is about running in one family and another.

Moreover, it is the two north and south places of Jiangxi, although they are in the same province, but the ideological concepts are already 108,000 miles apart. My parents don't give in to the bride price, and his parents don't give in to the engagement. I am pregnant, and my boyfriend has to comfort me every day, don't worry about these parents, there will always be a solution to things.

But how could my parents, who gave birth to me, be indifferent in the face of their dissatisfaction with their in-laws? I hope that the girls must be cautious when marrying far away. I haven't had a baby and got married yet, and I'm already in a stalemate.

Originally, when I was in junior high school, my academic performance was very good, and I couldn't say that the top two in the grade were at least within the top five, and I could get a scholarship from the school every year, although that kind of scholarship was far from being as good as the university, but at that time it was an honor that nothing could compare. Sometimes a few of us talk about going to high school in the future, and I hear others say that they are going to a certain high school in the city, I stand aside and dare not speak, because I know that my family does not have that condition, so after the high school entrance examination, I chose the best high school in the county to study, and my class is still the best class in the school, maybe at that time a little too self-righteous, I always feel that others are not as good as myself, in fact, I don't know that in fact others are also the best students in his school, I had this mindset for a long time, so I was left behind for not keeping up with high school classes during that time.

Although I had been prepared, the sudden breaking of the amniotic water still made me scramble, and I hurriedly drove to the hospital, panicking all the way. Since the amniotic fluid can only lie down after breaking the amniotic fluid, the wife has to serve the feces and urine. chose to give birth, watched his wife in pain to despair but could not do anything, only to hold her hand and tell her to take a deep breath and come on, that kind of distress, that feeling of powerlessness, I don't want to experience it a second time.

A series of symptoms after the birth of the baby are not optimistic, running up and down, taking care of the wife, and signing all kinds of signs, the baby has to be coaxed to cry. I felt deeply tired in those days, and I was in a state where I could fall asleep while standing. The baby began to be hospitalized two days after birth, sent to the inpatient department to see him crying and almost shed tears, a stay for more than ten days, every day waiting for the hospital to play ** to explain the child's situation, the hospital said that many aspects need to be checked, I said the most is to check, do.

During the hospitalization, the little guy also had to shoulder the responsibility of comforting the weak pregnant woman, and he was afraid that his wife would be depressed. But fortunately, my wife is more optimistic. Both the child and the mother are recovering better.

Because my wife and I were married to our son, my wife's family didn't agree at first, and then I went directly to my wife's house when I got pregnant. A person drove a car to her hometown with his pregnant wife, and he had mixed feelings: I was afraid, I was afraid that my father-in-law would cut me, I was afraid that he would not let my wife and me, and I was even more afraid that I would not agree to beat the child; Nervous, because of the language barrier, I can't understand the dialect of my wife's house, I can't understand all of them chatting, I only know that they are talking about me, but I don't know what to say.

I was worried, what to say after seeing my father-in-law, how to guarantee him that he would agree. I was happy, and when I saw the bride price that my father-in-law talked about directly after chatting, the big stone in my heart was put down at once, because I had to talk. In just a few days, I feel that I have experienced a lot and grown a lot.

When I was 18 years old, the day I put on my military uniform, I suddenly felt that I had really grown up and could be said to be a real man! Since then, whether in the army or in the factory, I have been struggling, working hard, and constantly improving, and I have also made some achievements. Today, when I look back on the journey I've come:

From a peasant's son to a glorious people's soldier, worker, and doctor, he has been full of emotion along the way! I am deeply grateful to the parents who gave birth to me and raised me, to the great motherland, and to the happy new era of socialism!

When I was in middle school, the family was very difficult, I was not very sensible, once my mother was crushed by the burden of the family, and I was no longer able to provoke Lai Dan to sell vegetables to make money, when my mother was not cured to sell Lai, I followed her, afraid that she would fall, the sky was just bright, we got up, wiped the sleepy eyes of the fishy pine, one foot high and one foot low on the road, looking at the mother's slightly bent waist, walking with a swaying step, carrying a heavy burden, under the dim lamp, the thin figure, stretched and shortened on the ground, over and over again, I took over my mother's burden, and for the first time tasted the weight of the heavy burden of the family, and in the future, I often shared the labor for my mother, and secretly decided to work hard to make sure that my mother had a good life, and after a few years, this wish finally came true.

There was a high school student who went to eat alone in a place where no one was having lunch every day at lunchtime. After a long time, the classmates are curious about what good things he eats every day? Later, I found that I often eat my own bread, steamed buns and pickles, but this student is an excellent student in the school, and the teacher is not asking him to tutor the students, and the school wants to send them to a prestigious school.

As a result, he was admitted to a prestigious school. Later, I asked him why he was so energetic? Seeing his parents working hard in farming, he was embarrassed to borrow money from relatives for him, which deeply touched his heart, and after experiencing being looked down upon by others, he was determined to study hard and win back face for his parents.

How can you see the rainbow without going through the wind and rain, and there are many cases of the prodigal son turning back and not changing the money, and he is not afraid of poverty in life, but he is afraid of no ambition.

Have you ever experienced despair? Haha, I think the hardest thing is when taking a child, breastfeeding every two hours or so, you need to help the child change diapers, wash the fart, burp, soothe the child, and have to cook and wash clothes, it's so busy, fortunately, the baby's grandmother came to help take care of it, and I feel that there is no time to rest every day. The child has a bad habit, sleeping a lot during the day and not sleeping at night, making a lot of noise, which makes my wife and I doubt life.

When a child cries, we will all see the deep helplessness in each other's eyes and the exhaustion written on their faces.

After experiencing setbacks, I grew up with the following sample essay:

The grass will not always be green, there will always be a time to wither; Flowers will not always be gorgeous, there will always be a time to wither; The sky won't be clear all the time, there will always be times when the clouds are thick; Life will not be smooth sailing, and there will always be times when there will be ups and downs. However, it is precisely because of these countless difficulties that life will not stop exciting!

When she was one year old, under a green tree in the yard, a pair of young parents were watching their child learn to walk, but the child staggered and fell down after a few steps, and the parents on the side did not pick her up immediately, but gently helped her and continued to watch her stagger.

Yes, from the fall of the child to get up from, and finally, the child learns to walk. This kid is me. One morning when she was five years old, a little girl was afraid to go out with her school bag on her back, her face was full of fear, she was afraid that she would be bullied in kindergarten.

At this time, her grandfather took her little hand and said to her, "Don't be afraid, child, it's fun in kindergarten."

Finally, the little girl plucked up the courage to walk towards the kindergarten, and as a result, she had a good day. This girl is me. When she was ten years old, one beautiful evening, a "red scarf" walked home with an unsatisfactory test paper in her hand, her head bowed, and a few cold tears hung on her red cheeks.

When I got home, my mother didn't beat or scold her after reading the test papers.

Just gave her an encouraging look. Since then, she has worked hard. Ranked at the top of every exam.

This "red scarf" is me. At the age of thirteen, one hot noon, a schoolboy joined a dozen other people on the playground for basketball practice. On this day, the teacher asked everyone to practice shooting, and the first few students all succeeded, until the last student.

She threw the basketball up as the teacher asked, but the basketball didn't even touch the rack. And he fell. She was so sad that she left the team and stopped practicing.

Seeing her sad appearance, the coach came over and patted her on the shoulder without saying anything, but gave her enough confidence that she began to shoot with her classmates again, and the shooting was getting better and better. This student is me.

After experiencing setbacks, I grew up.

The grass will not always be green, there will always be a time to wither; Flowers will not always be gorgeous, there will always be a time to wither; The sky won't be clear all the time, there will always be times when the clouds are thick; Life will not be smooth sailing, there will always be times of ups and downs However, it is precisely because of these countless difficulties that life will be wonderful!

When I was one year old, under a green tree in the yard, a pair of young parents were watching their child learn to walk, but the child staggered and fell down after a few steps, and the parents on the side did not pick her up immediately, but gently helped her and continued to watch her stagger forward Yes, from the ** fall from the ** stand up, and finally, the child learned to walk This child is me

One morning when she was five years old, a little girl was afraid to go out with her schoolbag on her back, her face was full of fear, she was afraid that she would be bullied in kindergarten At this time, her grandfather took her little hand and said to her: "Child, don't be afraid, kindergarten is fun..."In the end, the little girl plucked up the courage to go to the kindergarten, and she had a very happy day, and this girl was me

When I was ten years old, a beautiful dusk, a "red scarf" held an unsatisfactory test paper, lowered her head, and walked home dejectedly, with a few cold tears hanging on her red cheeks When I got home, my mother didn't scold her after reading the test paper, but just gave her an encouraging look Since then, she has worked hard I have been at the top of every exam This "red scarf" is me