Tell us how you are falling behind others?

When I was a freshman, I thought that I must go to college, but if I studied hard in a junior college, I would be ridiculed, that is, I got up early on the weekend and went to the library with a book, and my roommate would say oh yes, good student, and then I insisted on it for a while, and then I slowly got up late and slept late, so I was assimilated like this, and to put it bluntly, I still blame myself for not being firm.

In junior high school, I kept in the top 20 in my grade, and in the third year of junior high school, everyone started to work hard, and I kept in the top 10. After the high school entrance examination, they wanted to stay at their alma mater and continue to complete the study of minor languages, but the best of their grades scattered and went to various prestigious schools. At this time, I became the so-called first in the grade, and the fifth in the class at that time also became the second in the grade.

The gap is still that big, but there is no one to fill the gap. Before I knew it, I also began to slowly degenerate, my homework was always procrastinated, I was addicted, and my good habit of reading was slowly lost, and finally, in an exam in my second year of high school, I was dropped to the third in my grade.

After reading it, I think you should also understand, yes, it was my Chinese grades that dragged me to death (in fact, I was too lazy, too self-controlled, too. ###

Because of playfulness, grades began to deteriorate, sometimes even the bottom of the class, in the third year of junior high school, I felt that I couldn't do this, so I studied hard and read a year, and my grades remained at the upper middle level, and I went to a boarding school in the middle school entrance examination.

When I was in the first and second grades, I started to take English Olympiad extracurricular classes, so my grades have always belonged to the kind that are particularly tolerant to teachers, so I slowly became conceited, and even in cram school, my grades slowly regressed.

The teacher didn't check the texts strictly, and in my opinion, memorizing the texts was very ridiculous, and then the English became worse and worse, and the skills were disintegrated little by little.

After the second year of high school, most of the people in the class didn't like to read books in the liberal arts they chose, so I was slowly led astray, and I began to feel that everyone didn't study, and I didn't study anymore, anyway, even if I didn't study, I could get a good ranking, and then I was so confused.

Sometimes I make up my mind to study hard, but because I am lazy and tired, I feel tired of doing it, so I find various reasons to give up.

When someone else is reading a book, you are looking at your phone; When others are trying to make money, you lie in the bed and sleep lazy; While others are expanding their network, you stay at home. You say how you are lagging behind, it's strange if you don't lag behind.

Addicted to the online world, as well as all kinds of online games, coupled with the rebellious period of disobedience, there will be no return.

In high school, I felt unhappy about studying. The first exam ranking was in the middle and bottom, and then there was hard work but the results were not satisfactory.

Making the wrong choice, plus laziness.

No, I don't know how to learn, I've been at a loss.

Ever since I had the mobile phone as an ally.

Why do I feel like I'm one step behind others? Why?

Actually, you feel very good about it. Why is it so good? It's simple, and the first step isn't necessarily a good thing.

So the real smart guy is the second part. Because the first step is often accompanied by great risks and dangers. Of course, in theory, but you actually feel like you're a step behind others.

This is because you find that the first step taken by others is played before you because there is no danger but only benefits, so you feel one step behind others. But in reality, if you are faced with an unknown situation with others, you will definitely not want to take the first step. Then someone else will take the first step with a lot of dangers that they don't know.

So if that's the case, you won't feel like you're one step behind others, and you'll even feel glad you're in the second step. And avoid the danger. And in this situation, although you are one step behind others, you can show off for nothing by people who are one step behind you, so it proves that you are also a pioneer.

Someone who has played before you has played it, and there are people who haven't played it after you. Except for the first one, everyone is left behind. There's a saying that there's nothing new under the sun, and you think so and so do others.

Since you perceive that you feel that you are lagging behind, then you should be exposed to something new.

There is also a saying: When you think it's too late, it's the earliest.

It may be because you are not confident enough and have a bit of low self-esteem. So you have to have confidence in yourself, be confident, be optimistic, don't feel that you are lagging behind others, you have to feel that you are as good as them, or even better than others.

Everyone's life and life are in their own stage, maybe you are taking exams at this stage and you are working at the next stage, but it is possible that others have already achieved a certain victory in society when you are studying, so you don't have to think too much. No matter what stage you are in, as long as you are motivated, you will always keep moving forward on your own path. Come on.

Maybe it's inferiority in my heart and I don't have confidence. Try harder and you won't feel that way. Communicate more with others, integrate into society, and let yourself go.

Why do you feel one step behind others and why?

First of all, it has nothing to do with you that others are one step faster, and you don't care.

Then, you can only care if you are happier than you were yesterday.

Finally, remember that everyone's starting point is different, but not necessarily everyone's end point and speed are the same, don't blindly catch up, and forget that your end is in **, go your own way, and find the most suitable speed for your life.

Because you often see people who are better than you, it proves that you are still more self-motivated, which is a good thing. Get the right mindset and you'll succeed.

You can jokingly or humorously say to him: I wanted the stupid bird to fly first, but you turned out to be one step faster, so that you could give yourself a step.

There are ups and downs in life, there are troughs, don't envy others, only work hard and work hard to live a famous life.

This may also be related to your parents' attitude towards you, or it may be that you are not confident, timid, and afraid to take the next step.

There is no need to compare, remember, the road of life is never about speed but about length.

This kind of psychology shows that you have low self-esteem.

Because it's your mental work.

At this time, there is no need to be discouraged, just do your best, there is no need to compare.

Because you are not confident, believe in yourself.

People's desires cannot be satisfied, and a mountain is still high. You have to have this in mind.